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norieko
25-07-2007, 02:14 PM
hye guys..please help me..
i newly moved down to kL person.i need a place to stay..malay gurl and my brother (can stay in diff area but need to be near!)i'll be transfer to USJ 21 soon...plz help me

Kissme
25-07-2007, 09:05 PM
You should check the newspaper classifieds for room/house rental.

orchipalar
25-07-2007, 10:05 PM
Err...Dear Norieko...in another thread which you started...Toink77 offered you a room which is from her friend's apartment...few days ago.

http://www.usj.com.my/bulletin/upload/showthread.php?t=19058

Have you contacted Toink77 via Private Message...here? (http://www.usj.com.my/bulletin/upload/private.php?do=newpm&userid=11315)

kelvinwkw
25-07-2007, 10:46 PM
You may look for room at seven eleven nearby... ;)

norieko
26-07-2007, 09:05 AM
been look at the PM..but quite expensive.rm500 and 700..cant afford.just been working for 2 months..huhuhu...evenmore there is a guy live in different rom. my parents will kill me la..ahahaha :rolleyes:

ElmoLim
26-07-2007, 11:11 AM
been look at the PM..but quite expensive.rm500 and 700..cant afford.just been working for 2 months..huhuhu...evenmore there is a guy live in different rom. my parents will kill me la..ahahaha :rolleyes:

You are to choosy loh ... want the lowest rental and unwilling to share the house with other guy ...

Don't know where are u come from ? Not every guy is bad as you think, sometimes gals are worst than guys ..... I feel insulted by your QUOTE above.

This is 21st century .... and here is not a virgin island ... open your mind ! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

evelynlim
26-07-2007, 11:31 AM
You are to choosy loh ... want the lowest rental and unwilling to share the house with other guy ...

Don't know where are u come from ? Not every guy is bad as you think, sometimes gals are worst than guys ..... I feel insulted by your QUOTE above.

This is 21st century .... and here is not a virgin island ... open your mind ! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

I'm sorry that I've to voice out something that is not related to the topic.
Elmo,I don't see how norieko has insulted you and being choosy. She just stated her condition of getting a room, did she condeming & commenting on a guy? :( In fact, I felt insulted by your words in the last paragraph ! What are you encouraging ? You can't expect everyone think & practise what you do :mad: :mad: :mad:

usj18leong
26-07-2007, 11:34 AM
Apartment rooms in Subang Perdana courts or Subang Permai? (those blocks near Chi Wen school ) are quite cheap.
My part time Indon maid rented an apartment with 3 rooms for RM600 only.

denver
26-07-2007, 11:36 AM
You are to choosy loh ... want the lowest rental and unwilling to share the house with other guy ...

Don't know where are u come from ? Not every guy is bad as you think, sometimes gals are worst than guys ..... I feel insulted by your QUOTE above.

This is 21st century .... and here is not a virgin island ... open your mind ! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

If she is a Muslim, then living in a house with another guy could land her in trouble with the religious authorities. Even if she is not a Muslim, I know many women who are just taking it as a precaution not to share a house with guys they don't know, especially when they are so far away from home. I don't see anything wrong with this principle. Perhaps you should consider that instead of blasting her.

orchipalar
26-07-2007, 11:40 AM
Err buddies...in Norieko's case...when she is posted to USJ21...assuming that she hasn't got transport on her own...it would be wise for her to check out any available rooms in USJ20 or USJ21....it would then be walking distance for her.

Otherwise...not sure whether she would get to use any buses to n from the work place...if she stays anywhere further than USJ20/USJ21.

Susah ler...

norieko
26-07-2007, 11:54 AM
i didn't mean to insult anyone..but i am malay girls who turn 22 and this is my first job..i came from north malaysia don to kL and i cant trust anybody. maybe after get used to it i can accept but not now. it's okay to be a bit far to USJ 21 coz i have my own transport. i'm not being choosy, just taking care of myself.i'm sorry to whom may concern

La Vida Loca
26-07-2007, 11:55 AM
If you refer to her earlier post, she mentioned that she is a "Perempuan Melayu Bujang" and in our country, a single woman cohabiting with a single man is called "khalwat".

Elmo, time to go back to Sesame Street and learn how to be sensitive to other culturals and not to be so "perasan" with everything you read. Maybe Ernie can teach you how to loosen up.

ElmoLim
26-07-2007, 11:56 AM
I'm sorry that I've to voice out something that is not related to the topic.
Elmo,I don't see how norieko has insulted you and being choosy. She just stated her condition of getting a room, did she condeming & commenting on a guy? :( In fact, I felt insulted by your words in the last paragraph ! What are you encouraging ? You can't expect everyone think & practise what you do :mad: :mad: :mad:


:mad: :mad:
I am just cannot tolerate people thinking that guys are bad ... Nowadays, gals are more dangerous than guys ... in this world there are still a lot of good guys.

If you read newspapers, you will notice a lot of crime are conducted by gals.

:mad: :mad:

norieko
26-07-2007, 12:01 PM
it's true..not all gus bad..but i just cannot trust anyone..furthermore,the gurl and the guy that live there no muslim..everything need to take into account such as what kind of food they are taking in..i'm so open minded but this is a precaution step when i was away from my family..soon my mother will come to visit me, i'm sure she ask me to go back to kampung if i live together with guy in one house..i'm sorry elmo if i do insulted you

clleena
26-07-2007, 12:03 PM
Elmo,

1) Even if her parents do quote 'kill' her the relevant Jabatan will question her.

2) In this 21st century as you said, more rapes and sexual harassments are happening. Sometimes even close relatives are the perpetrators. So Elmo, you are right not all guys are bad BUT, definately, some guys are bad. She is a responsible and cautious girl.

3) I am a mother of two girls. If at all my girls have to stay away, I will definately not prefer her to share a house with other male tenants.

orchipalar
26-07-2007, 12:08 PM
Err dear Norieko...in that case...do check out all the 7-11s nearby in USJ...Orchi is certain...from the notices pasted in the bulletin boards within those 7-11 stores...there would be rooms available with Malay families in the vicinity...

Good luck hunting...

clleena
26-07-2007, 12:10 PM
Norieko,

Seriously, you do not need to keep on apologizing to Elmo. If there is any apology to be done, it should be from him to you.

La Vida Loca
26-07-2007, 12:11 PM
Don't be so naive, there's no place that is crime-free. Even robbers, rapists, serial murderers, pimps, drug-addicts, drug-pushers all need a place to stay. We have all read about guys who after watching porn unable to hold back their lust and attack the very same woman they know personally like housemate, sister, daughter, schoolmate even teacher!

( Admin note - unnecessary sexual comments deleted )

Norieko, you're being a smart & cautious girl, keep it up.

norieko
26-07-2007, 12:30 PM
now it's turn out to be another issue..hehhe..thanks to all guys who support me!different house also do crime..installed CC camera in bathroom..plz..i try me best to avoid this kind of thing.

jack10dd
26-07-2007, 02:05 PM
( Admin note - unnecessary sexual comments deleted )

Hi Lavida - pls reconsider what yr science teacher said ( Admin note - unnecessary sexual comments deleted )...unless you meant this as a joke .

JD

sakaibear
26-07-2007, 02:39 PM
is it an offence for a girl regardless of what religion to want to stay in an all girl's house? girls and guys alike need their privacy.

as an example: a friend of mine told me she sleeps without her undergarments on. but if a guy is present she wont take it off. do you know how uncomfortable that is?? elmo...no one said anything about guys being bad. you need to get your facts right. try to empathise for a change and perhaps the girls will pay more attention to you.

norieko, it doesnt matter where u come from just go ahead with what you're comfortable with. esp with JAIS being such a pain in the arse it's good to be cautious.

La Vida Loca
26-07-2007, 03:26 PM
Hi Lavida - pls reconsider what yr science teacher said ( Admin note - unnecessary sexual comments deleted )...unless you meant this as a joke .JD

To say its a complete unfounded truth would be a lie because every men have different capacity. Some are born with bigger blood vessels, some
have hearts that can pump more blood per heart beat. ( Admin note - unnecessary sexual comments deleted )

kwchang
26-07-2007, 05:07 PM
I have bananas for the two (2) of you side-tracking the subject :mad:

norieko
26-07-2007, 05:09 PM
JAIS?yuppp..i cant afford being caught by them..my father will definitely kill me if i create trouble. we warn me bofore and everyday...for your information,my father is an army..so garang one...i bet :p ter avoid such thing.

jianwei85
26-07-2007, 11:30 PM
can someone please stop this male/female bashing. help this girl. if u can't help, at least recommend her some solutions. please do take into considerations that she has her needs and requrements. cut her some slack for goodness sake. is being in need of help a crime?? and to elmolim, u should apologize to her. she only wants to be cautious and to protect her privacy and safety.

7-11 is helpful or perhaps try getting rooms in nearby shophouses? eg. converted top floor? if there's an all female floor available it would be easier and cheaper in terms of transportation costs and rental.

Timothy
27-07-2007, 10:29 AM
can someone please stop this male/female bashing. help this girl. if u can't help, at least recommend her some solutions. please do take into considerations that she has her needs and requrements. cut her some slack for goodness sake. is being in need of help a crime?? and to elmolim, u should apologize to her. she only wants to be cautious and to protect her privacy and safety.

7-11 is helpful or perhaps try getting rooms in nearby shophouses? eg. converted top floor? if there's an all female floor available it would be easier and cheaper in terms of transportation costs and rental.


Administrator,

i do agree with jianwei85 to stop this argument. I do not like to read all these "unnecessary quotes". So, please do not waste our time to keep on fighting on this matter.

Different people have different view on this matter but not necessary to "start the fire" at here.

My poor elmo, now I think you have learned the lesson. Don't worry, just be happy ! :D

You may consider to close this thread.

toink77
28-07-2007, 05:39 PM
Norieko.. i didn't know that you were a Muslim lady when I suggested that place. Since transportation is not a problem to you, then I would suggest you to jalan2 at shoplots at SS15, in the viccinity of Taylor's college to look for advertisements on rooms for rent. There are many students around that area, so I guess there are many rooms available in that area kot. I used to work in that area and notice quite a number of ads on room for rent.

Subang Mewah USJ 1 also has a few types of aprtment and I think the rental rate here is RM600 - 900. You can jalan-jalan around this area to look for advertisements, or perhaps you could post an advertisement saying that you're looking for a room for rent, preferably with Malay ladies. Or maybe you can share an apartment with your brother.

All the best gal!