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dr_luv
10-12-2003, 07:22 PM
Hi friends,

How are you people !!

Something light to start which is disturbing me.

Okay, so you date people hoping that one of these days you will come across the right person, the one you will make the greatest romantic connection with. But does it feel like you are going nowhere and believe that you just have no luck with meeting the right people ?

Feel like you are lost and doomed in this whole dating business?

What are the qualities that you will consider..in choosing your life partners...does beauty matters..or intelligence.. money .....characteristic ...or will go more to the personality judgement and when is the most suitable time human race should involve in a relationship is it .... high school or college or working ?

Joecool
11-12-2003, 08:41 AM
Getting into a relationship starts off with normal friendship. I hope. You do not go and meet someone with already life partnership in mind. Then the intentions are all wrong and you end up very frustrated if that person only intends normal platonic friendship. It is only once you have gotten to know a person very well that you start to think if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. So it could start anywhere really. Your child hood friend. Someone you met in school. Someone you met at work. Or even friends of your friends. Don't limit yourself. Be a genuine friend instead of just testing if that person is life partner material. Some people get very turned off by that. Me? My priorities have always been to be financially secure before even thinking of it. But I have not stopped making friends where ever I go. And my best friend is now my wife. I am so comfortable with her. That because I have not hidden my true self from her.

Disclaimer : this is my opinion only. I am sure there are other out there who would like to disagree with me. Go ahead. I would not get offended.