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kuma
30-08-2010, 12:00 AM
Quite obviously, this article took the 'most read spot' in the Star today

To be or not to be a virgin? > READ HERE (http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/8/29/nation/6936514&sec=nation)

Not surprised with what the report says about the changing values regarding sex and the young Malaysian....but what riled me was that apparently these days, amongst the young "being a virgin is something “despised" :eek:

Geez!....how times have changed!

The 'hymen' who's untimely rupture determines and defines the state of virginity in women....serves no other purpose to the human body other than its relationship to virginity.

When someone asked in a health forum on the purpose of the 'hymen' .....one reply said: "I guess it's like the safety seal you get on a bottle of Vitamins, you know its safe and that no one has tampered with it."

So....are we 'old fuddies' offbase in despising the notion set by our young that being a virgin today is something to be ashamed about........or not? What's your take on this?

Sentinel
30-08-2010, 12:41 AM
I guess all men are wolves in sheepskin.... its OK to bed another girl but the one you want to marry as your wife must "never have been tampered with"... double-standard yah... :D

currymee
30-08-2010, 08:09 AM
I guess all men are wolves in sheepskin.... its OK to bed another girl but the one you want to marry as your wife must "never have been tampered with"... double-standard yah... :D

I agree with that but I noticed that most of the youngsters nowadays adopt a don't ask don't tell ....

cml
30-08-2010, 10:03 AM
If like that where got virgins remain since all the guys want to get as much as possible?

xinrong
01-09-2010, 01:10 PM
At the end of the day, it is the wisdom, whatever wisdom, that we are able to instill in our young, that no matter what goes on around them, they must be able to discern between the rights and the wrongs. The issue is, a lot of people are in need of the approval of the peers that rather than hold on to a principle and be laughed at, they would prefer to succumb to the pressure.On top of that, we are who we associate with and with time, a lot of values can change for better or for worse, depending on our usual 'kakis'.

It is quite scary to see how things have developed nowadays. My son who is 13 was called a gay because he doesn't like talking to girls, says they are a nuisance (he is yet to be hit by the 'arrow' and I hope it stays that way for a few more years, preferably till SPM is over). His friend of the same age already has an ex-girlfriend and a current girlfriend...Teenagers with hormones on rampage and 'deeply' in love can lead to not only broken hymens, but also consequences that they are not ready to face.

Sentinel
01-09-2010, 01:24 PM
If like that where got virgins remain since all the guys want to get as much as possible?Ahhh... now I know why some people volunteered to be suicide bombers as there will be 72 virgins awaiting them when they get to heaven... :D :D :D

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Dervish
01-09-2010, 01:42 PM
Ahhh... now I know why some people volunteered to be suicide bombers as there will be 72 virgins awaiting them when they get to heaven... :D :D :D


I thought it was only 40? You're an optimist. :D

Sentinel
01-09-2010, 01:44 PM
I thought it was only 40? You're an optimist. :DWell, must be the deprivation... just like when you see a mirage when you're dehydrated out there is the desert... :D

bslee
01-09-2010, 02:07 PM
Hmmm... reminds me of that Bong fler...did he get errrrrr?

Apek
01-09-2010, 03:20 PM
What is virginity? It is a big issue over a small tissue. That says it all :D

aursong
01-09-2010, 05:44 PM
Ahhh... now I know why some people volunteered to be suicide bombers as there will be 72 virgins awaiting them when they get to heaven... :D :D :D


Funny joke for the suicide bombers...
They never mention the 72 virgins are male or female... lol

Dervish
01-09-2010, 05:52 PM
Funny joke for the suicide bombers...
They never mention the 72 virgins are male or female... lol
Also when they turn up in heaven, all they hear is "Sorry. Habis Stok!"

bslee
01-09-2010, 09:35 PM
Also when they turn up in heaven, all they hear is "Sorry. Habis Stok!"

Hell got lots of stock but may be well used. Take your pick! :D

Fabe18
01-09-2010, 10:44 PM
i think joke has gone a bit too far... ;)

Anyway, in this IT age, the kids are learning too many things too fast... Things get hairy when they try to experiment with it...

Sentinel
01-09-2010, 11:06 PM
Yup... jokes have crossed the line and way dooooown low, I am out of here!

joni
01-09-2010, 11:53 PM
waiting for its time to lock it up :o

Sentinel
02-09-2010, 02:15 PM
Maybe the moderator loves this thread and the jokes???? :D