wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?
SETIAKawan
wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?
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True love only lasts about five years...Originally Posted by skyvampire
Then responsibility takes over.....
Budiman
well, love is not always about being on cloud 9 kinda love... love is about :-
1. being understood when nothing is said
2. doing something exceptional without being asked
3. just simply holding hands and looking into each others eyes
Budiman
Love is to drive from Malacca to Penang every weekend in rain or shine just to hold hands before the "till death do we part" chapter. Thereafter, when wife got expanded with little ones, hubby too tired to take dear wife to Giant 2 blocks away and ask wife to ta pow sar hor fun so he can have his fill watching FA cup.
Budiman
Hmmmm... start walking ( out the door, i guess.... )
But then again.... tell me, how many men got the bolas to do that...
The problem is never one-sided... it is always both sides of the bed that contributes to the breakdown... and the major culprit... is the lack of communication. Too busy with daily life and routines so much so that even the basic nice-cities are ignored. Even getting intimate or making love oso is like a rush thing...
Kinda sh!tty but thats life...
SETIAKawan
Love is to drive from Malacca to Penang every weekend in rain or shine just to hold hands before the "till death do we part" chapter. Thereafter, when wife got expanded with little ones, hubby too tired to take dear wife to Giant 2 blocks away and ask wife to ta pow sar hor fun so he can have his fill watching FA cup.
ya... i also agree !!!
Banana - name-calling
Sing it the Dionne Warwick way:
You’ve lost that lovin’ feelin’
Ohh that lovin’feelin’
You’ve lost that lovin’ feelin’
Now its gone, gone , gone, whoaohoh
Baby baby, I’d get down on my knees for you
If you would only love me, love me like you used to do
You know that,
We had a love , a love, a love you don’t find every day,
No no, no no, no no no no no no no
So don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t, baby don’t throw it away
Na na, don’t throw it away, don’t throw it away
Now baby, oh baby, I beg you baby, oh baby
I beg you please, I need your love
So bring it on back, bring it back
Bring it back, bring it, bring it, bring it back
Cheer up, mate......life's too short....think of the good times you had with her before your lost that feeling
Budiman
kpc you need to break the 5 yr barrier man...you Kungfu looking guy can do it, right..start with the kung fu stand and make some moves bro and hopefully a a lady looking like a Hkg actress will fall for you..may the lord ganesh help you in your quest...plse go to a temple and break some coconuts with your bare hands kung fu stylesure boleh dapat.....btw 5 years is not the norm for the rest, so it is not the Msian sirim standard yet.
Budiman
"is luv exist?" - erm... not in the Oxford dictionary? hehe...
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If I may suggest a few pointers to help keep that flame glowing:
* Both parties should make a point to look decently good after years of
marriage especially when going out in public. Dont take for granted. Make
your partner feel good about his/her other half. Many Malaysian women
after giving birth tend to forsake their appearance and dressing. Tend to
allow themselves to be inflated and dress like a real auntie.
* Try to look for attributes in your partner. The minuses seem to surface
after marriage and it becomes daunting to the other half. Try to accept
that we all have negative points. So dont just point a finger at your
partner. Accept that and look for the plusses.
* For the women, try to imagine you are still dating your man. Manja and
pamper him. For the man, continue to treat her like you did when you were
wooing her. Small things count. eg.If you had open doors for her when
dating, continue to do that.
Then you should have smoother sailing, albeit some ripples here and there. No Success in luv and marriage comes without hard work. Good luck and Regards.
Budiman
I think i will skip this one too many on this mushy thingy on this forum of late I will leave this one to the love experts to handle.
Last edited by Ski; 11-09-2005 at 05:01 PM.
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Pay her to go for liposuction at sunway hospital...
Budiman
now i REALLY wish u were my flip-phone..
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The guy need help, I am giving real life, workable suggestions.
A lot of people cannot accept the truth that looks are very important in relationships......
Banned
My mother said 1 year already get bored....btw 5 years is not the norm for the rest, so it is not the Msian sirim standard yet.
That's why guy have to find girl at least 8 years younger....
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