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    Hmm... is it possible for people to marry those that they don't love the most? I thought marriage is meant to seal the love of a lifetime? or is it just about responsibilities and reproducing for the next generations??

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    nah.. for me, luv wont last lifetime. Anyways, not because of my previous experience but, I could "see" from my surrounding.

    Quite subjective issue. erm.. lets ah pak kokomo answer about L.O.V.E matter.... kekekee.. Uncle Kokomo, you must impress us kay~!? if not, you're losing customers...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Piggy
    nah.. for me, luv wont last lifetime. Anyways, not because of my previous experience but, I could "see" from my surrounding.

    Quite subjective issue. erm.. lets ah pak kokomo answer about L.O.V.E matter.... kekekee.. Uncle Kokomo, you must impress us kay~!? if not, you're losing customers...
    how old are u, piggy?
    i think u r too young to have such comments
    have u ever asked the generations before us, eg. our parents, uncles, aunties etc about their love? and mind u, do define the love that u r talking about... parental love or family love should be lasting more than a lifetime...

    IMHO, love depends on the people, the mind, the thoughts and the surroundings~ why some ppl (mostly our ancestors) can have eternal love or long-lasting relationships? why nowadays we heard so much of love won't last for a lifetime?
    one thing: the people...
    u can choose what way of life u want to live, and someone choose to break other ppl's heart so, some love won't last ~
    (some of our ancestors can get married even without knowing each other, and still they can survived for a lifetime living together and raised a family, so don't tell me love cannot be nurtured)

    cheers!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sugarstic
    Hmm... is it possible for people to marry those that they don't love the most? I thought marriage is meant to seal the love of a lifetime? or is it just about responsibilities and reproducing for the next generations??
    I think it is possible...hv u heard abt this?? There r ppl who left their partners for personal reasons, then got married later, and...ultimately they still think they love their ex lovers the most.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by KakiLang
    I think it is possible...hv u heard abt this?? There r ppl who left their partners for personal reasons, then got married later, and...ultimately they still think they love their ex lovers the most.....
    If they do that, why did they leave their partners? I really don't understand.. if you love someone, why do you still want to hurt them and leave them to marry someone else??

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    Quote Originally Posted by KakiLang
    I think it is possible...hv u heard abt this?? There r ppl who left their partners for personal reasons, then got married later, and...ultimately they still think they love their ex lovers the most.....
    I think this is because for most human, the road that you didnt choose to take earlier always seem nicer, just like things that you never get are always better, and food on your frens plate always seems more delicious, kakaka

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    aka.. the grass is always greener on the other side, huh?

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    Yup...

    & your question... in my opinion, there's one kind of love called letting go... there will be some circumstances where you still love him/her, but u know u cant continue, because of some reasons (mayb family issues, some of his/her character/bad habits that you know you will never accept, some issues that both of you cant compromise even after negotiations).. So they choose to let go, before things get worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sugarstic
    If they do that, why did they leave their partners? I really don't understand.. if you love someone, why do you still want to hurt them and leave them to marry someone else??
    I guess this is not about hurting someone u love...

    Sometimes when both of u hv irreconcilable differences, u hv no choice but to let it go, even u still love him/her so much.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by vivienp
    I think this is because for most human, the road that you didnt choose to take earlier always seem nicer, just like things that you never get are always better, and food on your frens plate always seems more delicious, kakaka
    There r men who always think their gal friends r not as pretty as others....this is the problem with men....of coz I'm not stereotyping all the men....

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    Or there are just some shallow men who think that younger girls (hence prettier) match them better...

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    MIA for a week after this. So this might be my last post for awhile.

    L O L O L O V E, a topic that is hard to discuss and an even harder to understand lar.

    Ever heard the idioms:

    There is no wrong or right in love, all is fair in love and war, so on so forth? Aiya, I say love is just when you got knocked out senseless and become amnesiac that is why you forgot all the 'must have criterias' that your other half must befits before you want him lar!

    Love won't last forever, for we are programmed in such way that our heart can always accomodate more than one love, that is why men and women can love more that one gal/guy. Don't you agree? That is why human cheat, cos they are so 'adaptable'.

    To have long lasting love, its really understanding the other person and how good / well you can communicate with each other (imho) and whether you can stand it when he got that huge spare tyre and gleaming bowl on top of his head replacing his previous headful of hair and of course, that double chin that will contribute to the dolby surround system.

    If you can accept that, then I would say, its a step closer to 'true' love. Again, my silly thoughts... argh, holiday time... hehehe... Merry Christmas everyone.

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    i think we can bicker about on the love topic for eons to come and still it'll be debatable. i believe that it is up to the people to bring about a lasting love. after all, what is love without compromise and sacrifice? it's how much you want it to work and how far you are willing to go for it.
    horizontally challenged....

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    Romi... Hahahaha.. you'll be surprised if you sees the "true" me.. anyways, if there is a love debate in this thread.. hahaha, i'm out of the picture because I hardly have the enough experience for this.

    Anyways.. fyi, divorce rate is very high nowadays.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sakaibear
    i think we can bicker about on the love topic for eons to come and still it'll be debatable. i believe that it is up to the people to bring about a lasting love. after all, what is love without compromise and sacrifice? it's how much you want it to work and how far you are willing to go for it.
    AGREED~
    see, this is what a lot of ppl don't know about... they don't put efforts into this, and blamed the others~
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