I think most of the forummers have teenage children,maybe 2,3 or 4.Growing up nowadays have full of challanges so are we parents.What i want forummers is to share their bits of their problems and solving it.Anyone out there?
Budiman
I think most of the forummers have teenage children,maybe 2,3 or 4.Growing up nowadays have full of challanges so are we parents.What i want forummers is to share their bits of their problems and solving it.Anyone out there?
Budiman
Got...here's for sharing:Originally Posted by jan tomaswaki
I think most of the forummers have teenage children,maybe 2,3 or 4.Growing up nowadays have full of challanges so are we parents.What i want forummers is to share their bits of their problems and solving it.Anyone out there?
"Listen! You eat my food. You live in my house. Your clothes are bought with my money. You school/college fees are paid by me. Your bed, wardrobe, iphone, ipad, bedroom aircon bill, Everything you have paid for and belong to me. SO to keep it short & simple.
You better follow my rules.
Else if you think you know all, you can solve everything. You are all Big & small...
then to keep peace for everyone, Please Move out and find/fund your own lifestyle. Only then you really & truly can do whatever the things you see as 'right'. Capishe?"
Yang Baginasihat ToonIstimewaUtamaXlatotupai
in luv with bikes...in lust with AphroditeS AWAS! Suspek is an Avid procurer to myths, lies, legends, folklores, i-ching, rumors, misinformation, cakap-ayam, spɹoʍ uʍop ǝpısdn puɐ˙˙DLL .
p/s Take all the above with a XL salted duck egg, wash down with 2fingers of sodium hypochoride, and suck on to a pebble size tmn negara Rock salt
Budiman
From one TV movie.
Dad tells son.. (Afro-American lingo)
"Yo!..You live in my house, eat my food, you live by my rules"
Trouble is...kid go where?...in this land, a reality and the possibility and chance of them becomes worse off or the worst case future for them outside or on their own all of a sudden. This isn't USA or EU! or TV land scene!
Banned
Just simple advice - Time is finite, spend more time with them...I think most of the forummers have teenage children,maybe 2,3 or 4.Growing up nowadays have full of challanges so are we parents.What i want forummers is to share their bits of their problems and solving it.Anyone out there?
Budiman
For better or worstis how Parents can choose to guide/instruct/steer the teens...if they failed to listen or rebel too often, then it is time to cut the cord...From one TV movie.
Dad tells son.. (Afro-American lingo)
"Yo!..You live in my house, eat my food, you live by my rules"
Trouble is...kid go where?...in this land, a reality and the possibility and chance of them becomes worse off or the worst case future for them outside or on their own all of a sudden. This isn't USA or EU! or TV land scene!
So BSLee, Got lah...Kids or teens can 'survive' anywhere outside USA or tv land lah...If they chose to be so damn smart and bo-thia-uoah, then move out. But before that they must be shown the real life lah.
Take the teens to ChowKit (preferably at night), even nearer home ss15 Tai-chow, or Puchong pasar malam, Or as a holiday treat LOS for an eye opening educational tour.
Show them that young teens or young know-all adults (prob many are without supportive parents or broken family or whatever the reasons they hit the street) having to work/slave/wait on table/sell dvd/kueh/shampoo , massage girls, railway porters, coolies, entrapped labour, all eking out a miserable living at young tender age...or even to yangon river port to see kids of 10?12? as ferry/boat porters carrying goods (giant lorry battery included!more than their own weight for a few kyats...
Such is reality and pampered urban know all teens MUST be shown the true hardship of life unless they all are sons&daughters of apanama a/l kutty or najis or wassahisname tourism minister?
apa lagi smart aleck teens mahu?
Yang Berparenting ToonIstimewaUtamaXlatotupai
in luv with bikes...in lust with AphroditeS AWAS! Suspek is an Avid procurer to myths, lies, legends, folklores, i-ching, rumors, misinformation, cakap-ayam, spɹoʍ uʍop ǝpısdn puɐ˙˙DLL .
p/s Take all the above with a XL salted duck egg, wash down with 2fingers of sodium hypochoride, and suck on to a pebble size tmn negara Rock salt
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I can't help coz I don't have kids at that age... but an answer given by a friend of mine as well as from my bro-in-law when I praised them for raising such great kids... Bachelor of Accountancy, then CPA, then work and buy an apartment in Sydney dll...
"I treat him like my buddies and I talk to them a lot... via phone, Skype, email etc... and they talk to me like their buddies too... the day we stop talking, there will be trouble"
SETIAKawan
What is the 'market rate', the allowance or pocket money for a 20 year old.
This allowance should cover petrol and food while at uni nearby. Hp bill borne by parents. Staying with parents.
Is RM600 fair or 'so difficult to cope with this amount'.
Thank you.
Budiman
Wah! 600?..I'm somewhat living out with that amount for 30 days. Phone, food, minimal utility bills, helped by avoiding fine dining, expensive fast food, and unreasonably priced eateries, cook home most of the time.
Budiman
I would give 10 bucks a day
5.50 for lunch and 2.50 for drink
1.80 for bus ride
the balance 2X10cents, he can use them to plug his ears when the mum nag him at dinner table.600 bucks?
Banned
10 cents for a ear plug !!...the balance 2X10cents, he can use them to plug his ears when the mum nag him at dinner table.
Obviously, you have not bought ear plug before !!
Get ready with RM10-15 for a box of ear plug (2 pairs inside) and it is recommended to change a new box every month for hygiene purpose...
Budiman
No, not 10 cents to buy ear plug. He can use the two 10 cents to plug in his ears, unless he has small ears, than 5 cents will do.10 cents for a ear plug !!
Obviously, you have not bought ear plug before !!
Get ready with RM10-15 for a box of ear plug (2 pairs inside) and it is recommended to change a new box every month for hygiene purpose...
Budiman
Haha...what is cheap these days..even kacang putih isn't cheap now! I can't even afford that roadside bottled soyabean milk that retail for RM2/bottle! (which I think its real worth is 50sen or less, ROADSIDE wor!!!!)..
Banned
ok...ok.. just make sure you remind him to soak the 10 cents or 5 cents coin into isopropyl alcohol to avoid possible infection..No, not 10 cents to buy ear plug. He can use the two 10 cents to plug in his ears, unless he has small ears, than 5 cents will do.
ENT fee is easily a few hundreds rinngit... !!
Budiman
What is cheap these days?
Only one thing - government's talk ----- "prattle without practice"
SETIAKawan
I would give 10 bucks a day
5.50 for lunch and 2.50 for drink
1.80 for bus ride
the balance 2X10cents, he can use them to plug his ears when the mum nag him at dinner table.
They both drive to uni. So I have to factor in petrol as well. Now, both of them are grumbling and asking for an increment because of the recent petrol hike and the expensive food at Taylors.
Any one with kids at uni that drives. How much do you give a month?
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