is luv exist?

[skyvampire]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?

[kpc]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?

True love only lasts about five years...
Then responsibility takes over.....

[trex92]

well, love is not always about being on cloud 9 kinda love... love is about :-

1. being understood when nothing is said
2. doing something exceptional without being asked
3. just simply holding hands and looking into each others eyes

[penangkia]

Love is to drive from Malacca to Penang every weekend in rain or shine just to hold hands before the "till death do we part" chapter. Thereafter, when wife got expanded with little ones, hubby too tired to take dear wife to Giant 2 blocks away and ask wife to ta pow sar hor fun so he can have his fill watching FA cup. :D :p

[USJ27Resident]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?

Hmmmm... start walking ( out the door, i guess.... )

But then again.... tell me, how many men got the bolas to do that... :p

The problem is never one-sided... it is always both sides of the bed that contributes to the breakdown... and the major culprit... is the lack of communication. Too busy with daily life and routines so much so that even the basic nice-cities are ignored. Even getting intimate or making love oso is like a rush thing...

Kinda sh!tty but thats life...

[skyvampire]

Love is to drive from Malacca to Penang every weekend in rain or shine just to hold hands before the "till death do we part" chapter. Thereafter, when wife got expanded with little ones, hubby too tired to take dear wife to Giant 2 blocks away and ask wife to ta pow sar hor fun so he can have his fill watching FA cup. :D :p


ya... i also agree !!!

[kaym]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?

Sing it the Dionne Warwick way:

You’ve lost that lovin’ feelin’
Ohh that lovin’feelin’
You’ve lost that lovin’ feelin’
Now its gone, gone , gone, whoaohoh
Baby baby, I’d get down on my knees for you
If you would only love me, love me like you used to do
You know that,
We had a love , a love, a love you don’t find every day,
No no, no no, no no no no no no no
So don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t, baby don’t throw it away
Na na, don’t throw it away, don’t throw it away
Now baby, oh baby, I beg you baby, oh baby
I beg you please, I need your love
So bring it on back, bring it back
Bring it back, bring it, bring it, bring it back

Cheer up, mate......life's too short....think of the good times you had with her before your lost that feeling

[aroki]

True love only lasts about five years...
Then responsibility takes over.....
kpc you need to break the 5 yr barrier man...you Kungfu looking guy can do it, right..start with the kung fu stand and make some moves bro and hopefully a a lady looking like a Hkg actress will fall for you..may the lord ganesh help you in your quest...plse go to a temple and break some coconuts with your bare hands kung fu style ;) sure boleh dapat.....btw 5 years is not the norm for the rest, so it is not the Msian sirim standard yet. ;)

[totoro]

"is luv exist?" - erm... not in the Oxford dictionary? hehe... :D

[patrick]

If I may suggest a few pointers to help keep that flame glowing:

* Both parties should make a point to look decently good after years of
marriage especially when going out in public. Dont take for granted. Make
your partner feel good about his/her other half. Many Malaysian women
after giving birth tend to forsake their appearance and dressing. Tend to
allow themselves to be inflated and dress like a real auntie.

* Try to look for attributes in your partner. The minuses seem to surface
after marriage and it becomes daunting to the other half. Try to accept
that we all have negative points. So dont just point a finger at your
partner. Accept that and look for the plusses.

* For the women, try to imagine you are still dating your man. Manja and
pamper him. For the man, continue to treat her like you did when you were
wooing her. Small things count. eg.If you had open doors for her when
dating, continue to do that.

Then you should have smoother sailing, albeit some ripples here and there. No Success in luv and marriage comes without hard work. Good luck and Regards.

[Ski]

I think i will skip this one too many on this mushy thingy on this forum of late I will leave this one to the love experts to handle. :p

[kpc]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?

Pay her to go for liposuction at sunway hospital... :)

[mon]

now i REALLY wish u were my flip-phone..

[kpc]

now i REALLY wish u were my flip-phone..

The guy need help, I am giving real life, workable suggestions.
A lot of people cannot accept the truth that looks are very important in relationships......

[kpc]

btw 5 years is not the norm for the rest, so it is not the Msian sirim standard yet. ;)

My mother said 1 year already get bored....
That's why guy have to find girl at least 8 years younger....

[GreenBug]

Bring her for Sunday rides, different bike each time.

Let her feel and share the adrenalin rush and sheer pleasure of going down low in a twistie up Awana at 80kmph and then accelerate up to 160-180kmph on the straights..... hangin on tight for her life! :eek:

Or just cruizin' at 120kmph with music "i heard it on the grapevine...Marvin Gaye" blaring out the back speakers of the Gold Wing..... up to Kuala Kangsar for curry pao.... 6.00 am Sunday morn'..... :cool:

Or on the scoot-scoot around the corner for roti canai gareng panas-panas and teh tarek.... :D

It might not be bike for some people, but I think its important for both parties in a relationship to continue to put efforts in a marriage. Even go to her ikebana flower arrangement classes once a while to support her. :rolleyes:

And make sure we talk, talk and talk to each other and communicate alot. Words like "That's very nice dear, good choice of color" "Wow, you cook like my mom...." (but make sure your Mom is a good cook too :D ), or "here, have a fresh lemonade" when she's doing gardening.... believe me it will drag for 50 years even!

[pcyeoh]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?
Currently there is a sex exposition in Singapore for the first time and the Singaporeans are not shy to pay a visit this much talked about exposition. No need to go to any of the Scandanavian countries to buy those gadgets to spice up your life. The other day I saw in The Star that there is even a Dr. Love to attend to all your enquiries and it looks like Dr Love seems to be working non stop. In the recent Durex survey, if I am not wrong the Singaporeans are in the bottom rung of the ladder when it comes to adding spice to your love life. No wonder their government has no hesitation to endorse such exposition. I don't think they will ever get a chance to set up shops here, do they?

[GreenBug]

Currently there is a sex exposition in Singapore for the first time and the Singaporeans are not shy to pay a visit this much talked about exposition. No need to go to any of the Scandanavian countries to buy those gadgets to spice up your life. The other day I saw in The Star that there is even a Dr. Love to attend to all your enquiries and it looks like Dr Love seems to be working non stop. In the recent Durex survey, if I am not wrong the Singaporeans are in the bottom rung of the ladder when it comes to adding spice to your love life. No wonder their government has no hesitation to endorse such exposition. I don't think they will ever get a chance to set up shops here, do they?

Page 8 of today's The Sunday Times (Singapore) has a headline "Euro Sex Clubs lure Singaporeans".....

Errr excuse me Sir.... I think we are talkin' luv here man, not S E X lah :D

[cherry]

wat will you do if you find that you start to lost feeling to your love one after some years?

Maybe you realize you're gay after all... heheheh :D I'm just joking...well, sometimes these kinda things do happen but I guess spending time apart (go holiday with friends) or giving space (doing activities with friends) to one another can be a good solution. As the saying goes, absence make the heart grow fonder.

[ginaphan]

Agree. Why has love suddenly be reduced to sex only?

From the postings here, it sounds like ugly and fat women do not deserve any love or rather do not deserve any sex. Sounds like doing sex with fat women is an act of charity.

Guys, look down at your tummy now - yeah, the one that grew when you were sitting on the couch, downing beer and sar ho fun while watching FA Cup on TV.

Love does not mean romance although the latter normally comes naturrally if the former exist.

Look within - is there anything inside to love? Lost feelings - sounds like paralysis - your own - not the other's. Putting back the romance and communications do help. It takes commitment on both sides.

Look within and be aware of what you are, who you are, and what's happening with your emotions and 'body temperature' before you can address your relationship with others. Self-awareness is the first step. (This I learnt when I attended a talk over the weekend and am trying hard to apply).

These kind of problems are normally complex. Doubt you can get good answers in an online forum like this. Both have to find a way. Nobody wants a failed marriage. Counselling does help (according to Bill Clinton's book).

Make sure that the feelings are really gone before taking drastic action. Sometimes, it gets buried under layers of unimportant stuff and you need to dig deeper. But if it is really gone, perhaps you need to accept it.

Who am I to say all this? Nobody. (but I hope I have helped).

[GreenBug]

Well said, ginaphan. We all want our other half to be slim, beautiful and still dashing at 45 while we ourselves look like beer barrels. Its time to get bigger mirrors guys........ :D

[CCY]

Luv exist ?
Yes I would say 'on and off ' like a flick of a switch. You know when it is. You feel like you are sleeping with a log the whole night through when you have none. At least you can still hug if it is a real log ....but no... this isn't the real one. It's a pain throughout and sleeping with a dead body becomes much better .
If you have it then , every action put forward will come with a favourable reaction in reply.

[JackRyan1975]

Well said, ginaphan. We all want our other half to be slim, beautiful and still dashing at 45 while we ourselves look like beer barrels. Its time to get bigger mirrors guys........ :D

Erm...so is it fair and square if we're hunks and expect our partners to look like models? Who's the beer barrel amongst us anyway? :D

[fatslab]

Erm...so is it fair and square if we're hunks and expect our partners to look like models? Who's the beer barrel amongst us anyway? :D

I am, sadly. I really have a beautiful wife but although I've neglected her most of the times, she is always so patient with me. Got to really change man! Don't want to lose her to another man!

[Ski]

I am, sadly. I really have a beautiful wife but although I've neglected her most of the times, she is always so patient with me. Got to really change man! Don't want to lose her to another man!

Well said man, many of us still love our spouses in
spite of the biological changes....remember she bore your children.

[tan_r]

Thanks to ginaphan, this thread is starting to pick up some sense. My 2 sen - LOVE does exist ... in all of us. It's just that some have found or seen it and some haven't. That leads me to my favourite saying .... to see it on the outside, we must first see it on the inside. Search within ourselves first.

[penangkia]

.. ....remember she bore your children.

Err..also remember , he bore her first for that to happen. :D :D

[balitan]

luv exist in LOVE STORY IN HARVARD - ntv 8 , 8.30 pm mon-fri

get some tips from there !!!!!!!!!!!

heard many followings ............................

[USJ27Resident]

I dunno about you guys, but my wife nags all the time... :p

but when I sit down and analysed the nagging... it all made sense... t'was all advice... to better myself, to improve myself, to take care of the family...

problem was... I heard what she said... just never listen hard enough... :p

I guess the day she stops nagging... I'm gonna have'ta get worried... :o :(

[lord]

As you guys try to find true love in a modern era where ppl fall in love before tying the knot, allow me to also highlight love at its truest in ppl who still practise arrange marriages.

In the case of ppl like kpc who has the pleasure to 'interview' his life-partner to be, there still exist ppl who obligingly stick their neck out to arranged marriages and stay married till death do them apart.

My parents are one of those cases. And they have been married for the past 35 years and swear they cannot imagine spending their lives with another person. They have gone thru thick and thin together and despite their once in a blue moon must have arguments whether the 'sambar' has enough salt or not, they are still very much in love with each other. I remember once after they were done with a slight quarrel over something really silly, mom was in the kitchen with a one foot face while dad was in the living watching tv. He suddenly complained that his feet hurt and we were shocked to find mom scampering to the hall just to find out what happened and the next thing we know, she was massaging his feet :eek:

Crazy as it may sound, I saw true love that night.

There are many couples out there who marry first and fall in love later. True love also means respect for the other person; feelings especially. Compromise is another and this, as far as I am concerned, is the mother-of-all in a relationship.

When I was dating my wife before we got married, I had a waist size of 28. Now, after being married for 5 yrs, my waist size is a whopping 34!! But despite waist size going up or down, belly or no belly, she loves me the same.

Allow me to quote a saying by Da Vincci, the statue is within the stone. I only removed the unwanted pieces to bring the statue out. Like wise, true love is within us, it is up to us whether we want to bring it out.

[mon]

...very nice guys..keep on talkin'.. :D

[CCY]

...very nice guys..keep on talkin'.. :D

Yea.....that's true love with this thread ah.... Hope that it will be available for you to keep.

[tan_r]

Alloow me to quote a saying by Da Vincci, the statue is within the stone. I only removed the unwanted pieces to bring the statue out. Like wise, true love is within us, it is up to us whether we want to bring it out.
What other sculptors saw as a block of granite, he saw an angel - in the form of David - inside. Is there an angel within you?

[lord]

What other sculptors saw as a block of granite, he saw an angel - in the form of David - inside. Is there an angel within you?

Hey bro, just trying to get the message across lah. Dunno whether it's really da vincci or michaelangelo!! :D Sorry, ah...

[totoro]

What other sculptors saw as a block of granite, he saw an angel - in the form of David - inside. Is there an angel within you?yeah, had some for breakfast... ... ...

angel cakehouse... hehe... :rolleyes: :o ('cold joke')

[gtl]

lord, nice.......in this hectic life, we are short of time, short of temper and also short of cash. all the abv makes it tough and problems will start. to me, understanding is very important and better if one party keeps cool when the other is on fire.

[cherry]

I find it weird that some of the postings should be in KPC's thread 'Meaning of true love..." instead of this one. :D How to know love exist when the question is very direct but still people get confused (especially men)... :confused:

[Ski]

I find it weird that some of the postings should be in KPC's thread 'Meaning of true love..." instead of this one. :D How to find true love when although the question is very direct but still people get confused (especially men)... :confused:

Ya, but its attracting many viewers who seem to enjoy them whichever thread. just like your Blind Date topic. :D

[tan_r]

.... Dunno whether it's really da vincci or michaelangelo!! :D Sorry, ah...
No apologies needed lah. I also not sure but I think it's Michael somrthing. :D

[tan_r]

... but still people get confused (especially men)... :confused:
Yep ... it's all the men's fault! No true love, the man's fault! Cannot find true love, men's fault. :D

[cherry]

I'm not being sexist here... its just that the thread was opened because the person would like to know whether love really exist or its just infatuation when he/she finds out that there's no more liking or feeling towards the other person. I'm just concern that the issue is not properly address.

[tan_r]

No offence meant and none taken. Relek ... :)