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Jennylim
06-05-2010, 11:09 AM
It is 11:30pm at night, I am still ironing the cloths! I haven't got to do what I wanted to do, and it has been a long time now! I m stuck here, preparing breakfast, bring my children to school, go marketing, prepare lunch, bring lunch to school for my child who has extra class, bring another child to a different school, then bring my child for co-co, then prepare dinner, .... I am stuck here, can't get off the wheel! The wheel of daily routine, go round and round, doing what I need to do.....I want to have something different to feed my soul!

Now, just say I am a kid, 11:30pm I am still doing school homework, I haven't got to do what I wanted to do, and it has been a long time now! I am stuck here, getting up for school, going to school,tuition, ...........After dinner, back to homework table,..... I am bore, I am restless, I want out! Out of the wheel of daily routine!

Few days ago, my son said his ex-classmate passed away, I am not sure if she is even twelve?
If she has a chance to comment before she died, would she said "I have live my life to the fullest!I have been happy all my 12 years of life! This is all I wanted and there's no regret!"
or
" Why mum and dad didn't allow me to live my life the way I wanted!"

Sometimes, I would ask myself, if my child has until tomorrow to live, has he lives a happy life!

Blue Jasmine
07-05-2010, 11:59 AM
It is 11:30pm at night, I am still ironing the cloths! I haven't got to do what I wanted to do, and it has been a long time now! I m stuck here, preparing breakfast, bring my children to school, go marketing, prepare lunch, bring lunch to school for my child who has extra class, bring another child to a different school, then bring my child for co-co, then prepare dinner, .... I am stuck here, can't get off the wheel! The wheel of daily routine, go round and round, doing what I need to do.....I want to have something different to feed my soul!

Now, just say I am a kid, 11:30pm I am still doing school homework, I haven't got to do what I wanted to do, and it has been a long time now! I am stuck here, getting up for school, going to school,tuition, ...........After dinner, back to homework table,..... I am bore, I am restless, I want out! Out of the wheel of daily routine!

Few days ago, my son said his ex-classmate passed away, I am not sure if she is even twelve?
If she has a chance to comment before she died, would she said "I have live my life to the fullest!I have been happy all my 12 years of life! This is all I wanted and there's no regret!"
or
" Why mum and dad didn't allow me to live my life the way I wanted!"

Sometimes, I would ask myself, if my child has until tomorrow to live, has he lives a happy life!


Again as i mention earlier God never say this is a fair world we live in. Is not easy being human. Some day we will get the answer.

Jennylim
07-05-2010, 08:36 PM
Parents can make life miserable for a child, or otherwise.

Some parents never stop and think, am i doing something right for a child? A lot of parents more busy preparing children for their future than to live now.