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    Lightbulb How to find you another half?

    Haha, read so many topics yet nothing could solve my problem right here. Erm, perhaps you guyz could help me out ??

    You see, 1/2 year ago, I had love failure with a guy who was very much older than me. Our relationship only last ONLY 3 months. I've end the relationship because of my parents objected our relationship due to his age and also because he's been going out with my close friend of mine. I was in deep depression, not only because of love factor but work factor as well. Eventually I've overcome this depression mood after I've joined a new company.

    However, things didn't go so smooth about it. I've meet someone who is my "acquaintance". This guy looks so much like my ex-bf and he has my ex's qualities in terms of look & character wise. I've been treating his so cool and tried to avoid him. Guess what? Someone noticed about it and even asked me about it. I guessed, it's kidda obvious how I treated him differently among my friends.

    I don't know what I should do.. should I continue treat him as my other friends or continue act as if I don't see him? OR ... Please help me about it

    The worst thing is, I do have special feeling for him but he is labelled as "playboy" among my friends.

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    Since u r still single and available...don't close your door to anyone. Just treat him as other friend. ... there is no need for you to decide now..just treat him as your normal colleague, talk and laugh...go out for group outings if any...

    If you are comfortable and if he make his move, then only decide. But, whatever you do, try to be more cautious... for his 'playboy' status.

    My 2 sen opinion.
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    Even there is a single person had close their door immediately without even giving a try. I had experience it before. Everyone can be labelled as playboy. Even I am also labeled as playboy. But I am just being friendly.

    When a guy is being friendly, normally other girls will think that the guy is a playboy. It could be that he is just a friendly person. You have to get to know him better. If he and you are together, and he go and court other girls then is a playboy.

    Give the guy a chance. As birdy said, treat him as a friend. As you are working in an organization, you have to be professional enough to work with him. If he makes a move, why not ? since you also have the heart for him..
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    Thanks birdy.

    Haha, guess what? My ex-bf was my 1st.
    For me, 1st experience has been this bad. I could not stand another love & betrayal ever again in my life. I would never thought my friend could betrayed me that badly.

    Few weeks ago, my ex- came back to me requesting me whether he could patchup things with me and he has been asking me questions such as, how is your brother? Your mother is Raub, these and that.. guess what? those questions belongs to HER~!!! my friend's information but he asked me about her things. I was so pissed up and I laughed @ his face when he asked me whether he could be together with me.

    You see, I couldnt stand my ex- and the thing is, that guy really look my ex- and can't help it if I continue acting coldly in front of hm. Moreover, he's older than me 8 years. Hahaha, I just dun understand why I could fall again for an older guy and not those around my age.

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    One time failure doesn't mean u'll fail again or anything, keep trying until u find ur Mr. Right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KakiLang
    One time failure doesn't mean u'll fail again or anything, keep trying until u find ur Mr. Right.
    true, this is what my friends told me previously.

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    Put it this way... all this come to a word called FAITH. So, this time, he "fly" u... who knows the next one will love u like honey?

    I have once a colleague who used to be a 'Playboy' type....eventually he also settled down with a beautiful wife... now, he is a loyal husband...What I am saying here is, even people were to describe him as "Playboy"... he may change because of your existence... '

    So, go and give a try

    Finally...wish u good luck.
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    Thumbs up

    thanks birdy. Wow, 100% and even received a private message from an user asking me to try.

    Hahaha,.. I think I should let go the past and move on with the new one. Thanks guys. My luck for knowing you people here..

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    Yes.. just give a try.

    Imagine few buses line up for u... the first bus broken down half way...don't let it haunt u that all buses will break down half way... Who knows u might get to drive a Luxurious Bus?

    Get what I mean???
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    Quote Originally Posted by birdy
    Yes.. just give a try.

    Imagine few buses line up for u... the first bus broken down half way...don't let it haunt u that all buses will break down half way... Who knows u might get to drive a Luxurious Bus?

    Get what I mean???
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    Well... I am trying to associate bus as the man...and u as the passenger (and potentially being the driver). You said ur first bf broken wif u and it hurts u... this is similar like u ride the bus but broken down half way...So, this doesn't mean that you will forever ride a broken bus...

    You can make ur own selection on which bus to ride...there are so many companies operating bus operation. So, select wif your open eyes.. who knows, u might end up acquiring the bus and be the driver (ie. you are married wif him!)
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    I know what you meant previously, I'm just acting dump. hahaha

    When people get hurts for the 1st time, it's hard for that person to heal and stand up immediately.

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    Yes.. you r right but don't let the failure to hold u back from succeeding.
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    Thanks birdie, I shall update you if I've succeeded

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