View Full Version : A Poem for empress julz (EJ)
dr_luv
06-02-2004, 03:35 PM
Where are you EJ ?
When I first met you
When I first found you on the usj.com
I never knew this will be something I will never forget
I never knew that you will be my online friend
I never knew my heart will beat for every reply you send
Are you true?
Are you true or you're something of my imagination
You're too good to be something of my creation
Is true that your heart is so sweet and kind
Whenever I talk to you
I always hear the words I want to hear
The words that takes away all the fear
The fear of losing you is all I cared about
Though it will happen one day, I never doubt
And now you're gone
And now you're gone, my heart lost in the cyber space
My mind is wondering, am I one day going to see your reply
But for now all I can do is to pray
And the only thing that I can say
I miss you so much my online friend empress julz
Where are you my friend ... ... ... !!
aimless
08-02-2004, 01:27 PM
AWWWWWWWWWWWW... so sweet... my heart bleeds for you :p
yeah, where IS the Empress?
CHL, did you scare her off? oh wait, you were always defending her, right?
Why you all miss her so much arh? She's probably in Mee Lan or Loon Doon completing her phd in law or something like that.
christopherngg
08-02-2004, 09:25 PM
Hey Administrators & Folks,
I could be wrong....but this to me looks like a clear case of harassment towards another fellow member of this community.
Infact, this sh.t poem makes me wana PUKE!
Don't you think...its high time to get rid of it....???
....and IF anyone of you thinks that this sh.t poem is tasteful instead.....you are making me wanna PUKE as well!
chris.[PISSED]
aimless
08-02-2004, 11:13 PM
chris,
in that case,
go puke.
:D
kwchang
08-02-2004, 11:55 PM
Chris, you are point on.
I am amazed at how you, a newbie to this Forum, has seen through Dr_Luv's intentions. Were you here before in a different life?
Generally, most people have now refused to respond to Dr_Luv's postings because his postings have deep undercurrents. We are alarmed why aimless and saml have decided to give Dr_Luv the attention he don't deserve.
For your information, I have already warned Dr_Luv by PM on the same day he posted this nonsense. We are waiting for him to make the next wrong move....
In the meantime, we do not remove threads quietly. If it is removed, we report it for you to know. As you have seen, we have frozen some offensive threads but maintained it online as an educational piece for newbies to learn from before they make similar mistakes. Our job is to allow freedom of speech on condition that Forumers behave like adults.
By leaving this thread on, we can show how Dr_Luv makes a complete fool of himself.
empress_julz
09-02-2004, 01:19 AM
kwchang,
in all due fairness, i think dr_luv is making a fool of this forum and the moderating more than himself. he knows it and enjoys it.
christophernng is right. it is harassment, and this is not the first time that dr luv has done so towards me.
i am personally holding this forum responsible for allowing such talk to go on. let it be noted that in the previous episode of outbursts and threats on his behalf, i had sent numerous pms to both moderators (jeffooi and kwchang) asking for some degree of control over dr_luv, to no avail. i contacted the authorities as i said i would and waited for the logs to hand over, but when i asked for it i was told they were "not available".
instead i was told to hold back and not address dr_luv at all so as to not prompt him to reply. (very "malaysian")
kwchang, i am not replying dr_luv right now, nor have i posted in this forum in ages. but he still continues to harass me. i'm afraid your theory is grossly flawed.
i take it that this is a place where this kind of talk is tolerated - i have had a post deleted for pointing out to another gentleman that i did not tolerate his overly sexual post, and i was told that it was "irrelevant to the conversation". the other day someone preached on the forum, which no doubt is wrong, and his post was deleted too.
dr_luv's thread is even more serious than both of those posts put together - apart from anything it singles me out as an individual. and it's okay for it to sit there and fester?
it seems grossly unfair, dr_luv (and other members on occassions) have been allowed to post whole threads and posts on insults, harassment, even murder threats towards me. to say that they're left there to prove to the world "how stupid he sounds" is something i don't find acceptable.
this really sends a message out to women notably, that this is not a safe and respectful forum for us to be seen or heard.
kwchang, please don't crucify me and use me as an example of dr_luv's poor behaviour. have some degree of fairness towards my wellbeing, feelings and reputation. even if you want to allow this guy to continue to spout crap, have the decency to remove threads that are deeply offensive, sexist and mocking, amongst other disturbing things.
i'm sure you wouldn't want someone talking like that to your wife or daughters, or any woman you cared about. what if dr_luv addressed that poem to one of them? would you allow it to sit there to show "how stupid he can be"? i guarantee you you'd burn it on sight.
thank you.
///ej
mandy
09-02-2004, 02:02 AM
EJ,
I respect you a lot because you know how to stand up for yourself. Unfortunately, such 'quality' is questionable in this culture for the female counterpart. I know it is not fair but this is a different ball game here. In some culture, poeple will find you 'assertive' but in where you live, you are seen as too 'abrasive'. Sorry to say that and I don't mean to offend you. I just want to be upfront and honest. You have a right to express yourself as an individual and I respect that. But to choose that path, you are vulnerable to the so called 'harrasment' and 'resentment' so you have be aware of the repercussion. Now, if you were a guy, people will say that 'you are so cool, buddy'. But the fact is you are not.
empress_julz
09-02-2004, 02:43 AM
thanks for the note of realism mandy.
you are right. unfortunately malaysia has quite a sexist culture i hope we shake off. i read a very good article by marina mahathir about it the other day - this whole rape talk about increasing the punishments deals with the aftermath. the entire situation of malaysia being a sexist culture which views women sexually and as submissive characters was not addressed at all. i agree with her in entirety.
true, we have to deal with it, but dealing with it is not the same as putting up with it.
thus, if you're suggesting i bow down and submit to this thinking, i'm afraid i will not do so. not only would it be unfair to me, it wouldn't be to other women as well. it's important to send a clear message out that some things are just not acceptable, sexism is not one of them. the road has to be paved.
it is not a part of malaysian culture, it is a gross mutation of values gone wrong. the value "respect your husband" for instance, does not mean take his nonsense and let him get away with murder, or allow him to beat you. (i have heard of families where this is the case)
i know i shock and upset many men. it is not the norm here to be disagreed with by a woman.
it's something my father taught me once.... better to sacrifice yourself than your principles.
i don't feel sorry if anyone can't take my opinions. they may come across as being strong, but that's because i know exactly what it is i want.
like in this case, i do not want to be harassed by this monkey or allowed to be insulted to prove what a nut he is.
how is that wrong?
///ej
mandy
09-02-2004, 02:51 AM
EJ,
I need to address several issues here:
Issue #1:
[thus, if you're suggesting i bow down and submit to this thinking, i'm afraid i will not do so. not only would it be unfair to me, it wouldn't be to other women as well. it's important to send a clear message out that some things are just not acceptable, sexism is not one of them. the road has to be paved.]
No. I am NOT suggesting you need to BOW DOWN. It is good to be assertive and speak up your mind. But you need to prepare for the drawback. As simple as that.
Issue #2 - Submissive women are prone to domestic violence!?
[it is not a part of malaysian culture, it is a gross mutation of values gone wrong. the value "respect your husband" for instance, does not mean take his nonsense and let him get away with murder, or allow him to beat you. (i have heard of families where this is the case)]
Crying out loud!! If a husband abuses a wife, leave him RIGHT NOW!
Issue #3:
[it's something my father taught me once.... better to sacrifice yourself than your principles. ]
This is very cool, EJ. I like that.
empress_julz
09-02-2004, 04:22 AM
hi mandy..
as for issue '1'.... i was not quite sure from your tone what direction you were coming from, especially with the last line. hence i said "thus, if..." and not "since you are suggesting.... "
but thanks for clearing it up, and my apologies if it came out the wrong way. :)
on issue '2'..... i agree with you totally. domestic violence of any kind is rubbish and should not be tolerated. but unfortunately i personally know of cases where women continue to be hit by fathers and husbands, even brothers, and stick on because of "Respect for the family and for the man".
///ej
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 09:59 AM
Dear KWChang and Folks,
Even a fool could easily have gone through...all them previous posts from dr_luv.....it does not take much to realize that this man is not even treating his own family fairly(IF he ever gets a partner of the opposite sex gender)....
....I am thinking he could not even stand up to be amongst fagots or gays.....!
....This man is cruel.....
How could you allow such slime to tarnish the good reputations of this community website?
How could you allow such slimy maggot to exist within this healthy
community website environment?
How could you even be able to find enough excuse for this maggot to co-exist in your own rear ends?
One of My post, in response to "jesus died for you" was quietly burned from this web forum.....YA....you might be thinking no one would notice it right?....
Well you are wrong.....I do keep track of my own posting....as well as others.....
I am a responsible person....I make mistakes....I correct my mistakes....I try not to repeat it.....I am trying to be a better man....
But when I have to...I'll give sh.t....to any deserving ones....
and I am prepared to take all kinds.....from anyone willing to offer it to me....
But then again....I won't stand down quietly....knowing that there is a maggot out there in this web community is trying to harass another fellow member without any logical cause...
....as well as being allowed to make a mockery out of this community!
....SO PLEASE BURN THE UGLY POEM BY dr_luv.....
....BETTER STILL....BURN HIM FROM THIS WEB COMMUNITY...
....MAKE A JUSTIFIABLE EXAMPLE OF IT...FOR THE SAKE OF REST....
chris.
Wow,
First of all, who is this newbie spewing rants after rants? Seriously, dr_luv's poem is of no harm. I mean, if you read carefully, there's no such words like "maggots","****" or "faggots",
I wouldn't say it's a beautiful poem but it's a harmless one and that harmless poem kinda set the newbie off.
Secondly, EJ is back. I hope she tones down this time.
Lastly, I do have to admit the Forum was without any pizzazz for the last 2 months. We need to be more interesting.
I think we are in no authority, except for the administrators of this forum, to kick-out anyone from the forum. If some of us have written about Jesus and stuff, we should also know that we are in no position to judge another!! Remember the verse, "don't look at the pick in your brother's eyes when you have a log in your own"!;)
EJ,
Somebody wrote a poem for you and that also you can create a huge havoc. It's wasn;t And for crying out loud, you demanded for the logs from Jeff.
That's a bit too free isn't it.
When I read Dr_Luv's poem, I thought to myself, oh crap! This 'thing' has done it again. I was actually wondering if the moderators would do anything to the thread but I was (somewhat pleasantly) surprised that they did not, because I am against censorship of all types. However, I would have preferred the moderators be consistent, if the thread posted recently titled 'jesus died for you' was to be eliminated, then this one should be too. We take religion seriously but not harassment? I am still skeptical at the concept of words amounting to sexual harassment but if that's the line we are going to take, then I suggest you give Dr Luv a final warning, if it hasn't been done already.
Anyway, I am going to ignore this cretin Dr Luv as much as I can. Perhaps like a pimple if we don't distrub it, it will slowly go away.
Ok, I have a few more things to add.
Mandy, perhaps you are right that our culture shuns intellectually capable and aggressive women, but I personally have not seen it directly. Perhaps its the company I keep, but Mandy I do hope that you are wrong, or at least I do hope your suggestion is only applicable to the 'older' generation of Malaysians. And I really do hope that there is no aggresive response to EJ's posts just because she is female.
EJ - please do not back down although I have an inkling you do not need any encouragement!
vsat - I would not call the poem 'harmless'. It is very inappropriate at the very best, and I do not know any human being who would write something like that intentionally, and make no mistake about it, Dr Luv does have (hidden?) intentions. As CHL has mentioned before, do you get the strange feeling that you are being pulled around like a puppet?
Also, on vsat's quote about EJ "I hope she tones down this time" - OOoooooo I hope you have your seatbelt fastened!
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 11:31 AM
Hey Folks,
I admit I am new to this community web....
but I've been around KL's "jungle"....since 1971, in my early teen.
So...I can safely say that....while plenty of you were still swimming in your daddy's....I have already been learning...life....enough to know that the sh.t poem....is a probable case of harassment...!
....for you to prove me wrong....you would have to do better than that.....like running a poll to get feedbacks from the rest of this community....to see who's the one making a fool out of themselves....
In all fairness....What say you?...."engineer" boy.
for I care about you....thinking that you are a man.
otherwise....you would just be a waste of my time.....because I said.....& I repeat....
"I'll give sh.t.....to ANY deserving ones"....you boy....might not fit in this category....
chris.
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 11:34 AM
Bravo Timo.....& Folks,
I realize now....I am not the only Adult here!
chris.
Seriously, ...for a guy with 2 kids...
your rants make you look like a stubborn teenager.....
Deprived childhood
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 12:41 PM
Hey "boys",
...before I forget about it....just a suggestion though.
...in case you have not heard about it....the MCA Bukit Bintang Division...is also recruiting for more new members....to be "legal" fagots.
...this way...for you hopeful candidates...who has nothing better to do with your own free time...should consider to take up the offer by the YB....& kiss his arse...as an alternative...instead.
...in the first place..if you think the poem is tasteful..or justifiable to have been addressed to EJ..."openly"...in this web community..
...you would have already satisfied the requirement set forth by the YB....for you to be in that "community"...instead.
chris.
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 01:05 PM
Hey Folks,
Finally....We got a "confession" afterall.....from you know who..
-----------------------------------------------
YES...I am not denying that I can be stubborn to people like you..
I am even tempted to be more stubborn...just to set a good example to my 2 young kids(got to teach them from early ages)...for they too should never stand down to people like you...
If I don't teach them from young....they might grow up to be like you or the other sick people out there in this community...
I am still waiting for you....to prove me wrong....and you better be in the hurry....before....I might forget about you...completely.
chris.
dr_luv
09-02-2004, 01:50 PM
Vsat,
The father of 2 kid is trying to preach about himself or maybe trying to famous in usj.com
He's doing it just to see the responses of the forumers here.
Whether he is doing it for the attention, only he knows.
Whether he really believes the views he is putting forward, only he knows.
I think he gets a big kick out of all the responses he has been getting from his posts.
I think he thinks long and hard for the next reply to get the most possible response whether good or bad (preferable bad).
He registered in Jan 2004 as a new member, already posting 80 (2.24 posts per day), basically he is addicted to usj.com web forum or maybe he desperate to upgrade himself to "budiman".
Just ignore if we think that it is not even worth the time for us to type a response. He will eventually lose the "fun" he's been getting.
Let him have the fun.
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 03:45 PM
AAAHHH...SO, You are the one's been harassing EJ.
...without even having the balls to even put a birthdate or a first name in your profile....I was thinking you were a Ghost!
...since you insisted in "your invitation" for me to have some real fun from this forum.....out of your tiny prick....the same goes for your other lover boy's tiny arse...that you've been screwing with....
The others won't even bother with you 2....they don't have a clue on how to cure your sickness.....
....but I do this damn bloody often....getting the fun out of you 2 fagots!
....let's have some fun....first you should ask for the permission from the moderators of this forum....if they approve of your SH.TS...they would approve of offering me the pleasure of screwing you openly....(forget about private messages)!
....in the first place...I have started off with my right conscience....
....Sure....I know you don't even have one.....infact everybody out there knows that too....
....then when you are ready....post it openly....invite me again!
....You Don't Have A Clue.....How I can really get a kick out of you 2....with tiny pricks.....and tiny arses!!!
chris.[THIS IS MY ACTUAL FIRST NAME]
Why is a father of 2 using these kind of words?
From all my postings, I've never used such harsh words on anyone.
What example are you setting with these words?
It's sad and dissapointing to see such words.
I hope I don't grow up to become a father like you, spewing
vulgarities.
dr_luv
09-02-2004, 05:03 PM
A particular post here is deeply offensive to forum members in particular and decent human beings in general. As a friend, I urge the person not even to mention vulgar words in the same breath as other comments (twisted justification and sheer hypocrisy) made by him. He is insulting forum members, insult all in general out there. I have heard about freedom of speech but I have also been told that freedom of speech comes with responsibility. Lets have good sense and decency prevails.
Obviously you are not prepared to an open discussion and as not 100% of the forum accepted your personal arguements, you start insulting everybody. Your arguement to do something for the whole thread valid, but the way how you are trying to do it, is the opposite of what you are saying. If you are not capable of an open discussion, then you should learn this first.
The forum give you to say your views. Please use it responsibly. Any statements that belittle another community will be deemed a violation of the usage of this Forum. Tasteless statements and vulgar/harsh words will be one of them, as you very well know.
To demonstrate that our e-community model can thrive and be replicated organically if the grassroot community managed to tap the potentials of Internet and pervasive communications technologies.
To always remain a trend-setter for other communities to emulate and replicate in the e-community model. This would be our gift to the community and the nation.
To demonstrate that political patronage is a hurdle to progressive community development in a liberalized and globalised environment.
Don't make it as web boxing ring.
Thank you
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 05:06 PM
Hey "lover boy",
IF you are changing your mind...and try to be decent....There might be a chance that you may get to start a family.....
Otherwise...you are going to be a sorry case....for all the women that you intend to court....because you still haven't got what it takes.....lover boy!
But....I am willing to live a wee bit longer(IF God allows me)....I welcome you to prove to me wrong....that you have finally done good...with yourself....treat the women kind fairly & gently.....
...I know a lot of my relatives & friends...school teachers....neighbours.....bosses.....colleagues.. ..etc, etc, know exactly what kind of person I am made of......
...Can you say the same about yourself......and your other lover boy???
...Come on...lets get everybody concerned together for an open picnic at any park you chooses.....and see who is telling the TRUTH about themselves!!!
MY EXPENSES ON ME.....YOURS....WELL WE KNOW WHERE YOU GET YOUR MONEY FROM....
chris.[father of 2 great kids]
malaysianak
09-02-2004, 05:08 PM
Born : January 1, 1970 and in his early forties!
Guys, forgive him. He doesn't even know what or who he is.
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 05:16 PM
In case you didn't know.....
The age that I posted when I joined is correct.....
you have to ask the moderator....where it has gone wrong.....that shows differently....younger in fact.....nice, but no thanks.
But if you insist also to be amongst the other "lover boys"....treating the weak or the women gender unkindly...
I welcome you....the more the merrier...then for once we know all of you who are of the same kind like you "lover boy"....
chris.
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 05:19 PM
You ran out of words to say from your own arses.....
Nevermind....I am guilty of it.....solely for you 2 + 1 tiny pr.cks & arses.....
chris.
I'm diverting the thread....
What happened to the starting race of Le Tour De Langkawi in Penang? What happened to the traffic coordination with the organisers??
This is a world class event and televised live and to have all the Penang cars and traffic disrupting the race until it had to be cancelled is appaling.
What happened to coordination??
Dr Luv,
You can't even come up with your own sentences? You copied my statements about you from my posting below
http://www.usj.com.my/bulletin/upload/showthread.php?threadid=4171
I recognised it immediately upon reading your posting !!!!
christopherngg
09-02-2004, 05:57 PM
Thanks Folks for making things straight.....
For your info.....this may be my last post....as I got a PM message from KWChang....BANNING me from ever joining this web forum..
For I am thinking the other 2 punks would get the same treatment....sure?
Its alright...no problem...the good shall always prevails over evil!!!
Take care and A-LO-HA,
Other than the 2 + 1 Young Punks....
....if anyone else feels offended....sorry.
....my remarks are purely for getting back at the 2 + 1 punks...for disrespecting EJ or the female members.
chris.
qubex
09-02-2004, 09:22 PM
To the original poster:
You are a pathetic little loser who deserves to slither down the toilet just as any other excrement deserves to. You are so pitiful and spiteful, such a loser in your own life, that you feel the need to come online and fling dirt under the guise of an assumed persona (and, I'll bet, a misappropriated Internet connection). You're such a coward that the only way you can feel the thrill of being alive is by reaching into someone else's mind and twisting, causing pain for your own delight.
Fear not, you'll have your comeuppance one day, and I'm not referring to bad karma.
To the moderators:
You have no balls. I feel really sorry for you all. You should have dealt with this affirmatively right from the beginning rather than being so ineffectual. How you could live with yourselves having chosen to leave a member of your community defenceless in the light of such a lurid attack I cannot understand. You have truly disgraced yourselves and you've let down all the decent frequenters of this forum.
kwchang
09-02-2004, 10:57 PM
As I have mentioned at least once in the past, do not bring personal arguments online. We have the PM (not Pak Lah, Private Messaging ) to handle that. I have also told EJ personally that I am an old man and I do not move as quickly as I used to, hence my being "ineffectual" and perhaps totally incompetent to a lot of people. As for my balls, I guess they are the first to disappear with old age. So what pleasure does it give you, my gwailo friend, to tell my neighbours of my predicament? But then again, I shall be ineffectual once more and allow your comments to pass ALTHOUGH I had been taught well (by EJ) to IMMEDIATELY BAN anyone who spout such comments in our public Forum. However, this is only the one chance you have to do that because we feel you have your right to your opinion.
As Ginaphan has told me and also mentioned in another thread, our Forum has regressed to boxing rings. I agree with her. However, do remember that we do not administer or moderate for a living. I work during the day and tend to my children's school-work in the evenings. Many times I get online only way past midnight just to check that the other 'KIDS' on the Forum haven't made a mess of this playground. It is unfortunate that we have people who abuse their stay.
You know, we were so proud of the type of Forum crowd that we started with. We had responsible citizens coming on to use this platform for their community messages. There was a lot of self-censorship, tolerance and plain good neighbourliness. If my memory is not going into athrophy like my other body parts, I would say that somehow we had some misfits infiltrating the Forum in the past year. We stuck to our strong believe in non-censorship but it created this rot we see now.
Too much talk, I'll continue in a little while....
qubex
09-02-2004, 11:16 PM
It could well be that you did not remove the post in time because you had not yet seen it.
However if I am not incorrect, there was a post made by none other than a fellow moderator where it was made clear that the choice to leave the thread in its place was no less than a policy decision "to demonstrate what an idiot the original poster is" (my paraphrasal).
I would personally be embarassed to be associated with that kind of policy decision. This individual has made open threats before now and is now posting this kind of sick material singling out a single person - namely, Empress Julz - as a chosen victim. As moderators, you all have a moral responsability to ensure the wellbeing of your readership, and I hate to say this but at the very least you have let EJ (and many other decent and less controversial characters) down.
I, too, am an Administrator on an Internet forum, so I can well identify with the kinds of difficulties you find yourselves faced with. However, I would never forgive myself for allowing a member, no matter how unpopular he or she may be, to be denigrated publicly in such a manner.
To my way of thinking, you (as an aggregate whole, I am not necessarily personalising here) have traded EJ's dignity in exchange of avoiding a (possibly) unpopular decision, and that is disgraceful. I am truly disappointed. If that disappointment caused me to be more offensive than was called for then I apologise, but I stand by my words. Feel free to ban me if you think that is the correct course of action, but I feel that compared to the multiple misdeeds of Dr_Luv this single post pales in comparison.
kwchang
09-02-2004, 11:55 PM
Fellow readers, I have erred.
To the ladies who have been offended, I tender my apologies.
Yes, I was slow to Dr-Luv's agendas. In the past we did have such smart-alec nobodies who tested the waters of our Forum. However, in those days, the other Forum members generally side-stepped such droppings. Peace usually prevailed. In the recent developments with Dr_Luv, my poor memory tells me that EJ started to defend herself online and prolonged the harassment. We thought (in hind-sight, wrongly) that such issues would resolve themselves as it did in the early days. As you know, with EJ holding court, this was not to be. Once the argument developed, I felt that I could not BAN Dr_Luv without also banning EJ because both were argueing online (not using the PM system). To be fair, we should have banned both. Of course, that would bring all EJ's supporters down on my neck. So, I tried talking them down offline, with warnings. Things toned down over the Christmas holidays as you may remember....
By the way, as of this afternoon, we have banned Dr_Luv AND Christopherngg. I have not banned people before and we had some hiccups along the way - I guess they are finally out for good since 7pm today.
So folks, we will now change our policy of being lenient to our guests who overstep their freedom of speech. There shall be no fear or favour. We shall remove your right to be our guest if you misbehave. Be an adult and you shall carry on as before. I am sure most people know what to do.
Do tell us if you do not agree.
Please note that I have started another thread on How to moderate this forum? The link is at -
http://www.usj.com.my/bulletin/upload/showthread.php?threadid=4376
You may wish to add your comments there.
jeffooi
10-02-2004, 09:35 AM
Chang... sorry for budging in.
There are people who mistook your magnamity for your
weakness.
I strongly suggest you consider the option of sending
the three parties - namely dr_luv, christophernng and EJ -
on a holiday, and save this community forum from further
agony of having to put up with their squabbles.
I noticed some of neighbours have sounded their concern
over the serenity of this e-neighbourhood being threatened.
The trio, who I considered joint-and-several contributed
to the ruckus, have to determine for themselves whether
they would like to ride on a one-way ticket or otherwise.
We should take cognizance that this community is not
compatible with their standards, hence their criticism.
But it's entirely their right to freedom of expression
and it's their choice to come in or to leave this e-space.
But, while they are in, they need to respect the sanctity
of our little village here. They can't come in, throw a noisy
party and blame the entire neighbourhood for staring at
them.
Chang, we are sorry we put you in such a thankless
position. So, you owe us no apology.
In fact, you own the infamous trio no apology.
As for qubex, whosoever logging in from Guangdong
and whosoever proclaimed to be an Internet forum
moderator, you may like to offer him your appreciation
of his opinion, but let him be known that you are not
beholden in whatsoever way to his moral yardstick.
Most of all, tell him we just need level-headed
neighbours in our community.
We don't need a pope.
vounfair1
10-02-2004, 02:21 PM
KWCHANG, PM IS PRIVATE YES? SO HOW COME YOU CALL OUT TO PEOPLE WHO ISSUED A PUBLIC STATEMENT OR THREAD IN THE FIRST PLACE AND SHOULD THEN RESORT TO YOUR PM FOR THEIR BOXING SESSIONS.
IF THE ONE DARES(DRAWS FIRST BLOOD) ANOTHER IN AN OPEN FORUM TO PUT UP A FIGHT WITH HIM, HE DESERVES TO BE GET BACK FIRED ON HIS OWN FACE OR A.S. OPENLY YES?
IN BETWEEN IF YOU DIDN'T WANT IT THAT WAY, WHY DID YOU WANT TO SIT BACK AND WATCH THE FIGHT INSTEAD?
YOU CALL YOUR SELF A TRUE MODERATOR ON THIS TASTELESS POEM STATEMENT CASE AGAINST A WOMAN.
IF SO, YOU ARE ONLY A BIT BETTER THAN THE INSULTOR HIMSELF YES? IN THE LEGAL WORLD YOU MIGHT BE ACCUSED FOR BEING IN CONTEMPT.
OH BEFORE I LOST IT, IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHO I AM, FIRST PLEASE GET MY AGE CORRECTED,
VOUNFAIR1.
P/S: IN ALL FAIRNESS YOU SHOULD NOT DOUBT OR PROVE ME TO BE WHO I AM OR AM NOT, ITS GOING TO BE A WASTE OF YOUR POTENTIALLY USEFUL TIME TO DO SOMETHING TO IMPROVE YOUR WORK.
kwchang
12-02-2004, 09:58 AM
Am locking this thread since issues are discussed in another.
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