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    Why Men Cheat?

    Why men cheat? Go here for the details:

    http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menl.../why-men-cheat

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    To Fulfill His Biology: You know the old anthropological tale. A man's main job, besides killing the saber-tooth, is to spread his seed in order to ensure the survival of his genetic legacy. It's a man's biology to want to wander. Does that mean he should, or that he can't help it? Of course not. But it does mean that a man is going to have strong-extremely strong-biological urges to knock on the doors of neighboring huts. I have had this argument/discussion/conversation with dozens of men and women: Are men predestined to cheat? My answer is no, they're not-despite their biology. But often times, they do have to fight it. Especially after a pitcher and two shots of Jack.
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    actually, i think that all males generally are sexually promiscuous, some married men restrain themselves of the fear of losing their family, while some are risk takers who enjoy the thrill.

    the K.I.S.S. answer that why men cheat is sex, a better answer would be to satisfy their ego needs. Young girls will show the male tat they're still attractive and therefore higher up in the pecking order

    why men are generally promiscuous? i think that it's just biological

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    Quote Originally Posted by lynndhia
    actually, i think that all males generally are sexually promiscuous
    Well, that would mostly be the case. But I'm just thinking aloud here, what would you classify the large number of women they are mating with as? not promiscuous?
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    Quote Originally Posted by lynndhia
    actually, i think that all males generally are sexually promiscuous, some married men restrain themselves of the fear of losing their family, while some are risk takers who enjoy the thrill.
    Get REAL, I DO NOT think that the majority of married men are unfaithful have you had any first hand experience on that?? the word you've used shouldn't only pertain to men and aren't women promiscuous in the past or CURRENTLY promiscuous themselves if they get into a relationship with a promiscuous partner??
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    I don't think one should confuse cheating with being promiscuous.

    Being promiscuous means having many partners. I think that's ok in itself as long as no one is or will be suffering. As far as I'm concerned, being promiscuous is pretty childish, but ok for those that are borne like that it's ok as long as they're responsible about it, i.e. no one is or will be suffering. I actually think promiscusity is pretty equal among the sexes. I don't see a woman being promiscuous as worse or better than a man being it.

    Cheating means breaching a contract of trust. Someone is or will be suffering. Sometimes more than one will be suffering through the deeds of one. That's absolutely horrific and inexcusable.

    BTW, a lot of this might have something to do with beer goggles:

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/e...er/4468884.stm
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    Quote Originally Posted by lynndhia
    actually, i think that all males generally are sexually promiscuous, some married men restrain themselves of the fear of losing their family, while some are risk takers who enjoy the thrill.

    the K.I.S.S. answer that why men cheat is sex, a better answer would be to satisfy their ego needs. Young girls will show the male tat they're still attractive and therefore higher up in the pecking order

    why men are generally promiscuous? i think that it's just biological
    Don't generalize. Perhaps you have met all the 'wrong men' and are still meeting all the 'wrong men'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lynndhia
    Young girls will show the male tat they're still attractive and therefore higher up in the pecking order.
    I have actually come across many young women who neither believe nor behave that way. Then perhaps I have met all the 'right' women.


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    Woh...u guys are all hitting on Lyndia..
    She`s young, u know so could be easily led on... by Dirty old or `young` men that their marriage is on the rocks...etc...so gullible n caring young girls just fall for it...SIMPLE!!!

    Not promiscuous...more like INFIDELITY!!!
    Yes...more than one party gets hurt but what do they care...live life to the max...one life, so must do everything..then maybe worry...maybe not...depends on individual.....sigh...

    Anyway, man cheat but the third party allows it...maybe she is desperate...can`t find a man of her own or bored to tears...sounds familiar like something out of `Desperate Housewives` where one of them was the `Community Whore`...anyone caught that series???...Well...she got caught n he got a Heart Attack...n died. That`s Hollywood...heh heh heh
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nikki 2
    Woh...u guys are all hitting on Lyndia..
    She`s young, u know so could be easily led on... by Dirty old or `young` men that their marriage is on the rocks...etc...so gullible n caring young girls just fall for it...SIMPLE!!!
    Woho!! Seems like you're the one hitting it the hardest and how would you know so darn much?? Headache headache time to hit the sack!!
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    Btw...a good romp in the sack is good for headaches...haven`t u heard???

    Of course....i know!...someone close to me had first hand experience...still bleeding in her heart but alas...she has to lick her wounds all by herself...but she`s a tough one...she will survive!!!

    So who else had heard, seen or had first hand experience??? Please share
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    Perhaps most of you have never come across this type of discussion before. In a nutshell, it tries to explain why males tend to have multiple partners whereas females are monogamous.

    If you may allow me, let us look at a man who have no sociological or evolutionary developments and still retain this primeal urge...

    a) The genetic theory is that animals need to procreate in large numbers in order to survive the hazards of nature, such as being hunted and eaten by wild animals or succumb to diseases. Hence, the promiscuous male of the successful species have been selected naturally because they were promiscuous and had successfully impregnated many females.

    b) The females cannot afford to be promiscuous because they have to bear with a gestation period, ie carry the child in the womb. This is a stressful responsibility and the females who are promiscuous would risk miscarriages and thus such traits would die off, leaving less promiscuous females to sucessfully survive and breed more females with less promiscuous traits.

    The simple analogy will give you a logical reason why most males tend to have multiple partners and not females.

    Of course in modern days, with less risks like being eaten or killed by disease, the need to be promiscuous would reverse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nikki 2
    Btw...a good romp in the sack is good for headaches...haven`t u heard???
    Yup. And better still if there's one in the middle of the night...hehehe....
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    Waaa ... seems like this topic is more for married ppl eh ... so single men can be let out? Single'ma, no committment at all. Live life to the fullest! Heheh .. am I right? Or it should not be that way?
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    Quote Originally Posted by kokomo
    Waaa ... seems like this topic is more for married ppl eh ... so single men can be let out? Single'ma, no committment at all...
    Hehehe..why don't you start a thread on single men enjoying flings with married ladies, eh? It has come to my knowledge such liaisons do exist but thankfully not on a big scale....urmm...I think...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sugarfree
    Hehehe..why don't you start a thread on single men enjoying flings with married ladies, eh? It has come to my knowledge such liaisons do exist but thankfully not on a big scale....urmm...I think...
    Such things happen centuries ago. From stoneage our of great great great grandparents till now. Is there really a need to open a new thread? Heheh .. just stick on in here'lah. Cont. from where we have stop. Married couples having marriage problems. Proclaiming men cheats. So what bout men being cheated by women? Is that a small or big issue?
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