Act of bullying

[ungkb]

Anyone's children in USJ / SJ area experience the above while in school / preschool?

[ungkb]

An incident at preschool that was eventually solved.

[jan tomaswaki]

what happen ? Tell us.

[ungkb]

It involves my niece. The problem was solved after talking with the teacher.

[ungkb]

Unfortunately that was not the end. The person who bullied my niece was a boy.

[jan tomaswaki]

Unfortunately that was not the end. The person who bullied my niece was a boy.

So can you share the story?

[ungkb]

Once, the boy pushed my niece to a corner asked her to stand there. In the latest incident, it caught the attention of the teacher.

[ungkb]

After the last incident, the boy was scolded by the teacher.

[ungkb]

Once the boy kicked my niece's leg. The boy seems to like the act of bullying Very Much. He is also a repeated offender.

[Jennylim]

My child was regularly bullied by classmates and sometimes by one particular teacher, I used to tell him to endure it, and I will find all sorts of explanation(especially when the party involve is the teacher) for the situation, sometimes I would tell him how to stay away or prevent it from happening. Twice the situation got really urgly, I have to speak to the HM. As parent, I have think hard but didn't find a solution to it. It has a bad impact on my child. He became crying baby. Luckily things changed after he moved out of the school. It was then I realised how wrong I was. I can only say, not all parents are equipped with the necessary knowledge/skill of handling this kind of situation or other parenting issues ,but it is hurting the child.

[xinrong]

I do not agree we need ask the child to endure bullying, instead we teach the child how to handle the bully or the bullying, as this has an impact for their lifetime. Both my kids were bullied in school at one time or another in primary school and I went to school to speak to the parents when the kids have spoken up and it hadn't worked. Once my daughter was punched by a boy. I approached the child's father, told him about it, get his son in to verify the incident and requested his son extend an apology to my daughter in our presence. Sometimes the kids are angels at home and devils outside, their parents may not be aware enough to teach them. For the bully it is also a matter of learning social skills. Even if the person involved is a teacher, if it is amounts to physical of mental abuse, I would see the person involved. Very simply, we moms carry the kid for months to deliver them safely into the world, for them to be cowed by a bully? Sorry, no way. One of the ways is to get the child to know more friends and be in a group most of the time, it will be a deterrent. The other is to help the child have confidence and also good posture. Somehow when the child looks timid, he or she is a magnet for bullies. I also tell my kids that when one of their friends are bullied, to stand by the victim, pull them away, whichever is suitable at that time. Bullies themselves aren't that brave.

[ungkb]

This happened in preschool. This may not work. It seems the kid goes around pestering people. Reprimand by the teacher seems to be not effective.

[ungkb]

My niece suffered a blue black mark a result being pushed by the Repeated Offender.

[ungkb]

My niece suffered a blue black mark a result being pushed by the Repeated Offender.

1. My niece's hair was also pulled.

2. School trip without advance notice.

[ungkb]

To continue from the previous story. My niece has since change preschool & at the new preschool there is a Spoilt Brat who bullied my niece. That boy must like Doing This. I wonder Why.