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patrick
18-12-2009, 07:36 PM
This woman (dont mean to be sexist) really got no brain or courtesy at all. Real IDIOT and most inconsiderate driver in the whole world!!

This morning I parked in a proper parking lot in front of HSBC about 10.30am to do some ATM transaction. Came out and there was this idiot woman who had double parked diagonally in front of me and had just come out of the car. Told her nicely I was leaving and if she could please move her car so that I could go out. She looked at me dumbly and said to me "Can come out what!" Couldnt she see there was a car parked right closely behind me? Told her sorry I cant and a 2nd time..."Can you please move your car". She stood there and still refuse and kept insisting I could get out without her moving her car.

I lost my patience and this time I shouted at her to please move her car and that I wanted to go out. She still stood there like a dumbo!! Walking past was a guy who heard and saw what was going on, and told her "There are so many parking lots... why dont you park your car properly?" And she still had the cheek to tell both of us "I just want to go to the bank for a while"!! Can you beat that?? Did she expect me to wait for her till she finish her banking or what???? This time I really lost my cool and I shouted at her to move her car (but still no foul words), and you know what she replied? "You dont have to shout!" ......NOW, can you beat that???

Whoever know this woman, please tell her how dumb she was. If I had been someone else, she might have got her mouth bashed in or her car damaged.
And please tell her, what I think of her. MOST STUPID PERSON AND DRIVER I HAVE EVER COME ACROSS !!

Jey
18-12-2009, 07:53 PM
Sorry to hear that Pat, but there are many more where these dimwits come from. Personally I experienced this many times. While waiting for my wife infront of a bank, a lady driver did the same to me. Came and squeezed tightly infront of my car when there was another car parked closely behind. Such a selfish idiot. After parking she just rushed past me as if I didnt exist. I had a tough time squeezing thru when taking my car out. Almost spat on her windscreen but decided to contain my anger as my wife was beside. Beleive me, I know what its like. Real kiasu drivers.

coleslaw
18-12-2009, 08:08 PM
the last time i encountered the same situation, i handed my car keys to the guy and said..ok,since i can't do it, you reversed my car for me.
he moved his car.

chin_wan
18-12-2009, 08:15 PM
This thread will be more interesting if there's picture.

chanelt
18-12-2009, 08:19 PM
I experienced the same in front of HSBC as well. That lady blocked my car was driving silver Vios. She just pretended apathy when I scolded her. I have no choice but moved & reverse my car slowly. I took me 10mins, by that time when I successfully moved my car out, she has walked out from the bank & drove away.. :mad:

mykern
18-12-2009, 08:41 PM
MOST STUPID PERSON AND DRIVER I HAVE EVER COME ACROSS !!
This .. despite getting "educated" in this country ...
similar thing happened to me .. .. waited for her family member to come out of the house by waiting in the middle of the road .... flashed light behind her, didn't notice ... horned only, she moved .... and they want to be treated fairly .... pohdi!~

StonTemplePilot
18-12-2009, 08:54 PM
Has a similar experience many months back when i was at the pasar malam in SS13 subang...was putting my fruits into the boot when this kancil stopped right behind me and the malay guy alighted...Told him that i am leaving and needs to reverse out and he can take my parking slot...

He said"Saya pergi tengok kawan sekejap...tunggu yeah!!!" :rolleyes:

Told him i am leaving now andd pls move and park in my slot...Crazily he started yelling that this place is his friends place and we have no business parking around here!! Started cursing me bodoh and all...I just stared at him and he moved on to reverse....If wifey was not there, I would have taken my steering lock and bash his numbskull

Sentinel
18-12-2009, 09:15 PM
Patrick, you are real cool dude! Yes, thats all I have got to say to you, you're one real cool dude!

If it has been me, the lady would have a broken jaw, lady or not... anyone know her please tell her how blardy lucky she bumped into cool cucumber Patrick and not Sentinel!

patrick
18-12-2009, 11:01 PM
This thread will be more interesting if there's picture.

Should have thought of that. And I would have no qualm posting her pics to show the world who this dumbo look like ! Idiot !!

patrick
18-12-2009, 11:03 PM
I experienced the same in front of HSBC as well. That lady blocked my car was driving silver Vios. She just pretended apathy when I scolded her. I have no choice but moved & reverse my car slowly. I took me 10mins, by that time when I successfully moved my car out, she has walked out from the bank & drove away.. :mad:

Hey, could it be the same idiot??? I think it was a silver Vios, IF I am not mistaken !!

patrick
18-12-2009, 11:04 PM
Patrick, you are real cool dude! Yes, thats all I have got to say to you, you're one real cool dude!

If it has been me, the lady would have a broken jaw, lady or not... anyone know her please tell her how blardy lucky she bumped into cool cucumber Patrick and not Sentinel!

Yeah...I was cooling down after my kungfu class ! Should have used her as my punching bag huh?

Sentinel
18-12-2009, 11:49 PM
The problem with these type of people is they watch too much Hong Kong movies and try to behave like the actors in these movies and secondly they expect that they won't get smashed up with a broken jaw because they are ladies... what a misconceived mind...

pucman
19-12-2009, 12:06 AM
The problem is most people think it's alright to double park as they run their 'short' errand.

So it is now considered common malaysian culture.

This is not rare but quite common in commercial areas.:mad:

I have seen double parkers even when there are vacant parking lots further away. They just couldn't be bothered to drive around to look for one.

No wonder they are getting fatter and fatter in the tummy.

The same goes with jay walkers (who cross roads everywhere even when talking on the phone) who walk very slowly even after being horned. It's as if the cars should look out for them and not the other way around. :rolleyes:

kwchang
19-12-2009, 12:24 AM
Rightfully, we should not condone all these shouting at other people but I do have to salute Patrick for his near cool stance. If I was in his place, I would have given her a public lecture about lazy people who can't walk a few meters and need to be parked right next to the ATM if possible. Next time I will carry a small camera whenever I go to Taipan

Vixey
19-12-2009, 01:43 AM
I am a woman and I am sorry to say this but my own kind can be some of the stupidest drivers on earth.

Once at one of the traffic lights in USJ, this woman driver in front of me, started moving forward when the light was green..just seconds after accelerating forward she completely slows down to answer her friggin mobile.

I am right behind, of course jam my breaks, car behind me also screeched. The bloody woman looks just nonplussed, just continue texting away while the car is swaying from side to side.

zinglicious
19-12-2009, 01:52 AM
WFM = Woman From Mooland. It registered with the right abbrevation. :D :D :D SUmore , drive a VIOS, where is the Loch Ness where you need it? :p :p

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 02:21 AM
Ugly Malaysian who ? I would say the guys not the VIOS 's girl. Come on ..be a gentlemen ! Arguing,still bad mounthing the girl after say 24 hrs and somemore one to bash the girl..tsk...tsk....tsk...and someone still called it cool .So 'to be cool' now carry a new meaning . Betul malu...

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 02:30 AM
Patrick, you are real cool dude! Yes, thats all I have got to say to you, you're one real cool dude!

If it has been me, the lady would have a broken jaw, lady or not... anyone know her please tell her how blardy lucky she bumped into cool cucumber Patrick and not Sentinel!

Excuse me for hijacking here. I am thinking of starting a thread : How do we view Men uses physical violence on Women in Malaysia ?

zinglicious
19-12-2009, 02:56 AM
Ok, I agree with you two wrongs to make a right. Of course, I agree violence is not the answer but to voice out frustrations at the attitudes of Ulgy Malaysian should be allowed. Moreover, I happened to know Patrick to be a mild and meek like a sheep ( and not because he is one of the moderators and customers ) but it has its limit. A busty or gutsy lady whatever, who thinks she own the whole of Subang Jaya and inconsiderate should be bashed and chewed in words for showing indifference and most of all disrespect.
I mean if you were in Patrick shoes, tell me honestly how would you reacted when someone especially a lady thinks that you are immaterial? I would be interested to hear your story.... :confused: :confused: :confused:

chewie
19-12-2009, 06:40 AM
i was imagining if Patrick were driving a big 4WD with all the 'iron' bar around the vehicle and just drove out like that...what will happen to the car ??

it happen to a friend once before after been waiting for almost 30 mins with constant horning. then he used his 4wd and just make his own space out by making a new look to the car that is blocking her

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 09:59 AM
Ok, I agree with you two wrongs to make a right. Of course, I agree violence is not the answer but to voice out frustrations at the attitudes of Ulgy Malaysian should be allowed. Moreover, I happened to know Patrick to be a mild and meek like a sheep ( and not because he is one of the moderators and customers ) but it has its limit. A busty or gutsy lady whatever, who thinks she own the whole of Subang Jaya and inconsiderate should be bashed and chewed in words for showing indifference and most of all disrespect.I mean if you were in Patrick shoes, tell me honestly how would you reacted when someone especially a lady thinks that you are immaterial? I would be interested to hear your story.... :confused: :confused: :confused:

Thre is nothing to be confused about . I *will never 'touch' a women not even 1 strand of her hair no matter how hightened is the provocation . hope I am not the only one who think this way.

* With God 's Helps

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 10:06 AM
i was imagining if Patrick were driving a big 4WD with all the 'iron' bar around the vehicle and just drove out like that...what will happen to the car ??

it happen to a friend once before after been waiting for almost 30 mins with constant horning. then he used his 4wd and just make his own space out by making a new look to the car that is blocking her

better be patience , dont forget we have a 'road bully act ' and in bolehland unless you are the biggershot better dont play play..

ksj_cool
19-12-2009, 10:13 AM
Next time tell the lady ' OK lah since you say I can reverse I will, but kena yr kereta you pay for the damages!' then see what she does.

zinglicious
19-12-2009, 10:38 AM
better be patience , dont forget we have a 'road bully act ' and in bolehland unless you are the biggershot better dont play play..

Actually, I think it is the woman who is the road bully and Patrick is a mere victim. And she is no lady, just a mere tramp. She play play because patrick does not look mean like me.
And I like ksj cool suggestion - Just bang lah.
In fact, I had done it before and walked away just that. Sumore, I lodged a polis report and that was a old cara and I had all the time in the world then.And I had 2 other cars to spare! Just wanted to teach the dude a lesson and was cool about it. :D :cool: :D

Naka
19-12-2009, 10:53 AM
'..... due to the 3rd world mentality of our people.....' applies here.

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 10:59 AM
Actually, I think it is the woman who is the road bully and Patrick is a mere victim. And she is no lady, just a mere tramp. She play play because patrick does not look mean like me.
And I like ksj cool suggestion - Just bang lah.
In fact, I had done it before and walked away just that. Sumore, I lodged a polis report and that was a old cara and I had all the time in the world then.And I had 2 other cars to spare! Just wanted to teach the dude a lesson and was cool about it. :D :cool: :D


Anyway ,if it is a guy , probably my reaction will be the same like you . ..

Firefly
19-12-2009, 11:12 AM
Don't blame just women here. All you need is to take a drive along the bank row in Subang Jaya (SS15/4D) and the whole Taipan area. Every few minutes you find inconsiderate double parking cars. The drivers are no where to be seen when a car wants to vacate the parking space to find that they are blocked. A blaring of horns and the inconsiderate driver just won't show up.

Should we start a thread here to upload the pictures of cars involved?

TiNKeRFY
19-12-2009, 11:17 AM
Classic example of pure selfish people..
They are either unable to think or couldn't be bothered to think about others and only prioritise themselves...
If i were to double park, I'd always park, go in take a look at the queue and walk out to check if the car I'm blocking wants to go out.. just a simple courtesy...

I've seen drivers who suddenly slowdown to talk/sms on their phones.. Usually I'll just horn all the way, until they move out of my way.. it was also to alert any police to notice them using the phone while driving.. they ought to be taught a lesson!!

Sentinel
19-12-2009, 01:02 PM
Ugly Malaysian who ? I would say the guys not the VIOS 's girl. Come on ..be a gentlemen ! Arguing,still bad mounthing the girl after say 24 hrs and somemore one to bash the girl..tsk...tsk....tsk...and someone still called it cool .So 'to be cool' now carry a new meaning . Betul malu...Don't try to portray yourself as a "holier than thou" gentleman here lah... the things you have written here and the what you have done to disrupt this forum using "Flamethrower" and now "Ice Cooler" speaks tonnes of yourself so don't even try to act "holier than thou" here...

Do I lay a hand on a woman or a lady? The answer is no if they are true woman or ladies in behaviour. Do I whack another man? The answer is whether he is a gentleman or he is just a pretender.

In your case, you've posted from Johore as Flamethrower (and put as Singapore) and now still posting from Johore (and put as Perak)... I think you fall under the "pretender" category for me...

CS Chua
19-12-2009, 01:18 PM
I had a same unfortunate experience recently. Since it was only the bumper blocking me, I decided to ram against it repeatedly, hoping that my car will squeeze through. However, since I only had 3 feet for "take off" I could not get enough speed to ram it through. Surprisingly, that BMW bumper was quite flexible and managed to take all my knocks. There were people standing around watching as I rammed against that bumper and watched that BMW rocking. When the other guy came out finally, I happened to stop so he did not see me doing it otherwise, an opportunity might have been presented to me to knock his blardy head off. BTW, I am sending my Camry in for a new coat of paint so it does not bother me if my bumper gets more scratches. It will be different if the Camry has been re-sprayed.

I should say that I am a pacifist but hey, if anyone attacks me physically, provoked or unprovoked, my right to self defense will be used. And if anybody parks his car behind me and make it difficult to reverse out (like inside many malls' car parks), too bad for that car. A dent or two will be his/her rewards.

Sentinel
19-12-2009, 02:27 PM
I had a same unfortunate experience recently. Since it was only the bumper blocking me, I decided to ram against it repeatedly, hoping that my car will squeeze through. However, since I only had 3 feet for "take off" I could not get enough speed to ram it through. Surprisingly, that BMW bumper was quite flexible and managed to take all my knocks. There were people standing around watching as I rammed against that bumper and watched that BMW rocking. When the other guy came out finally, I happened to stop so he did not see me doing it otherwise, an opportunity might have been presented to me to knock his blardy head off. BTW, I am sending my Camry in for a new coat of paint so it does not bother me if my bumper gets more scratches. It will be different if the Camry has been re-sprayed.

I should say that I am a pacifist but hey, if anyone attacks me physically, provoked or unprovoked, my right to self defense will be used. And if anybody parks his car behind me and make it difficult to reverse out (like inside many malls' car parks), too bad for that car. A dent or two will be his/her rewards.
I like your attitude CSChua... perhaps a Hummer H2 or H3 would be more suitable for you too... :D

patrick
19-12-2009, 03:29 PM
I am a woman and I am sorry to say this but my own kind can be some of the stupidest drivers on earth.

Once at one of the traffic lights in USJ, this woman driver in front of me, started moving forward when the light was green..just seconds after accelerating forward she completely slows down to answer her friggin mobile.

I am right behind, of course jam my breaks, car behind me also screeched. The bloody woman looks just nonplussed, just continue texting away while the car is swaying from side to side.

I know what you mean. I have experienced that too often. But luckily you didnt whack her back and also the other car didnt whack your back. Otherwise you kena salah some more. That will be real injustice!!

CS Chua
19-12-2009, 05:59 PM
I like your attitude CSChua... perhaps a Hummer H2 or H3 would be more suitable for you too... :D
I wish I still got my old Volvo 144 big bumper model. That is next best to the Hummer.

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 06:32 PM
If a reactive attidude like this were to encourage or deemed positive , the road will be a dangerous place to be when your are in a vehicle. Surely it is not easy to behave cooly but we have to try our best . Our road could be safer and fun again (driving ).

IceCooler
19-12-2009, 06:44 PM
Don't try to portray yourself as a "holier than thou" gentleman here lah... the things you have written here and the what you have done to disrupt this forum using "Flamethrower" and now "Ice Cooler" speaks tonnes of yourself so don't even try to act "holier than thou" here...

Do I lay a hand on a woman or a lady? The answer is no if they are true woman or ladies in behaviour. Do I whack another man? The answer is whether he is a gentleman or he is just a pretender.

In your case, you've posted from Johore as Flamethrower (and put as Singapore) and now still posting from Johore (and put as Perak)... I think you fall under the "pretender" category for me...

Women also want to whack . Hope we all can attain some 'gentlemanly character ' .

P/S. I am not holier then thou nor a gentlemen in the truest sense but I will never stiche or hit a women whether they are lady- like or not.

Furthermore I hope the moderator will assist me as I am been harrassed. This is a open forum ,that's why I speak my mind . Pls dealt with me (Moderator)if I deemed to go overboard.

Sentinel
19-12-2009, 07:49 PM
Furthermore I hope the moderator will assist me as I am been harrassed. This is a open forum ,that's why I speak my mind . Pls dealt with me (Moderator)if I deemed to go overboard.Stop the game Ice Cooler. You're not new here. You have been here before as FlameThrower and still posting from Johore. The last time you claimed to be from Singapore and now from Perak. Stop playing game and if you are a serious forumer and not up to funny and childish games, no one will harass you.

By the way, you asking the moderator to assist you for being harassed? Hey you harassed him yesterday, forgotten so fast already?


Why should'nt I be ignorant ? I am not a Muslim.I am merely making an enquiry on how Muslim view gender equality in todays world. Using an analogy on why muslim women does not have the same rights .

I dont think it is appropriate for you to called me an ignorant and furthermore I assume you are not a Muslim and it is even more inappropriate.

I think you should apologise .

kpc
19-12-2009, 08:11 PM
I think Patrick was wrong to have shouted at her.
Road rage violence usually starts from there.

He should have asked her politely a few more times.

umadavid
19-12-2009, 08:14 PM
I think Patrick was wrong to have shouted at her.
Road rage violence usually starts from there.

He should have asked her politely a few more times.
Why don't you go to the first post and read it slowly and carefully before commenting! :rolleyes:

Sentinel
19-12-2009, 08:49 PM
Why don't you go to the first post and read it slowly and carefully before commenting! :rolleyes:What others wrote here sometimes do not seem to be of any significance lah, Uma. All they care is to project their own "holier than thou" stances and KPC is a well-known in this area... he is good 'hit and run' forumer too - thats why he calls himself KPC...

kpc
19-12-2009, 09:13 PM
I once read somewhere that the true measure of a man is how much it takes to make him angry.
Let's hope Patrick can improve on his score in the future.

chewie
19-12-2009, 10:20 PM
kpc...i wonder how would you react if you were in the same situation..

Nick Chia
19-12-2009, 11:40 PM
I never had this problem. I am 6' 6' and they just complied. Size does matters :D :D :D

denver
20-12-2009, 12:14 AM
I think Patrick was wrong to have shouted at her.
Road rage violence usually starts from there.

I think road rage starts from people who are blatantly inconsiderate to other drivers...that is the root cause. That woman was so inconsiderate and annoying, even a cool-headed person can lose their temper.

If everybody is considerate to other drivers, obey the law and generally drive nicely and normally, then road rage shouldn't happen in the first place....because there is nothing to "rage" about.

termibait
20-12-2009, 12:35 AM
I think road rage starts from people who are blatantly inconsiderate to other drivers...that is the root cause. That woman was so inconsiderate and annoying, even a cool-headed person can lose their temper.

If everybody is considerate to other drivers, obey the law and generally drive nicely and normally, then road rage shouldn't happen in the first place....because there is nothing to "rage" about.

I am totally agreed but this is nearly impossible in the world, what's more it is in our Bolehland.

It is not a matter or woman or guy, but this person is real pain in a ass for being inconsiderate! I once had a car parked at my Gate,where there is so many parking lot just few metres away as my neighbour was holding his housewarming party. This is totally insane! What i did? I went to his house and shout at the guests! Who's the bloody stupid car owner parking right in front of my gate! and this guy was so malu and keep apologise as he went to remove his car! I guess, Shouting does help and being polite when you are being challenged in this situation is driving you crazy...and i dun want to end up at Tanjung Rambutan......

zinglicious
20-12-2009, 02:36 AM
I once read somewhere that the true measure of a man is how much it takes to make him angry.
Let's hope Patrick can improve on his score in the future.

The Bible said if you are slapped on the right cheek, offer the right cheek , too! But what if anyone were to slap you on the right and the left? No further instructions in the bible......and Patrick was humilated 3 times.
IMHO, that is so much a real man can take! ;) :cool: ;)

kpc
20-12-2009, 10:13 AM
What i did? I went to his house and shout at the guests! Who's the bloody stupid car owner parking right in front of my gate! and this guy was so malu and keep apologise as he went to remove his car! I guess, Shouting does help and being polite when you are being challenged in this situation is driving you crazy...and i dun want to end up at Tanjung Rambutan......

What if the guests come out with baseball bats and sticks?
You want to end up in SJMC?

Sentinel
20-12-2009, 12:18 PM
What if the guests come out with baseball bats and sticks?
You want to end up in SJMC?
If one has already decided to take it on, what is a baseball bat or stick? Lawan pasti lawan...

bslee
20-12-2009, 12:25 PM
Yah, may end up like this:

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/12/20/nation/5341291&sec=nation

Then if those who can afford SJMC, thats fine. I don't think I can afford SJMC but nearest gahmen hospital.

patrick
20-12-2009, 12:28 PM
Why don't you go to the first post and read it slowly and carefully before commenting! :rolleyes:

Thanks uma. Gosh...some people just dont read or read and dont comprehend!! This world is getting very confusing lah !! Better to just laugh and let everything pass before I drop dead from stress!! Hahaha!!!

Justme123
20-12-2009, 12:29 PM
I will also get very angry in such situation like Patrick,
and in the past had resorted to violence and fortunately got away with it.

But nowadays, i strive to maintain the proper behavior of not letting
anger get out of hand, as least as long as possible.
Never know, we might end up like this, if the lady's ganster boyfriend or husband happened to around nearby.

Picture of road rage victim (http://www.thestar.com.my/archives/2009/12/20/nation/n_03chong.jpg) showing Victim of road bully: Chong resting in the hospital after being knocked down by a motorist
in Seri Kembangan last week. TheStar (http://www.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/12/20/nation/5341291&sec=nation)"

Rather than letting our anger take over,
we should take as many slow breaths as possible to calm down (medititation helps)
and then rationally assess the situation to take to the most effective strategy.

I think the most effective approach
is to take a video or picture (most h/p are capable of this) of the
lady's traffic offence and threaten her that you will pass it over to the police,
and tell her the summon could be RM300 or some larger sum.
With such solid evidence, it is likely that she will move.

What's next, if she is adament and still do not want to move?
Most of us are not saints and there is always a limit to one's patience.
If after some persuasion & warnings and there is no solution,
then it's probably a 'free for all" situation but balance with 'you may (hopefully may not if -ve) reap what you sow".

bslee
20-12-2009, 12:34 PM
I think the most effective approach
is to take a video or picture (most h/p are capable of this)

Ah!.. so its time for many folks to acquire a new phone with best camera features. Yes, I have one and I really appreciate its wonderful features and DOES come in handy when its needed most.

Sentinel
20-12-2009, 12:49 PM
Thanks uma. Gosh...some people just dont read or read and dont comprehend!! This world is getting very confusing lah !! Better to just laugh and let everything pass before I drop dead from stress!! Hahaha!!!When I pass u the book on spirulina and alkaline water, you will notice both do wonders on stress reduction he he he! In the meantime, just laugh it off the funny posts from some forumers that are silly or like me, kasi balek kau kau!

zinglicious
20-12-2009, 12:49 PM
It is better to be a lover than to be a fighter :D :)
Once my friend was involved in a minor car accident, he got out and faced a ruthless guy who happened to look like some wannabe thug. He suggested to make a police report after the man was adamant that he needed to be paid Rm300 for the damage and blah blah blah. This friend of mine was short and skinny and looked like a lamb to be bullied. Coincidentally, two cops came and upon seeing my friend, they tabik to him as he was a police inspector. The wannabe thug froze!
After the incident, I asked him why he did not show his authority card - he calmly said why need to show off and act like a bully? If wrong , wrong . If niot satisfied, polis report lah. If I showed off, I would be acting like a gangsta which I am not.
This happened about 1980 when I was just a school kid getting a lesson from my mentor. :) :cool: :)

Sentinel
20-12-2009, 12:54 PM
Please read the case of the road rage in Sri Kembangan AGAIN and try to UNDERSTAND the situation guys. There was no making loive or war alternatives for the victim, please read again!

He was runned down with his lady partner, he gave chase because the driver ran away. He got into an argument and I believed they settled to report the case to the cops but the other party rammed him down again.

Its just unfortunate. BUT he had no choice but to go after the other party who was getting away. What should he do, just lie down and die and hope for an insurance payout? What would you do if you are in his shoes? Make love and not war?

Get real fellas.... talk is cheap.

Justme123
20-12-2009, 01:41 PM
Please read the case of the road rage in Sri Kembangan AGAIN and try to UNDERSTAND the situation guys. There was no making loive or war alternatives for the victim, please read again!

He was runned down with his lady partner, he gave chase because the driver ran away. He got into an argument and I believed they settled to report the case to the cops but the other party rammed him down again.

Its just unfortunate. BUT he had no choice but to go after the other party who was getting away. What should he do, just lie down and die and hope for an insurance payout? What would you do if you are in his shoes? Make love and not war?

Get real fellas.... talk is cheap. I think the trigger point that initially ignited the violence was this and it went out of control subsequently after the police report.

"She said a heated argument took place when the driver allegedly refused to acknowledge his mistake and challenged Chong to a fist fight."

We do not know what transpired in that 'heated' argument and what was argued by the two parties.
Somehow it triggered the animal instinct in one of the party.

The best approach is to avoid 'heated' arguments as, if the other party is a maniac, animal or psychopath, anything can happened.
Sometimes even a stare can get one killed.

Fang Su
20-12-2009, 02:10 PM
A lot of testosterones doing the talking in this thread.

A streetfighter (not necessarily a kungfu master) once advised me "If you want to start something, make sure you are able to carry it through to the end". If you think you are a high and big mountian, look around you to see if there are higher and bigger mountains than you.

zinglicious
20-12-2009, 02:17 PM
And a lot of testosterones because of one woman egoestrogenic attitude and disrespect just because he has some ugly hubby like Bung, perhaps? :D :eek: :D

Sentinel
20-12-2009, 05:10 PM
A lot of testosterones doing the talking in this thread.

A streetfighter (not necessarily a kungfu master) once advised me "If you want to start something, make sure you are able to carry it through to the end". If you think you are a high and big mountian, look around you to see if there are higher and bigger mountains than you.
Why do you need a streetfighter to tell you that? Commonsense would have told you that. :o

Fang Su
20-12-2009, 06:09 PM
Why do you need a streetfighter to tell you that? Commonsense would have told you that. :o

You think so? There are many people without any sense at all, let along common sense.

Fang Su
20-12-2009, 06:10 PM
I once read somewhere that the true measure of a man is how much it takes to make him angry.


I agree with you absolutely.

Sentinel
20-12-2009, 09:09 PM
You think so? There are many people without any sense at all, let along common sense.Fully agree with you, common sense just ain't that common commodity anymore. Lots of idiots around... some obviously boast alot of testosterone but little grey matter between the ears... :D

IceCooler
20-12-2009, 09:42 PM
the driver of the car that accidentely knock down the couple and intentionally knock them down again is definetely sick in the mind.

car become a deadly weapon.?

it is a serious social problem that the govt.has to seriously dealt with and fast. a very tough problem indeed ,just like drug trafficking .

Fang Su
21-12-2009, 08:30 AM
Fully agree with you, common sense just ain't that common commodity anymore. Lots of idiots around... some obviously boast alot of testosterone but little grey matter between the ears... :D

Oh yes. It is a question of knowing which cateogry you belong to. I am sure deep down you do know. It takes a courage to admit that you are the man in the mirror.

fongkimseng
21-12-2009, 09:31 AM
Ladies and Gentlemen,

We are on the verge of getting worked-up and possible bananas for name-callings .... just my observations and not worth it for some inconsiderate driver.

kwchang
21-12-2009, 11:44 AM
Actually, this thread has a little sociological trap as it makes people come out of their shell (or veil) and announce to all and sundry what nasty things fester in their minds !! :eek: :(

From here, if you were to take time to list them out, a number of you actually agree on the justification to take the law into your own hands and to bring bodily harm to another human being. Absolutely barbaric - not a name-call but just a simple correlation. Barbaric because no one should hit another person, no matter how bad the situation ... I shall assume that some of you are simply instigating discussions and when the going gets bad, I doubt any of you would resort to such resolutions

Fang Su
21-12-2009, 11:53 AM
Chang. I agree with you absolutely.

Blue Jasmine
21-12-2009, 01:30 PM
Chang. I agree with you absolutely.


honestly i think everyone double parks...those that dont probally has a less hectic life. anyway the women is unbelieveable...she is really waiting for fight.

VeeJay
21-12-2009, 01:32 PM
honestly i think everyone double parks...those that dont probally has a less hectic life. anyway the women is unbelieveable...she is really waiting for fight.

I have never double parked and would never will, its just a matter of principle to me, not to cause inconvenience to others as how I dont want them to do the same to me... :rolleyes:

Firefly
21-12-2009, 01:37 PM
Picture this scenario..

You left your 12 year old at home to buy some food from the shops near by. You have parked in a parking lot, you get a call from your child that he just fell from his bicycle and is bleeding badly. You rush to your car to see another car have double parked behind you. You sound your horn...10 minutes the double parked car owner still did not appear. WHAT will you do? 15 minutes later, the owner turns up..cheekly smiles at you, get's into the car, instead of driving off immediately, answers his phone, comb his hair..just ignoring you. Will you go bash him up?? :rolleyes:

Fang Su
21-12-2009, 02:11 PM
Picture this scenario..

You left your 12 year old at home to buy some food from the shops near by. You have parked in a parking lot, you get a call from your child that he just fell from his bicycle and is bleeding badly. You rush to your car to see another car have double parked behind you. You sound your horn...10 minutes the double parked car owner still did not appear. WHAT will you do? 15 minutes later, the owner turns up..cheekly smiles at you, get's into the car, instead of driving off immediately, answers his phone, comb his hair..just ignoring you. Will you go bash him up?? :rolleyes:

Friend. There are many scenarios each one of us can give. Ten different people can give you ten different scenarios. But where does it all stop?

"He who fights monsters must take care lest he become a monster. When you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss gazes into you." - Friedrich Nietzsche

hezron
21-12-2009, 02:15 PM
I have never double parked and would never will, its just a matter of principle to me, not to cause inconvenience to others as how I dont want them to do the same to me... :rolleyes:

Fully agreed with you ;)
there are plenty of parking available in the centerized car park...
and if you think its too far to walk to HSBC, park at their basement parking :D

decypher
21-12-2009, 02:49 PM
Fully agreed with you ;)
there are plenty of parking available in the centerized car park...
and if you think its too far to walk to HSBC, park at their basement parking :D

I agree with you. Taipan is not that big what. A bit of walking is good for health!

patrick
21-12-2009, 03:03 PM
When I pass u the book on spirulina and alkaline water, you will notice both do wonders on stress reduction he he he! In the meantime, just laugh it off the funny posts from some forumers that are silly or like me, kasi balek kau kau!

I have been on spirulina for the last few years ! ;-)

termibait
21-12-2009, 03:58 PM
If one has already decided to take it on, what is a baseball bat or stick? Lawan pasti lawan...

Haha, i don think so i need to respect these ppl when they did not show theirs. As a matter of fact, i think the Buddha's teaching of "Patience!" does not apply to this era anymore. U need to stand up for your rights and not otherwise!

As for the baseball bat~it didn't cross my mind and i believe that Seri Kembangan Victim did not think of that(run him down from behind) either.....Ppl can be so ruthless nowadays.....which is totally different from few decades ago....If such teaching(by asking nicely) is still effective and applicable...shall we all go to parliment and ask our govt not to spend our money like drinking water.....do u think they will listen and adhere?........

zinglicious
21-12-2009, 04:25 PM
There is a case of road rage where the road bully whacked dead a motorist in Seremban highway years ago. The victim dead and he was sent to jailed for many , many years. He may win the battle to showed off his tai kow image to bully , but he lost the war eventually. Two wrongs dont make a right - and the poor young motorist was killed in the process. :p :eek: :p

Hiliary
22-12-2009, 01:06 AM
I have never double parked and would never will, its just a matter of principle to me, not to cause inconvenience to others as how I dont want them to do the same to me... :rolleyes:

+1, not yet anyway but have been tempted to triple park and blow my horn in unison with the blocked guy! I think that would get everyone behind me blowing their horn, which (noise) might just get the double parker back into his car?

Lately i do my bank run late at night, and ride a bike to get my breakfast.
Which raises another issue of the ugly motorist when it comes to bike riders, why do they think they can pull out in front of me or try to force me off the road? How come so many of them are women???

Which leads to the issue of ugly motorists when it comes to dog walkers. When i am halfway across a junction why does the motorist think he can blow his horn, try to force me to stop or squeeze past me? Why does he drive away when i scream my invite at him to get out of his car? It's just me he has to face, my 50+ kilo large toothed dog will sit and wait patiently........

tupai
22-12-2009, 11:14 AM
Lately i do my bank run late at night, and ride a bike to get my breakfast.
Which raises another issue of the ugly motorist when it comes to bike riders, why do they think they can pull out in front of me or try to force me off the road? How come so many of them are women???
......

becos they being BLIND IDIOTs only do what comes naturally?
The last feminine idiot driving a bmw did that to me. I fell and she drove off. I picked up my 200kg steed and gave chase...the rest is history. :D

And i betcha she never drove the same way again.... :D

Yang Belasah idiot drivers regardless of race, sex, age, religion latotupai :mad:

shthang
22-12-2009, 11:35 AM
when i read this thread, i was asking myself the following questions:

- how will you feel if it is your wife, mother, daughter or sister is the blurred sotong lady driver and one guy driver was shouting at her or trying to harm her?

- will Patrick do the same if there were 2-3 strong guys accompanying the lady driver at the scene and his children were in the car with him?

to me, there is no preferred or perfect approach in such incident, it's up to individual wisdom to assess the risk and situation to deal with it and also face the consequence.

zinglicious
22-12-2009, 11:38 AM
What was the history? Wanna to know how you dealt with the idiotic driver whose boyfriend might be Mr Bung since she can drive a BMW. :confused: :D :confused:

tupai
22-12-2009, 11:54 AM
... it's up to individual wisdom to assess the risk and situation to deal with it and also face the consequence.

Best advice thus far.

To each his own. if 1acted like a selfish idiot, 1is expected to be treated as 1.
1drive like 1grandfather owns the world, then 1grandpop REALLY better owns it.

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Q.E.D.

Yang Boleh give&take samesame latotupai ;)

p/s History? its archived leow. U Buy me 3beers and your zinglicious 3course dinner, i can dig it up. :p

zinglicious
22-12-2009, 12:02 PM
Since it ios Christmas, I would throw in 3 tigers and 3 plus 3 courses with a swing of Jingle Bells Rock Martini.
Yang berlagak sebagai Santa Claus yang menanti Santarinas yang boleh pandu :) :D :)

Justme123
22-12-2009, 01:35 PM
when i read this thread, i was asking myself the following questions:
- how will you feel if it is your wife, mother, daughter or sister is the blurred sotong lady driver and one guy driver was shouting at her or trying to harm her?If me, I will definitely advise my wife, and family that acting like the 'blurred sotong lady driver" for being such an "idiot" is not socially acceptable.
In this scenario, all she had to do was to reverse a few feet or park in the available parking spaces nearby.
Fortunately i am aware my wife and family members are not that crude and uncultured.


to me, there is no preferred or perfect approach in such incident, it's up to individual wisdom to assess the risk and situation to deal with it and also face the consequence.Agree with this as the universal principles apply, 'you shall reap what you sow' and "do not do unto others, what you do not want others to do to you".

Firefly
22-12-2009, 11:24 PM
It's not only lady drivers. I was blocked by an inconsiderate man driver this evening. There was a few empty places and he just left his car double parked. Took his own sweet time at the bank. I will be posting a picture of his car tomorrow morning here.

As mentioned, How about starting a thread and posting these double parked cars up?

USJ27Resident
23-12-2009, 12:42 AM
when i read this thread, i was asking myself the following questions:

- how will you feel if it is your wife, mother, daughter or sister is the blurred sotong lady driver and one guy driver was shouting at her or trying to harm her?

from what I had read - Patrick was polite initially... t'was the lady driver inconsiderate behavior that got Patrick started "yelling"... so how would "I" feel... guess my wife,mother, daughter,sister...driving and parking in the same manner - DESERVED the yelling!!!

zinglicious
23-12-2009, 01:06 AM
I am a mean Chef as well as a mean Driver. I yelled at my wifey for talking over the phone while driving, yelled when the safety belt were not bulcked up with the kids, and yelled at my female employee for not ensuring the door was securely locked before and while the car is in motion. I may be mean but my demeaning action could saved some innocent lives in the process.
BTW, my daughter was not buckled up one occasion and her head smashed the window screen and cracked it!
Thank God, the windscreen cracked but my daughter head was saved by the hands of God.
Somebody probably thanked God because on the other occasion, the door was swung wide opened because of the carelessness of my female employeee not ensuring the door was locked securely. Imagine if a motorist with a pillon rider were to riding by the side.
I thank God probably because I am meant to be mean which probably saves some innocent lives in the process.
Men or WOmen desrved to be yelled at if there have been negligence or couldnt care less of dirrespectful of safety or driving manners. :) :eek: :)

patrick
23-12-2009, 09:24 AM
It's not only lady drivers. I was blocked by an inconsiderate man driver this evening. There was a few empty places and he just left his car double parked. Took his own sweet time at the bank. I will be posting a picture of his car tomorrow morning here.

As mentioned, How about starting a thread and posting these double parked cars up?

You are right. They come in different shapes, shades and sizes. I dont know how Chang feels, but I am all for it. Getting sick of these double parkers too!!

Firefly
23-12-2009, 09:55 AM
That car is a Nissan BHS 9362.
What I am curious about..If I can wait for a parking place, why can't the Nissan owner? Does the person think it's ok for correctly parked car owner wait for him(or her) to finish their business?

Mr Banana plantation owner, should I post the picture of that double parked car up?

hezron
23-12-2009, 03:01 PM
That car is a Nissan BHS 9362.
What I am curious about..If I can wait for a parking place, why can't the Nissan owner? Does the person think it's ok for correctly parked car owner wait for him(or her) to finish their business?

Mr Banana plantation owner, should I post the picture of that double parked car up?

may be we can turn this thread into a photo album for those car that inconsiderate people...
then we have better thing to do (instead of get too angry with these people, which really no good for ourselves) while we waiting for them to remove their car... :D

cskok8
25-12-2009, 09:18 PM
This woman (dont mean to be sexist) really got no brain or courtesy at all. Real IDIOT and most inconsiderate driver in the whole world!!

This morning I parked in a proper parking lot in front of HSBC about 10.30am to do some ATM transaction. Came out and there was this idiot woman who had double parked diagonally in front of me and had just come out of the car. Told her nicely I was leaving and if she could please move her car so that I could go out. She looked at me dumbly and said to me "Can come out what!" Couldnt she see there was a car parked right closely behind me? Told her sorry I cant and a 2nd time..."Can you please move your car". She stood there and still refuse and kept insisting I could get out without her moving her car.

I lost my patience and this time I shouted at her to please move her car and that I wanted to go out. She still stood there like a dumbo!! Walking past was a guy who heard and saw what was going on, and told her "There are so many parking lots... why dont you park your car properly?" And she still had the cheek to tell both of us "I just want to go to the bank for a while"!! Can you beat that?? Did she expect me to wait for her till she finish her banking or what???? This time I really lost my cool and I shouted at her to move her car (but still no foul words), and you know what she replied? "You dont have to shout!" ......NOW, can you beat that???

Whoever know this woman, please tell her how dumb she was. If I had been someone else, she might have got her mouth bashed in or her car damaged.
And please tell her, what I think of her. MOST STUPID PERSON AND DRIVER I HAVE EVER COME ACROSS !!

I would have offered to cut off her legs for free since she does not want to use them.

lizzy
26-12-2009, 12:36 PM
when i read this thread, i was asking myself the following questions:

- how will you feel if it is your wife, mother, daughter or sister is the blurred sotong lady driver and one guy driver was shouting at her or trying to harm her?

- will Patrick do the same if there were 2-3 strong guys accompanying the lady driver at the scene and his children were in the car with him?

to me, there is no preferred or perfect approach in such incident, it's up to individual wisdom to assess the risk and situation to deal with it and also face the consequence.


- my comment is that..then the wife, or mother or daugther, or sister would need to be rightfully educated to be more civic minded.

- if that lady has a very guys in the car waiting for her, then they are all bunch of blur sotong for not just moving the car away since they are already conveniently sitting in the car waiting.

- if there are kids in the car waiting for that lady, then she should be ashame of herself for not setting the right example to the young generation

I do double park at times when I just want to go into the shop to get some stuff quickly (when there's no proper parking nearby). It is challenging to park at the multi-storey, then drag the kids some 10 min walk to buy something for 2 min. However, my young kids would normally be on the lookout if someone honk, for wanting to go out.

I hope the new parking policy starting 1/Jan would be successful. Happy New Year 2010 USJ folks.. :)

Firebird
26-12-2009, 12:49 PM
- my comment is that..then the wife, or mother or daugther, or sister would need to be rightfully educated to be more civic minded.

- if that lady has a very guys in the car waiting for her, then they are all bunch of blur sotong for not just moving the car away since they are already conveniently sitting in the car waiting.

- if there are kids in the car waiting for that lady, then she should be ashame of herself for not setting the right example to the young generationLizzy, we know that already. Valid points you raised. :). Shthang's post perhaps suggests that Patrick might not have been so bold as to shout at the lady (to the point of hitting her?) if she had with her 2 to 3 strong guys? :p

Happy New Year. :D

shthang
26-12-2009, 01:59 PM
- my comment is that..then the wife, or mother or daugther, or sister would need to be rightfully educated to be more civic minded.

- if that lady has a very guys in the car waiting for her, then they are all bunch of blur sotong for not just moving the car away since they are already conveniently sitting in the car waiting.

- if there are kids in the car waiting for that lady, then she should be ashame of herself for not setting the right example to the young generation

I do double park at times when I just want to go into the shop to get some stuff quickly (when there's no proper parking nearby). It is challenging to park at the multi-storey, then drag the kids some 10 min walk to buy something for 2 min. However, my young kids would normally be on the lookout if someone honk, for wanting to go out.

I hope the new parking policy starting 1/Jan would be successful. Happy New Year 2010 USJ folks.. :)

i cannot geddit. the initial few para's stated all the right things one shall do ie civil minded, respect for people and setting good example for kids, etc. i fully agreed and aligned with you on dat score.

in the next para, cakap tak serupa bikin and trying to justify double parking and leaving kids in the car. piece of advice here - never leave kids alone in car not even for 1min. do read the Star's headline on last thur about lurking monster preying on kids.

Happy new year.

Justme123
04-01-2010, 01:38 PM
Consultant in steering lock attack dies


IPOH: A company consultant succumbed to his injuries five days
after he was attacked with a steering lock on Christmas Day.

Lim Siew Keong, 58, from Kuala Lumpur,
died on Wednesday after the 9.25pm attack.

Perak CID chief Senior Asst Comm II Mohd Dzuraidi Ibrahim said yesterday
that Lim was leaving a restaurant here with his wife after dinner.

“He found a car was blocking his car when he came out
and the victim started honking to alert the owner.

“When the owner came out, there was a heated argument
between the two and the 38-year-old suspect attacked Lim
with a steering lock,” he said.

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/1/3/nation/5405442&sec=nation

jimmyay
04-01-2010, 02:15 PM
Jalanraya-Hantu possessed them and they become a syaitan.

firefox
04-01-2010, 02:25 PM
So ppl who block cars are not only idiots but also murderers!

I would'nt want to cross paths with types of car owners.

patrick
04-01-2010, 03:08 PM
What kind of country are we living in these days. That fler in the wrong and still attack and kill the poor consultant !! Why? Why? When we are in the wrong, admit, apologise and most of the time every thing is ok. Why so difficult??? :eek:

Leojuly
04-01-2010, 04:13 PM
Not so lucky if the attacker is a thug or Ah Long whom you provoke. Could be a depressed person about to burst in anger.

It is not wise to face this fatality even one thinks one was in the right. Prevention is better than cure.

yvonnefoong
04-01-2010, 08:07 PM
I think when we are provoked, it doesn't matter who is in the right or wrong. That is besides the point. When a person is provoked, he is provoked. So no matter what happens, don't provoke people.

tupai
30-01-2010, 01:56 PM
the Laurelguy who got slightly banged from behind, came out angry, cussin'&swerin' and................... with a baseball bat in hand!

guess who ended up with a bbbloody head?:eek:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZjORgUWpW4

Yang Bershivering at orang gila latotupai :eek:

p/s Plus the Laurelguy with a bseball bat in hand, is exposed to be arrested and charged in court for 'criminal intent to hurt' and can also be civil-sued (by the skinny Hardyguy) till his pants dropped! :eek: