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    DiZiGui Part 9th
    Note picked by Lim Kian Pooh dated 190819


    1. DiZiGui advises children to greet their parent twice daily during morning before they left for studying and in the afternoon after they are back to home from studying.

    2. As a young student even though financially not capable to support and look after their parent, the least they must do is to ensure they will not make their parent worry about them.

    3. Whenever away from home, children can communicate via phone contact to update their whereabouts and what's they are doing .

    4. This is teaching in DiZiGui as our speech and behaviour during outing will not make them worry. Such gesture will further upgrade and enhance parent children relationship.

    5. Same case applies to husband wife. Must notify each other whenever want to go out in order to make them have peace in mind.

    6. Husband and wife must mutually be sincere and try not to hide any secret behind or cover up . It is hard to get along together with this kind of attitude.

    7. Managing a home is about Inclusiveness and sincerely.

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    8. In managing our life, self discipline is important to ensure our study ( as student), career ( workplace), marriage (home) successful.

    9. Parent should regulate their children particularly in weekend outdoor unhealthy activity.

    10. Parent must put extra caution in controlling their children exposure to internet and social networking as it's never bringing benefit at the end.

    11. Hi tech gadget is bringing bad influence as children is not getting their moral value and learning spirit improved.

    12. Forever parent will regret if their children life is getting spoilt and hard to make up again.

    13. To let our parent not worry, We must have a steady and reliable career or job. Husband and wife are living in harmony .

    14. A secure marriage is about Inclusiveness and forgiveness. Attitude towards our spouse is about what can I serve for you as it is not suppose to be what you must serve for me. And we should look only on our spouse strengths and not weaknesses.

    15. Always maintain warmer ties, attitude of indifference to our spouse is source of problem why husband wife can't get along.

    16. Key elements on How to get along with people
    - giving
    - recognition
    - accommodate and facilitate
    - mutual understanding

    Note end.

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    Di Zi Gui Chapter 10
    Ivy Tan’s Sharing Day 10

    1. We must go about things steadily & surely do not move restlessly. Do not lose support of people when we do rushed decisions that may damage relationships. We must be able to part without hard feelings when leaving a job to start or starting another career elsewhere. Don’t let any resentment feelings in another party that arise from your leaving block your future career development.

    2. The wealth and riches cannot be obtained through fighting You can never get something unless you are destined to have it. You reap what you sow. Donate more to charity and good cause & contribute more to society to get more fortune.

    3. Though a matter may be small, don’t act arbitrarily. If one act’s arbitrarily, the character that a son ought to possess gets damaged. Though a thing may be small, don’t selfishly hoard it. If one selfishly hoards, the parents’ hearts will be hurt.

    4. Parents have to urge repeatedly and warn their children in some aspects especially safety. So long the actions can cause danger to their life & involve the rules, regulations & law, we must remind many times to abide by the rules. Example remind them on rules & safety when crossing the road, play with fireworks or firecrackers can cause fire, swimming without inform. These reminders can increase their sensitivity and reduce the chances of accidents happening.

    5. Also must let them know cannot do actions that cause others danger and harm. Example, a small prank we play cause a child to be paralyzed whole life. Must teach them one careless negligent may cause a whole life of suffer and grief to the person and family, friends who care. May be a whole life hurt to the parents even a small action, as such, must remind our child cannot do anything that endanger others.

    6. Must abide by the rules, cannot simply throw rubbish everywhere. Even the matter looks small but when becomes a habit, it is embarrassing to family and country. It must start with ourselves, do not embarrass our country, do our part by keeping clean & throw rubbish in the dustbins.

    7. Academic credentials does not represent proper upbringing or cultural education. What is most important in education is to teach a person to behave, to be an upright person, how to conduct oneself, how to handle affairs. If school cannot these these well, in family or household should at least grasp the foundation first. A teacher may try their best to teach but they need to face so many students, not easy. The only way is parents actively cooperate with teachers so that their child is easier to observe rules & obey orders in their life’s behavior and conduct.

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    8. When we hear people say we do not have proper upbringing in our conduct, we immediately will restrain from doing. We also afraid our parents will be ashamed and embarrassed because of our behavior.

    9. In bringing up a child, parents must be more attentive. When they are still small and do not have ability to judge right or wrong may walk off with something, take something without knowing it is wrong, they think it is fun and amusing. When a child has done no good conduct or commit something wrong, it will express on their face with a guilty conscience.

    10. Teacher Cai shared a story of a mother who saw the facial expression of her child is different & upon check his bag found some apples. When questioned, the child was stammering and told took the apples due to fun of it when they pass by a fruit stall, the atmosphere of merely taking makes him take as his friends took it. The mother immediately brought the child back to the store and bowed & apologized to the owner. Although the owner was busy and said it doesnt matter, the mother paid for the apples and made the child apologize. When they do wrong for the first time we immediately curb them, they will remember this deeply for whole life and never repeat again. They feel ashamed when see parents bow and apologize to people.

    11. The parents way of teaching others by ones own example make children feel ashamed of own behavior & conduct, A child may do wrong but so long they do wrong we catch this opportunity to guide them correctly, this is a good chance to educate them.

    12. We cannot let them accustomed to small matters that we may overlook such as accidentally taking an item that not belonging to us. Must teach child not to be always on the lookout for petty advantages. When small may steal a needle, but when grow up may steal gold. Cannot take other peoples belongings as the impact is profound and lasting. Once greedy, the things they like or desire will use all means to steal or snatch it.

    13. Besides being dutiful & filial, a child must be taught to be incorrupt, honest & clean, then we will have a better society an brighter future. Every parents and teachers effort will never be wasted. Must also instill unselfishness and sharing attitude in children, teach them to share good things with others, dont just think of themselves. This will build good personality and characteristic in child. Teach child good things must share with friends, learn to think on behalf of others, others will feel happy and treat you good.

    14. Moral integrity can only be truly revealed when no one is watching but still practiced. These people with high integrity although not greedy on money and gold, they earn credit & karmic rewards, good deeds, become good example of moral character.

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    15. Parents must educate child to love public or government properties and assets, must not take for personal use. All these public assets come from taxpayer’s money, so belong to so many people, not us only. If you steal, you owe, so many people debt, will not be able to pay back. Must guide our child any object has owner, cannot just because we are fond of something, we take it.

    16. People are misled to think that wealth, money and high ranking is most important, this will cause child to have wrong thinking. The more money we have the more worry. We will envy people have more money than us, this will never leave us in peace of mind. Real wealth is be contented with one’s lot, be satisfied with what we have. When we know content, then we will enjoy everlasting pleasure and enjoyment in life. If they don’t learn to be contented, no matter how much money you have, you will still feel deficient.

    17. When you have money but no wisdom, money may become a disaster. With money, a lot of seduction and temptation out there may cause us to ruin our whole life. Entrepreneurs work very hard, labor hard with one’s strength, work more than 8 hours a day but in the mid of their life found out they have cancer or diagnose with serious illness. To tax one’s mind and body but in the end there is nothing we can bring along with death, in the end no time to enjoy.

    18. Life is busy (heart is dead, cannot feel parents, wife or child’s needs and feelings). After that, eyes become blinded (cannot see own responsibility and duties, only know must earn money). In the end, feel at a loss and confused. Do not know why I am doing all this what do I get? We must know our intention why we are putting in efforts in our life what is our direction and purpose or goal. Our initial purpose of efforts and earning money is not playing the money game but to have a happy family life.

    19. Another condition that entrepreneurs fall into is be put in chains and thrown into prison for taking a dangerous risk that failed. This is the result of greed that we must remind our children not to do.

    20. The third type of entrepreneurs earn a lot of money but due to entertain clients, they suffer poor health. When you no longer have health, you cannot enjoy wealth, the rest of your life may only be surrounded by medicine.

    21. The most successful entrepreneurs are the ones who know how to balance career and family life. This is the most ideal and perfect situation. When we realize family is important, we will find a way to balance & put family first, “where there is a will, there is a way”.

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    Di Zi Gui Chapter 11
    Ivy Tan's Sharing Day 11


    1. Parents should seeks for own happiness and childrens happiness according to fixed rules and reasonably. We hope child happy but we must ensure we are also happy, if we are not happy how to guide our child to be happy.

    2. What is real happiness? Contentment brings happiness. If you know content, in relationship with others, will know gratitude people will like being with our children. Happy is being free from all anxieties, carefree. Be satisfied with what one has .Have manners & moral standards, have an easy conscience. Childs freedom is their wealth. Dont be over worry or too anxious of what we shouldnt, about petty matters regarding our child. But also do not care or observe our child at all.

    3. When they are still not mature enough, must make sure their foundation is strong, when they have proper moral conduct and meet with lifes predestined relationship, principal & subsidiary causes in life, we do not need to control them. If we control, we become tired, they also become tired.

    4. Take for example, teaching a child to drive a car. Before they are on the steering wheel, we teach them well, once they already on the steering wheel, we have to let go. Do not control which direction they need to go, dont control their steering wheel. Teach while small, not after grown up, or both suffer when the child makes wrong decision in life.

    5. Happiness is being healthy. Is not something we can demand or request for. Is our eating, drinking habits, emotion must look after well. Body must maintain in good health.

    6. We must take pleasure in helping others. If only think of ourselves will live a life of always swayed by considerations of loss and gain, always worry about personal loss & gain.

    7. Show goodwill & good intentions child will learn by example. From small teach children to help others, to invest energy and time in friendship or helping people and fell the pleasure from helping others. Get them exposed to more of such experiences.

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    8. From small grandparents live together, parents easier to show example of showing loving care and great attentiveness to grandparents for children to learn. To support and wait upon one’s parents is our life’s is our honor. We must really cherish if have the chance to live with our parents. Repay our parents kindness we feel very happy and realistic.

    9. Our siblings are the ones that accompany us the longest in life. If their life and career are well and their life safe and without accident or death, our family in harmony.

    10. We must carry out our duty and do our part accordingly, we will live everyday with peace of mind and without anxiety. If we always do deeds that troubles or weighs on one’s conscience, always have to be secretive and try to cover up. From now on, we must have done nothing to be ashamed of.

    11. Help others and take pleasure in it. For example, when you have a new colleague, help him accustomed to the work environment in terms of capability. If his home have problem, share some ideas on how to manage and operate a household.

    12. Parents & teachers will never envy your achievement. So we must contribute back to society as appreciation.

    13. Universe will reward those with sincere, virtuous & good hearts. Do good deeds & get good return.

    14 . Complete sincerity can span across time. The teaching of sincere ancient virtue men benefit a lot of students today.

    15. Our moral conducts & filial behavior can awaken conscious of bad people as bandits do bad things out of bad habits but all man is born good. They will be touched with our good conducts & dutiful behaviour to please our parents.

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    Di Zi Gui Chapter 12
    Ivy Tan Sharing Day 12


    1. Teach child theory through stories to make them understand better. Teach them to be more alert what their parents like to eat, not just think and buy what we like, must put our parents first.

    2. When obtain something, consider the origin whether or not it is normal, source is pure & clean. Be aware of goods that may be result of crime origin such as robbery, loot or snatch thieves. These items we must not accept or take, must educate our child this theory and tell them some stories to reinforce, strengthen their knowledge.

    3. Parents put importance on our health. Health comes from eating. A lot of lifestyle diseases comes from eating. Knowledge is power. How to eat more healthy food? Read bestselling books on health and learn from it.

    4. Nowadays child do not lack of nutrition only over eating and nutrition. Too much protein can hurt our liver and kidney when our body over acidic will cause slow chronic disease. Too much acid, body will take calcium from our bones to balance up. This will result in calcium deficiency in our bone in long run.

    5. Must have a balanced diet. Do not consume too much meat, take more vegetables. Meat contains too much protein.

    6. Meat contains injected hormones to make animals grow fast which is detrimental to health. This is visible toxin which can be seen at layers of meat when you eat, can see the oily part. That is why some girls already reach puberty before age of 10. When they get period faster, their life span become shorter. These food affecting our next generation so as parents, must be careful to take care of their health. At the same time we must treasure our own health.

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    7. None visible toxin, when animals are being killed, the emotion that released is toxic. The meat we eat are poisonous and unhealthy.

    8. The animal feed also has dangerous effect to earth. The earth is a life community, a slight move in one part may affect the whole earth. The things that we eat daily affect the earth’s survival or perish. To produce the feed, need to chop down forest and trees to plant crops and grains. This cause landslide, mudslide and debris flow.

    9. The forest is our earth’s lungs. It provides oxygen and clean off dirty air, remove carbon dioxide. When our forest depreciate, the quality of air become bad and the weather becomes more and more unstable. The greenhouse effect emerges due to human emitting a lot of waste gas and our forest being chopped down.
    The waste produce from the animals reared also pollute our soil and water source.

    10. Actually humans can live a relaxed and clean life if only we have the habit of choosing food & beverages that benefit us and environment. Actually doing environment protection and being environmental friendly is in our everyday practice & implementation. When we eat must be with the thought & mission to protect the health of our earth.

    11. When we have the knowledge only can take care our health and continue to do things that pleases our parents, make an effort to possess what our parents like.

    12. What our parents despise, carefully get rid of. The bad habit must quickly get rid off, stay away from harmful friends that our parents warn us of. As bad friends have strong influence on us.

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    13. Parents must promote and elevate the ability of their child in judging people. Then, our children will learn to befriend kind hearted, good and honest people instead. They will know how to avoid & keep a distant from evil people. They will learn to make a decisions in making friends and how to judge a moral character can be seen from filial duty. Is it worth to befriend this person we judge from how much this person has practiced Di Zi Gui. Di Zi Gui is a monster-revealing mirror, used to choose friends and can reveal who is loyal friends that can befriend for life.

    14. Bad habits like smoking & watching drama episodes, our whole life we cannot control, we will be controlled & lead along by the bad habits That is why from small educate them, must have ambition and aspirations.

    15. Pursuit of petty pleasures thwarts high aims, pleasure-seeking undermines lofty aspirations. Time is like flowing water, once flow away will have no return, same as our life so do not waste life.

    16. Must teach sense of responsibility, must be able to take care ourselves before we get married and take acre of a family. Find a partner must find one with sense of responsibility.

    17. Gambling is a bad habit that is hard to control, can lose whole property of family and even ancestors, so must be careful when selecting such life partner.

    18. Once we are arrogant, our learning will be hindered, natural affinity with people will be lost as people with good moral conduct likes to befriend humble people.
    One cannot have air of arrogance or haughtiness, but one must possess strength of character or moral integrity. We must cultivate children's humble behavior.

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    19. People put high respect on the dignity of the teaching profession because teachers selflessly use their wisdom to help you success and have achievement in life. They never ask for any repay.

    20. Cannot let child learn to be too luxurious. If necessary, do not bring them often to too luxurious place to avoid them used to live an extravagant life. A woman also must not overly dress or makeup, do not be excessive or appear too luxurious.

    21. Must also stop our child from indulge in some unfavorable desires that make them uncontrollable, like play computer games, may indulge for hours without stopping. When they find learning is fun & have aspirations, will not waste time on these unmeaningful things that waste time and demoralizing.

    22. Let children share the load & do more manual work and house work so that they will not love ease and hate work. When they appreciate hard work then only they learn gratitude.

    23. Nowadays, children do not know gratitude as they have only to open one’s mouth to be fed and hold out one’s arms to be dressed-lead an easy life, with everything provided; be waited on hand and foot.

    24. The more manual work they do the stronger the willpower.

    25. Teach children birthdays are their mothers suffering to deliver so must have gratitude instead of just thinking of celebration.

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    Briefly: The subject of repentance and pledge making

    In the learning of Super Life Codes System, I reckon that this subject is of paramount importance. We must have a clear understanding of this subject to progress well in our learning. If we know how to manage our negative energy and debtors, many obstacles in our path of life can be removed, our daily activities will be smoother.

    For a new student who is still not so clear about this subject, I suggest you read the "Fountain of Healing" and revisit SLSC chapter 6 again. I hope below examples can be of good reference as what to repent.

    Repentance is sincerely regretted all the wrongdoing that had created lots of negativity for others.

    1. Repenting of the past wrongful affairs, many grievances, accusing and blaming of others. Lack of care and concerns for others.

    2. Repenting of individual bad character, bad habits and all non-virtue acts, regrated for such unethical behaviour causing many unhealthy sentiments and resentments in the path of life.

    3. Repenting to the people around me, for not being grateful to them, selfishness and inconsiderate for others.

    4. Repenting for not being able to have a good family, not knowing how to care and with a correct approach of loves for the family, often has a lot of unpleasantness and disagreement resulted with traumas and resentments.

    5. Repenting for not knowing how to be grateful to the benefactors,people who facilitate my life and conveniences me, not grateful to parents, brothers and sister also not grateful to the grace and blessing (of health, luck and fortune) bestow upon me from the heavens and the earth.

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    6. Repenting for hurting others because of my wrongful actions, in negative speech and unethical reactions in expressing my frustration towards them which had brought some kind of pains of unhappiness between them and me.

    7. Repenting to the universe
    I have not fulfilled my duties, failed to act in accordance with the truth of Heaven and Earth, and made many unethical incidents, doing things that could damage the humility and the beauty of this world. Failing the kindness of my parents and the loves of the Universe.

    All these are my misconceptions and bad behaviours. I sincerely repent and ask for forgiveness.

    Now I am willing to learn the teaching of Super Life Secret Code, learning the teaching and application of 'Love and Gratitude' to improve my life, nourish my life towards holistic abundance at the same time to benefit mankind and the society.

    Gratitude to the Universe for granting me the opportunity to learn this Super Life Secret Codes in changing to be a virtuous person. Gratitude to Master Sun for teaching us to improve our life with this life enhancement program.

    On completion of repentance, there is a portion of pledge making, which is creating meritorious deeds and transform the merits to negative energy in repaying for our past wrongdoing. Examples:
    1. Distributing free book like "Fountain of Healing" or "Thousand years" and invite others to learn and improve their life.
    2. Sharing with others regarding the achievement of resolving daily problems and experiences in applying "Love and gratitude" method.
    3. Suitable action in helping others that can benefit mankind in terms of moral and virtue are also a form of good deeds.

    The key point for an effective pledge making is quality and quantity,set a timeline to complete it. (Example) Like within 2 weeks to distribute 100 copies of free distribution books to people and return these merits to negative energy during repentance to resolve the problem you are facing.

    Attending group study and discussion do help in better understanding of the learning of Super Life Code System. Do consult or clarify doubts with the host who is conducting the study group discussion, their experience could assist you well in certain areas.

    Gratitude to our Venerable Master Ted Sun. We are grateful to receive valuable teachings and guidance.
    We are grateful to the Kindness of Heaven and Earth,granted us the opportunity and we are grateful to receive the knowledge and understanding of the Super Life Codes System.

    With Loves From Same Lee. 17/8/19.

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    Prepared To Live A Virtue Life Of Happiness

    In life I had experienced many ups and downs with joys and sorrows, I do enjoy having a happy family before, however happiness unable to sustain for the whole lifetime. Come to a time when pressure and demands increased, the situation started to change, as I was unable to cope with changes, distresses developed, many encounters started to brings a lot of calamity with pains, as per my experiences many sorrowful events started to emerge after age of 50.

    Life is a process of learning to cope with various changes and dilemmas, life is an evolution of fate, we need to be grateful for whatever we have, whatever we possessed if we do not know how to cherish it, we will tend to lose it either way, as we grew older with age, its very difficult to have the ability and the opportunity to recover any loses again. Only when we know it is important, we will then wake up, no matter what life is, how difficult it could be, we will still need to find a way to continue living.

    After learning "Super Life Secret Codes" and reading of the "Fountain of Healing", I can fully agree that life is like a dream, the moment of happiness is only temporary, the memories usually filled up with traumas of pains. Everything in life could seem to be fruitless, it turns up to be a common phenomenon for most of the people with age above 50. Unless we can understand what is life and willing to let go of our past resentments.

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    Life is the stage of the drama, we created the situation of what we are today, it is our own doing, there is no one to blame, we should not feel the world is unfair to us. Our life is in our own hands, we must not surrender to fate. Countless of undue attachment, many instants of traumas drama and sufferings, there will still be many occasions of laughter, although many helpless occasions that make us suffers from pain and tears.

    Regardless of rich and poor, unless we know the importance of creating good deeds in this life, all other things do not really matter anymore, because when impermanency comes, or when physical body deteriorates to beyond repairable, life will need to reach the end of physical journey in this world, when our body enters into the crematorium, what is left behind could be a small pile of bones. After a while, children and grandchildren may have forgotten about who we are, only our soul may still exist, who am I, where should I go, we could be lost in the vast space in another dimension.

    Hence, unless we know and willing to invest some time in cultivation and improving our spiritual life, the soul can then be free to travel around the horizon. To have a clearer direction in this physical life, create sufficient value and merits till the end of the life journey, then only our soul will have the positive energy with a predetermined direction to be able to travel with the lights to another destination of higher consciousness dimension.

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