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pucman
23-12-2006, 12:14 PM
As more and more malaysian chinese are looking for vietnamese bride, please be careful of crooked agents.

From what I heard, most of these brides are sincere but there are a few rotten apples.

http://www.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2006/12/23/nation/16406423&sec=nation

Sugarfree
23-12-2006, 03:03 PM
In the 1st place, is there really a need to go to all the trouble to marry Vietnamese women? In addition to the expenses, there's also the language barrier. Yeah, given body langauge sometimes is enough..(wink wink) but still, for a decent conversation, you'd need more than body language, you know. Hmmm...Msian candidates, not enough, meh??

SunwayKid
23-12-2006, 04:07 PM
You do need to admire the guys determination though. After realising that most bolehlanders females are off limits, do they give up? No - they just choose another nation and start all over.

jack10dd
23-12-2006, 04:26 PM
Bro - most of the man are in 55 - 75 age bracket , and even if u wink until the cow comes home , no 19 yrs old gal will look at them.

With 40 K , at the age 55 with a 19 yrs old gal....i think I will want GOD to extend my lease here on this earth another 30 years more ...

The owner of the agency - the first one in Malaysia , was a 75 yrs old man ...

Sugarfree
23-12-2006, 04:33 PM
...The owner of the agency - the first one in Malaysia , was a 75 yrs old man ...
Lucky chap, this 75 year old man. So, I take it that he gets to urmmm..audition the Vietnamese girls first, izzit? Hahahaha.... ;)

Wait! Wait! Was? Did you say 'was'? So, the fella's passed on? If so, I ain't surprised...I mean, the heart can only take this much of excitement from a sweet 19 year Vietnamese girl, after all! ;) :p

bslee
23-12-2006, 04:56 PM
All depends on one's luck lah! My elder brother (aged somewhat 60) after 2 failed marraiges got married to a V girl (somewhat similar age to his eldest daughter) and I understand he's quite happy, got 2 kids with her somemore!.

SunwayKid
23-12-2006, 05:14 PM
Dating is a horrific process, constant auditioning for those to whom you are attracted and not so attracted (future n-laws). Somehow, you will be hoping that they will like you in the end and spare your self esteem if they don't.

It is no surprise that some men prefer to avoid all these and go straight to the point by viewing some catalogue, and not all of these people are sleepless without sex. One must appreciate that a loving and lasting relationship is a great thing, regardless of how one stumbled across it.

jack10dd
23-12-2006, 05:23 PM
Bro - The owner of the agency - the first one in Malaysia , was a 75 yrs old man ...

To Bro Suger free - the "was" for being the first agency , now there are so many agencies ....I think he is still around , cos he appeared along side MC - MCA sometime back to give advice on VC problem....

pucman
23-12-2006, 05:39 PM
In the 1st place, is there really a need to go to all the trouble to marry Vietnamese women?

Please note that there are unfortunate ones who were born less educated, less handsome, shorter than you guys. Or it is simply because of age factor.

Not everybody is rich and not everybody is lucky !

pucman
23-12-2006, 05:41 PM
most of the man are in 55 - 75 age bracket ,

Most of them are in the 40s, there are some in the 30s as well. They are still single at that age. :(

bslee
23-12-2006, 05:42 PM
Dating is a horrific process, constant auditioning for those to whom you are attracted and not so attracted (future n-laws). Somehow, you will be hoping that they will like you in the end and spare your self esteem if they don't.
One must appreciate that a loving and lasting relationship is a great thing, regardless of how one stumbled across it.

I reckon one may face a similar predicament in local inter-racial marraiges (more so if there's a stark difference in religion)..which I SUBSCRIBE the RELIGION factor CAN be A TALL HURDLE AND OBSTACLE!..Lets not get into that..its another issue altogether.

I stand corrected but after glancing at some of those men, they seem to look rather conservative, somewhat traditional mindset and perhaps least romantic, and possibly many other mindset and character matters contributing to a personality mismatch. Sometimes I'm with the general opinion of a typical scenario as take the easy way out and buy-a-bride (money can do a lot of things easily mah!)..Romance if any, can work out later..buy 1st,..talk later!. As time goes by, the husband thinks he's got his money's worth having a housewife, bed partner, someone he can order around to do things..all kow tim!..can go play mahjong with friends, karaoke here & there, drinking sessions, hunting or fishing trips, mostly big boys only club. Got TV, Astro, handphone (to keep her in check), maybe a mini-compo hifi,..fridge stocked with food supplies..what more does she want? everything got mah!..he sayz to himslef or if anyone asks..!..or so he thinks!. PLOPLEM SOLVED..KAU TIM!.

BUT!..the girl may have other thoughts and obviously different such as ..I ain't going to be bullied, maybe not assumed like another prized piece of house furniture,showered with gifts, dresses, got bucks to spend on some luxuries, food, jewellery, outings, holidays..etc.
And so to cut the scenario short..tempers start their tango!..few foul words start flying around..thereon...the rest is obvious!.. Harro!..Harro! Latuk MICHAEL CHONG!... can make appointment AH!. Got BIG BIG PLOBLEM Laaaa!..

Sugarfree
23-12-2006, 05:44 PM
To Bro Suger free - the "was" for being the first agency , now there are so many agencies ....I think he is still around..
Hey, bro. Thanks for the clarification. Glad he's still kicking it! :D

munity
24-12-2006, 12:33 AM
Well, for guys that still single in their late ages, whats wrong with marrying Vietnamese or any other nationality girls?.

The girls may want to improve on their families' state of poor at home and hoping to get a good marriage (of course, there could be some that are out to cheat), whereas the lonely guys want to have a life companion.

All relationships starts with meeting strangers after all.

If one would have the idea of similarise this as prostitution or flesh selling or anything in that line of argument, perhaps lets us think twice would the guys pay a whopping RM30K-RM70K for the so-called "product"?. I doubt so. The market price is just...emm...(nevermind that). Both parties are taking certain level of risks.

Girls being introduce to few men, and these men were introduced to few girls. Nothing much different from any cupid club.

It is only the unscropulous agents that are to be blamed.

fRaNkY
26-12-2006, 11:47 AM
Read somewhere before, a old man, probably in his 70s, said, despite divorcing his wife and broken relationship with his grown up kids... " he have no regrets... at least it will but a few years of happiness till he die. What is money if you dont live a happy life ":D
He might had felt his life with his ex full of unhappiness... but stayed together for the kids sake.... Well, remember about the "China Doll" at jenjarom?


Everything you do in life is RISKS... crossing a road, walking under the monorail.... One night stand..... Parking your car in Taipan :p

So RM30-70k might be just a small amount he have in total... and its worth gambling... according to him :D