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Piggy
21-10-2006, 11:45 AM
:confused: Haha, read so many topics yet nothing could solve my problem right here. Erm, perhaps you guyz could help me out ?? :rolleyes:

You see, 1/2 year ago, I had love failure with a guy who was very much older than me. Our relationship only last ONLY 3 months. I've end the relationship because of my parents objected our relationship due to his age and also because he's been going out with my close friend of mine. I was in deep depression, not only because of love factor but work factor as well. Eventually I've overcome this depression mood after I've joined a new company.

However, things didn't go so smooth about it. I've meet someone who is my "acquaintance". This guy looks so much like my ex-bf and he has my ex's qualities in terms of look & character wise. I've been treating his so cool and tried to avoid him. Guess what? Someone noticed about it and even asked me about it. I guessed, it's kidda obvious how I treated him differently among my friends.

I don't know what I should do.. should I continue treat him as my other friends or continue act as if I don't see him? OR ... Please help me about it :confused:

The worst thing is, I do have special feeling for him but he is labelled as "playboy" among my friends. :(

birdy
21-10-2006, 12:59 PM
Since u r still single and available...don't close your door to anyone. Just treat him as other friend. ... there is no need for you to decide now..just treat him as your normal colleague, talk and laugh...go out for group outings if any...

If you are comfortable and if he make his move, then only decide. But, whatever you do, try to be more cautious... for his 'playboy' status.

My 2 sen opinion. :eek:

alexhay
21-10-2006, 01:26 PM
Even there is a single person had close their door immediately without even giving a try. I had experience it before. Everyone can be labelled as playboy. Even I am also labeled as playboy. But I am just being friendly.

When a guy is being friendly, normally other girls will think that the guy is a playboy. It could be that he is just a friendly person. You have to get to know him better. If he and you are together, and he go and court other girls then is a playboy.

Give the guy a chance. As birdy said, treat him as a friend. As you are working in an organization, you have to be professional enough to work with him. If he makes a move, why not ? since you also have the heart for him..

Piggy
21-10-2006, 01:35 PM
Thanks birdy.

Haha, guess what? My ex-bf was my 1st. :o
For me, 1st experience has been this bad. I could not stand another love & betrayal ever again in my life. I would never thought my friend could betrayed me that badly.

Few weeks ago, my ex- came back to me requesting me whether he could patchup things with me and he has been asking me questions such as, how is your brother? Your mother is Raub, these and that.. guess what? those questions belongs to HER~!!! my friend's information but he asked me about her things. I was so pissed up and I laughed @ his face when he asked me whether he could be together with me.

You see, I couldnt stand my ex- and the thing is, that guy really look my ex- and can't help it if I continue acting coldly in front of hm. Moreover, he's older than me 8 years. Hahaha, I just dun understand why I could fall again for an older guy and not those around my age.

KakiLang
21-10-2006, 04:31 PM
One time failure doesn't mean u'll fail again or anything, keep trying until u find ur Mr. Right. :)

Piggy
21-10-2006, 04:37 PM
One time failure doesn't mean u'll fail again or anything, keep trying until u find ur Mr. Right. :)

true, this is what my friends told me previously. :rolleyes:

birdy
21-10-2006, 09:11 PM
Put it this way... all this come to a word called FAITH. So, this time, he "fly" u... who knows the next one will love u like honey?

I have once a colleague who used to be a 'Playboy' type....eventually he also settled down with a beautiful wife... now, he is a loyal husband...What I am saying here is, even people were to describe him as "Playboy"... he may change because of your existence... '

So, go and give a try :)

Finally...wish u good luck.

Piggy
21-10-2006, 09:22 PM
thanks birdy. Wow, 100% and even received a private message from an user asking me to try.

Hahaha,.. I think I should let go the past and move on with the new one. Thanks guys. My luck for knowing you people here.. :D

birdy
21-10-2006, 09:27 PM
Yes.. just give a try.

Imagine few buses line up for u... the first bus broken down half way...don't let it haunt u that all buses will break down half way... Who knows u might get to drive a Luxurious Bus? :)

Get what I mean???

Piggy
21-10-2006, 09:29 PM
Yes.. just give a try.

Imagine few buses line up for u... the first bus broken down half way...don't let it haunt u that all buses will break down half way... Who knows u might get to drive a Luxurious Bus? :)

Get what I mean???

Erm bus ONLY?? :confused:

birdy
21-10-2006, 09:35 PM
Well... I am trying to associate bus as the man...and u as the passenger (and potentially being the driver). You said ur first bf broken wif u and it hurts u... this is similar like u ride the bus but broken down half way...So, this doesn't mean that you will forever ride a broken bus...

You can make ur own selection on which bus to ride...there are so many companies operating bus operation. So, select wif your open eyes.. who knows, u might end up acquiring the bus and be the driver (ie. you are married wif him!) :D

Piggy
21-10-2006, 09:40 PM
:p I know what you meant previously, I'm just acting dump. hahaha :D

When people get hurts for the 1st time, it's hard for that person to heal and stand up immediately. :(

birdy
21-10-2006, 09:57 PM
Yes.. you r right but don't let the failure to hold u back from succeeding. :D

chin_wan
22-10-2006, 08:03 AM
www.vietnambrides.com

Piggy
22-10-2006, 10:44 AM
Thanks birdie, I shall update you if I've succeeded :D

Piggy
22-10-2006, 10:46 AM
www.vietnambrides.com

Hi Chin Wan~ I'm not looking for bride... I'm a gurl la :D

orchipalar
22-10-2006, 11:05 AM
Err buddy...it could be a tiny friendly trap...n you fell thru it...

now he knows...

Piggy
22-10-2006, 11:08 AM
oops.. :confused:

kokomo
22-10-2006, 12:19 PM
Hehehe ... just finished reading thru this thread. I thought this problem sounded very familiar. Then I realise from The Star , Kenny section. Every girl or guy in town having relationship problems also send it to Kenny. Heheh ... so now we can even have it online.

Hmmm .... piggy eh ... good luck to you! ;)

ERrr ... buses also got many types i.e. Rapid KL, Metro, Bas Mini & etc, otherwise will have taxis like Limo, KLIA, Express and so on. Hahah ... whicheva is more comfortable of cos you go wif it.

Piggy
22-10-2006, 10:30 PM
hehe.. really? Erm, actually ppl here are very friendly.

Kokomo, alot of busses passing by everyday but yet, to find a suitable & comfy bus have to wait much more longer. Simply choosing meant failure for me,.. as I did previously :D

I don't really care what kind of bus type as long as... well, as I said earlier, suitable & comfortable.. perhaps, you could find one suitable for me :cool:

kokomo
23-10-2006, 12:02 AM
Pig pig, I dunno what sort of buses means comfortable to you and suitable for you. But I do know great young and available guys around.

Errr ... mostly not buses'lah. They are BMW, Vios, MyVi, Kelisa, Waja & the list goes on and on. Trust me, you won't want buses. You want private vehicle right? Hehehe .... :p

Piggy
23-10-2006, 08:32 PM
kekekeke :D

Bus ke, taxi ke, luxurious car ke.. even kereta lembu ke, won't mind. :p

Piggy
23-10-2006, 08:36 PM
[QUOTE=kokomo]Pig pig, I dunno what sort of buses means comfortable to you and suitable for you. But I do know great young and available guys around.

-> what I meant was.. he must be someone with good personality and NOT a playboy. You see, if my ex-bf wasn't a playboy, he wouldn't want to go out with 2 girls SUMMORE with the girl's closest friend!

So, this guy I mentioned earlier, I will be more cautious :D

jianwei85
24-10-2006, 03:11 AM
Relationships are like fruits. Some are rotten on the inside. Some are rotten on the outside. If you are looking for a nice-looking fruit on the outside but the inside it is rotten, then i suggest you choose a rotten-looking fruit on the outside but the inside is still intact.

Savour the rotten looking fruit for you might find great seeds of love in it.

May you find your fruit soon.

*late nite ramblings* :D

aRwEn
24-10-2006, 03:12 PM
piggy, there r lotsa nice single n available guyz in here.... like alexhay, kokomo, n otherz.... hehehe.... :D

kokomo
25-10-2006, 12:09 AM
-> what I meant was.. he must be someone with good personality and NOT a playboy. You see, if my ex-bf wasn't a playboy, he wouldn't want to go out with 2 girls SUMMORE with the girl's closest friend!

So, this guy I mentioned earlier, I will be more cautious :D

Can we really tell if the guy is a playboy or girl is playgirl?
Can a person really stop themselves from liking another person even if they are a player?
How cautious can we be towards people? Avoid them? Being anti-social?
What is good personality to you? Gentleman? Kind? Polite? Treat you like a queen? Good talker? Charming? Ain't all this is in the quality of a player? I mean normally ....

Aiya ... Arwen ... no need to promote me'lah ... old man liao .... there are many others young and eligible bachelor out there. ;)

birdy
25-10-2006, 11:28 AM
Aiya ... Arwen ... no need to promote me'lah ... old man liao ....
Hello...Kokomo...by virtue of claiming yourself old...u have made a BIG mistakes......you are still below thirties...imagine how will those above thirties feel when reading your posting? :confused: :D

kokomo
25-10-2006, 12:35 PM
Hello...Kokomo...by virtue of claiming yourself old...u have made a BIG mistakes......you are still below thirties...imagine how will those above thirties feel when reading your posting? :confused: :D

You feel old as well right or even older after reading my posting? Then welcome to the CLUB! :p

romi_o
25-10-2006, 01:22 PM
haha, well said kokomo...
this old man older than u... :P
anyway, romi now in USA, will stay for quite a while...
single in winter is torturing, if u know what i meant ;)
anyway, birdy, make friends 1st, no string attached, that way no pressure mah... if feeling good, then can consider going further :)
a good circle of friends is useful later on in ur life...

danbee
25-10-2006, 06:19 PM
I thought there are a lot of buses around
How about trying " a LORRY".HE !He! HE! Just Kidding :D :D

kokomo
26-10-2006, 03:56 AM
Hey romi, I feel for you man ... being single in winter is way much torturing. Go get to know some girls there, make friend and move on. Hehehe .... good luck buddy! ;)

lilifjp
27-10-2006, 01:35 AM
Dear Piggy,

If your BF cheats on you, just DUMP him. Luckily, you found out after 3 months. And not after 30 years of marriage & with step children some more :eek:

Even if your boyfriend is not sleeping with your best friend but just going out behind your back, DUMP him. It is just a matter of time before little babies comes along. Oops - I mean accidental cases :eek:

If you found someone who looks like your ex BF and behave like your ex BF, DUMP him. Most likely it is history repeating itself again.

Hey, actually there are so many handsome nice guys in USJ.COM :D

Good luck in finding him

mon
27-10-2006, 01:47 AM
Haha! This is the single funniest post I've ever read so far. Piggy, listen to lili. DUMP him. :D

Don't you worry, let love come to you naturally. You'll know if he's the one when you feel good vibes, chemistry and eventually, compatibility with each other. That would take some time so give yourself more time to see for what it's worth.

Don't you all forget about another good single guy in the forum. Mr. Kress. hehe..:D

kokomo
27-10-2006, 02:51 AM
Haha .... I totally agree wif you ladies in here. This single post is farnie'lah. Yea Pig, already dump the guy ... move on. Got Mr. Kress, Mr. Sakaibear, Mr. Romi & errr ... any other singles wanna stand out here? :D

sherrygin
27-10-2006, 10:19 AM
lilifjp, rock on, gurl!!!!

LOL

sherrygin
27-10-2006, 10:21 AM
Got Mr. Kress, Mr. Sakaibear, Mr. Romi & errr ... any other singles wanna stand out here? :D

Don't forget KOKOMO!!!

kokomo
27-10-2006, 10:25 AM
Don't forget KOKOMO!!!

Thanks sherrygin, you're such a honey .... like what I had yesterday in Station 1 cafe. :)

Sherrygin, I'll que first in the line. Can? :D

jules
27-10-2006, 01:43 PM
oh poor me....what should i do, then ?.....

i am in love already...tsk,tsk,tsk........




:D

Piggy
27-10-2006, 06:10 PM
Wow??

I was unable to online few days due to STUPID streamyx. Always have problems with the connections.

Anywayz, thanks guyz! Well, I've dumped him way earlier before he told me he was going out with my best friend. Hahaha, perhaps I might take your advise... yet, I find it difficult coz he was so charming today! :D

Wow.. so many bachelors? Interest! :p

Piggy
27-10-2006, 06:12 PM
Haha .... I totally agree wif you ladies in here. This single post is farnie'lah. Yea Pig, already dump the guy ... move on. Got Mr. Kress, Mr. Sakaibear, Mr. Romi & errr ... any other singles wanna stand out here? :D


Yeah.. kokomo, you did not add ur name :D

Piggy
27-10-2006, 06:13 PM
Relationships are like fruits. Some are rotten on the inside. Some are rotten on the outside. If you are looking for a nice-looking fruit on the outside but the inside it is rotten, then i suggest you choose a rotten-looking fruit on the outside but the inside is still intact.

Savour the rotten looking fruit for you might find great seeds of love in it.

May you find your fruit soon.

*late nite ramblings* :D

Thanks JianWei.. haha, he was known as playboy not because he is good lookng (in fact, he is not handsome at all).. it's just because of his bahaviour... shud be la. :confused:

kokomo
27-10-2006, 11:20 PM
Yeah.. kokomo, you did not add ur name :D

:o *paiseh* :o

Anyway, me name not important to be added in. What is important is that you know the people around, of their existents, of their care and concern. We in here all, you have not met and definitely so many other single guys out there which am sure you know too.

Does anyone here knows the difference between a player and a playboy? They are similar but definitely different. :)

KakiLang
28-10-2006, 04:31 PM
Thanks sherrygin, you're such a honey .... like what I had yesterday in Station 1 cafe. :)
Sherrygin, I'll que first in the line. Can? :D

Heard u had the not fresh at all fried sotong there?? :D :D

birdy
28-10-2006, 10:21 PM
:o *paiseh* :o

Anyway, me name not important to be added in. What is important is that you know the people around, of their existents, of their care and concern. We in here all, you have not met and definitely so many other single guys out there which am sure you know too.
To Piggy,
Aiseh...... normally the person who wanted to be introduced never introduce himself.... that's why Kokomo purposely left out his name.. see if you can think of him. Don't hesitate... there are so many singles in this USJ forum, but only one famous (or popular) single in this USJ forum, that is Mr. Kokomo :D .

Piggy
29-10-2006, 08:02 PM
Thanks Kokomo,

I do understand your meaning. :rolleyes:
No worries, just like you mentioned earlier, there are fishes in the big ocean waiting for me to fish right & you're in it, right :p

Birdy... hehehe, I get the meaning. Thanks for the suggestion.. :p

kokomo
30-10-2006, 12:31 AM
Aiya, Kakilang ... just woke up that time, hungry! What I wanted to order they also don't have but what you ordered you don't wanna finish. Waste right. Me good samarithan. :p

Oi Birdy, no need to promote me anymore ... PM sudah full and schedule from Monday - Friday will be close soon. :p

*tsk tsk .... birdy is also promoting himself. So ladies looking for MBA, here I present you to BIRDY!!!!

TiNKeRFY
30-10-2006, 12:35 AM
*tsk tsk .... birdy is also promoting himself. So ladies looking for MBA, here I present you to BIRDY!!!!

hmm... does that mean ladies should start queueing up to be mistresses of birdy? birdy, give the ladies some hints, what's the minimum requirement lar?? :p

orchipalar
30-10-2006, 01:01 AM
there are fishes in the big ocean waiting for me to fish right:pErr buddy...1st...one may have to learn to navigate n find the way to right spot in the vast ocean...ahem...but then again...there would be plenty of predatory fish there...

n not to forget...BIG game fishing isn't for the faint hearted...n getting sea-sicked in BIG waves...is NOT a joke too...

kokomo
30-10-2006, 01:37 AM
Haha ... oceans are big, waves are tight and predatory fishes are all around waiting to spot the right victim. So who is fishing and waitin' to be fished?

Fishing also gotta have the patience to it. For me, I ain't got that in me.

birdy
30-10-2006, 05:46 AM
*tsk tsk .... birdy is also promoting himself. So ladies looking for MBA, here I present you to BIRDY!!!!
Errr...what is "*tsk tsk ..."? Mind to enlighten me? :o

On the other hand, me no MBA lar... me is MAN (Married And Not Available) :D I am sure if Piggy has a choice, she would go for Famous and Single (someone like u) rather than MBA, whom she will classify as Playboy... :D

Kokomo, worried not..if your PM is full...then there is a thing call email, MSN, ICQ, Yahoo Messeger, SMS, MMS or even 3G! :cool: Remember....if there is a will, there is a way. :p

birdy
30-10-2006, 05:52 AM
hmm... does that mean ladies should start queueing up to be mistresses of birdy? birdy, give the ladies some hints, what's the minimum requirement lar?? :p
Hmmm...bad move buddy....this bus has reached the depot and owned by a driver ;) Actually...I have forgotten to promote you to Piggy..hee hee.. Although u bus has a passenger (or passengers? :confused: :eek: ) ... As long as the passenger has not take control of the bus....any passenger can still take the bus until it reaches the depot, right??? :confused: :p

TiNKeRFY
30-10-2006, 10:08 AM
Hmmm...bad move buddy....this bus has reached the depot and owned by a driver ;) Actually...I have forgotten to promote you to Piggy..hee hee.. Although u bus has a passenger (or passengers? :confused: :eek: ) ... As long as the passenger has not take control of the bus....any passenger can still take the bus until it reaches the depot, right??? :confused: :p

nah... i disagree...
not all bus would take passengers off the side of the road..
and besides, i ain't no bus driver..
You might not be a MBA now, but you might turn into MAD... who knows rite?
since the bus will make a U-turn at the depot as long as the driver thinks there are other passengers to pick up... :rolleyes:

kokomo
30-10-2006, 12:49 PM
Errr Birdy, it is not MAN but MANA!

Piggy is smart enough to decide and know what she wants and all. NO need to promote is who is F&S and who is not. This is not what she wanted to find also. All she wants is just a good guy. Fame is not important and not the right essence in looking for a good guy. Do know bout it first before posting in here.

:cool:

birdy
30-10-2006, 02:27 PM
Hee hee hee.... I don't mean to promote you to Piggy and I fully understand her posting objective... I thought with the first few replies... this thread would end coz she oredi got her answers.. then come so many introduction.. and you forgot to introduce yourself... So, as a friend of you.... might as well introduce someone popular.......... The final decision is definitely hers... no one can tell her whom to choose... In times, she will be able to find her Mr. Perfect. :)

Piggy
30-10-2006, 06:54 PM
WOW... guys,

Seems like you're PROMOTING me! :cool:
Anywayz, I'm aint looking for good looking guy, it's just someone that will be able to understands me.. what I usually clasify as soul mate :D

Kokomo, so sad to see the replies :D (joking)..

Birdy, I'm not looking for someone is MAN wor but S & D :p

kokomo
30-10-2006, 07:06 PM
Hehe ... good to know that you're sad after reading my replies. :p (joking)

Ok Birdy, am not popular. Enuff! There are so many other seniors in here ... go go go ... disturb them, they are have been here longer and more well known than me.

Not many soul mate around. Online mate err ... yes there is Birdy!
USJ new fame and own creation .... Birdy! Within the shortest time, he has been known to all of us in here.

Wanna know someone, gotta go out there to know them for real. In here, you can consider this cyber world.

Cheers to you 2 mates ... :cool:

Piggy
30-10-2006, 08:30 PM
thanks for the info :D

actually I have no intention of knowing online mate (as u mentioned earlier), which I don't really believe in CYBER love or what sort ever!

FYI, have stopped meeting ppl online :p for very long long time ago. :D

Kokomo, thanks for suggesting... hehe, I guess, I need to try out the guy I mentioned earlier in this thread. If I ever finds out, he's not the one, I find you to intro someone :D

birdy
30-10-2006, 11:47 PM
Ok Birdy, am not popular. Enuff! There are so many other seniors in here ... go go go ... disturb them, they are have been here longer and more well known than me.
There are many seniors ... but guess u r the only senior and single in this forum... I guess after Orchipalar..you are 2nd brother in this forum, huh :eek:

Me? Still need a long way to go before can replace you... :p Cheers for you..

romi_o
31-10-2006, 12:02 AM
wow, birdy, only 1 month plus and ur postings are more than mine... not famous? i don't think so...
anyway, piggy already stated she'll be trying out with the new guy, so good luck to her lor...
piggy, u can always ask kokomo or others for advices about relationships, hehe, there are a lot of experts in this forum, so PM them instead of opening a new thread... a lot of hunters/predators are lurking around... :p

have fun and good luck!


cheers from Nashville, TN - USA

kokomo
31-10-2006, 01:31 AM
Bruder Romi, you read thru me ... :)

Heheh ... if Piggy wanna get married then hv to seek for advice from those married ppl. Me, not married .. not settle down and don't think I'm ready for any kind of this settlement. Life still a long way for me to enjoy it before I really wanna do something like this. :eek:

Meeting online mates? Not scared? :eek: Eat you up then know! :p To meet all young cupids in here. Can always have another gathering for Cupid Club. It has been a long time we've not have a 2nd gathering for it.

Doubts? Scared? Shy? No worries, bring rest of other friends out as well to join in the fun.

Piggy
31-10-2006, 09:34 PM
Romi, thanks for that suggestion :D I will bear in mind, perhaps, I should be PM-ing after I sort out certain mess in my life :rolleyes:

Kokomo, I don't know there is cupid club! Har? ONLY one gathering?? Why don't you organise it? I shall be your 1st member (become your cheerleader :confused: )???


Aren't you guys agree that KOKOMO become team leader??

Piggy
31-10-2006, 09:36 PM
Birdy, wow, I do not know that KOKOMO is so "OLD" in this forum :confused:

Thanks for informing me.. btw, how old is he/? hahahahaaaaaa :D

birdy
31-10-2006, 11:52 PM
...(edited).. how old is he/? hahahahaaaaaa :D
Errr.....let the Man tell you by himself......

So, Kokomo....be spotting.... someone interested to know a little bit more about you.... :)

kokomo
01-11-2006, 01:51 AM
Piggy, I thought you've already posted in Cupid Club? Is in this Chatterbox column as well. Yea, you did posted and you were the last to post in there.

Previously Cupid Club did organise many other activities ... you wanna be cheerleader? Heheh ... no problem, make sure your skirts are REAL short. :D :p

Me already out of the league to be in Cupid Club .. already pass my age to be one of them :o Saw my avatar? I'm as old as the GodFather ... I look like him too ... so just imagine that.

TiNKeRFY
01-11-2006, 02:04 AM
Saw my avatar? I'm as old as the GodFather ... I look like him too ... so just imagine that.

hmm.. now that you mentioned it, I'm imagining you with a hat and a pipe..
OMG!! You are right! :eek:

kokomo
01-11-2006, 02:24 AM
The hat is to cover my grey hair ... and pipe err ... upgrade'ma.

So you see, is pretty easy to imagine how I look like already. :p

jianwei85
01-11-2006, 02:32 AM
kokomo..u godfather meh! hail thy "kai yeh"!!

seriously..if u see him..u'll think he is a bouncer. ;)

better tip him rite, if not he will.........Ngek Ngek Ngek.

(Godfather style)

Piggy
01-11-2006, 06:48 PM
Birdy, Kokomo isn't that spotting :p Dun want to tell ppl how "old" he is currently :mad:

Muahahaha, but I am sure that I'm way younger than anyone in this thread! :D

I guess, I could imagine you with the PIPE, HAT & white hair.. boi! Kokomo, do you have grand daughter(s) / grand son??????? :confused: (joking)!

Well, I have few in my wardrobe, I could dig out to join you for that Cupid Club! But remember, you need to dye back black hair, throw that hat & pipe!!! :p

Erm.. I'm waiting for good news from you :p

Piggy
01-11-2006, 06:49 PM
kokomo..u godfather meh! hail thy "kai yeh"!!

seriously..if u see him..u'll think he is a bouncer. ;)

better tip him rite, if not he will.........Ngek Ngek Ngek.

(Godfather style)


Can't imagine that Jian Wei ! :confused:

kokomo
02-11-2006, 01:19 AM
No joke ... I do have "anak anak buah" :p

Age is just another number .. so why see so much of it. Wanna buy number ka? The day you show up, the day you know me. Period!

Dye black hair then it won't make me any special anymore. My specialty is having grey hair. :p

Jian is right. More or less like a bouncer or like a wrestler .... Don't imagine no more. Seeing is believing. ;)

alexhay
02-11-2006, 10:50 AM
kokomo is 'old' ??? i dont think so .... although he look older than me *ahem* but your are still in the league of cupid club member larrr ...as long you are not married, you are still the full/premier member for USJ Cupid Club

kokomo
02-11-2006, 05:44 PM
Alexhay, :p We looked almost the same age'lah. But confirm you're a step ahead of me. Hehehe ... :p :D

Piggy
02-11-2006, 06:27 PM
No joke ... I do have "anak anak buah" :p

Age is just another number .. so why see so much of it. Wanna buy number ka? The day you show up, the day you know me. Period!

Dye black hair then it won't make me any special anymore. My specialty is having grey hair. :p

Jian is right. More or less like a bouncer or like a wrestler .... Don't imagine no more. Seeing is believing. ;)

I know what is anak2 buah, nieces / nephews! :rolleyes:

erm, let me guess, if you are younger than alexhay, meaning, you are <30 yrs old, perhaps, 28 ?? Btw, I'm very poor in guessing someone's age! hahaha :D I guess, you won't be able to guess my age too coz I look more childish with skirts,.. but definitely YOUNGER than you, Kokomo :D

MEaning, you are big size?? hehehe :D

Btw Alex, how old is he/?

alexhay
02-11-2006, 06:28 PM
piggy...u ask him lorr...see if he tells or not...:) u know lar..he is very particular when ppl ask his age...:) actually he is older than me...:) just want to look young so he always tells ppl that he is sweet 16 :)

Piggy
02-11-2006, 06:42 PM
Cheh, meaning KOKOMO is much older than you?? :confused: :eek: :p

UNCLE KOKOMO oredi.. not KOKOMO brother :D

kokomo
02-11-2006, 07:20 PM
Call me Uncle or Brother all you want. CNY I still won't give out ang pow.

Errr .. childish? Meaning you wear skirt in the forum? Hahaha .... why wanna know so much bout my age? Already confirm I'm older than you. I'm as old as Brat Pig! Haha .. If not Tom Cruize ... :p In terms of age but in terms of look, I look like Al-Pacino!

sakaibear
02-11-2006, 07:21 PM
i give u a hint....i left highschool nearly 10 years ago.....he left highschool....er.....quite recently...hehe

Piggy
02-11-2006, 07:24 PM
i give u a hint....i left highschool nearly 10 years ago.....he left highschool....er.....quite recently...hehe

Sakaibear, that's so helpful!!!!!

:confused: am still very blur about his age.

Nvm Kokomo, I guess, I better you UNCLE Kokomo regardless how you look like.. tom cruiz ke? tom hanks ke? I still call you uncle :D

Wow.. meaning, Sakaibear also around his age? erm... uncle Sakaibear! Nice to meet these 2 uncles :rolleyes: :p

kokomo
02-11-2006, 07:29 PM
Haha ... Uncle Sakai?!?!? :D You see, give hints to her means bringin' trouble upon yourself to this yuppies(piggy) :p

See me from far make sure you call me out loud Uncle Kokomo! You know, nowadays young girls like to go after "Uncles". :D

Piggy
02-11-2006, 07:40 PM
Haha ... Uncle Sakai?!?!? :D You see, give hints to her means bringin' trouble upon yourself to this yuppies(piggy) :p

See me from far make sure you call me out loud Uncle Kokomo! You know, nowadays young girls like to go after "Uncles". :D

yeah... I'm pretty good in naming someone ... :D :p

Yeah.. i.e. CT & Uncle K :D
But, now I'm picking someone around my age, so, uncle stuff.. pass! :D :p

sakaibear
02-11-2006, 08:14 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHA that leaves you out uncle kokomo.....we also got one more grandpa here...dare not post in case we sabo him. hehehe *hint *hint.....correct or not kokomo?

Piggy
02-11-2006, 08:33 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHA that leaves you out uncle kokomo.....we also got one more grandpa here...dare not post in case we sabo him. hehehe *hint *hint.....correct or not kokomo?


WOOW... WHO IS THAT BE? :confused:

sakaibear
02-11-2006, 08:36 PM
that is for us to know and for you to find out in due time. :) come for the tt and/or yamcha sessions.....8/10 times he'll be there

Piggy
02-11-2006, 09:18 PM
nope.. I wont be able to join.. way too far for me to travel. Futhermore, I don't have transport. :D

sakaibear
02-11-2006, 09:26 PM
our tt goers dont all live in subang. quite a number live in pj. i'm sure they'll be more than happy to give u a lift. plus it's after work so some wont be back in subang so early anyway

Piggy
02-11-2006, 09:31 PM
sounds interesting but I give a pass.. coz none of you all know me plus, they wont give a lift to stranger! :D

birdy
02-11-2006, 10:49 PM
nope.. I wont be able to join.. way too far for me to travel. Futhermore, I don't have transport. :D
Well...if you put up the picture of Angelina Jolie....I am sure all cars will queue up to pick u up... Hehehehe (just kidding)... :D

I think if u 'open your mouth' and ask.. I am sure someone in PJ would be kind enough to give u a lift.. :)

sounds interesting but I give a pass.. coz none of you all know me.....
That's why u should attend the TT to know everyone... then you won't be stranger to everyone... :p

sakaibear
03-11-2006, 12:03 AM
sounds interesting but I give a pass.. coz none of you all know me plus, they wont give a lift to stranger! :D

true to not trust a stranger but what if the male stranger is accompanied by another female stranger? should be somewhat ok due to the pressence of a female there. giving lifts were never a problem. if need be, one of us will go and pick them up. hahaha ask eve, we love her so much that we must have her in out tt's and yam cha's. but she ah dunno why lately MIA oredi.

kokomo
03-11-2006, 12:53 AM
Piggy, you don't sound sincere enuff in turn up. Transport is everywhere. Like someone always say in here, IF there is a WILL, there is a WAY! So you can have the will and find the way. :D

Seriously, if you want transport ... Sakai can go pick you up on his way back from KL. Right Sakai? He is one of the most secure person to be around wif. I can guarantee and confirm no one dare touches you. ;)

sakaibear
03-11-2006, 01:00 AM
wah u volunteer me like that ah?? hahaha...but not to worry. should u need transportation i'm glad to help out :) if i can't make it on that day then kokomo will pick u up. watch out tho...he's old so...eyesight a bit off hehehe

kokomo
03-11-2006, 01:04 AM
Haha .. yea, me bad eye sight so in order to have a good eye sight, must wear short short skirt. :D Sakai, you're well known gentleman around here'ma. So obviously I would recommend you to pick a girl up on your way back. Heehee ... meet new friends for real is also good.

alexhay
03-11-2006, 09:10 AM
aiya..u guys dun larr scared piggy like that.... after she run and dont come back here...
haiihh....

sakaibear
03-11-2006, 09:29 AM
this is considered scaring her meh? kokomo la ....what short skirts and pigini's. tsk tsk.....teruk punya uncle ini. tak tau malu! :D

kokomo
03-11-2006, 11:38 AM
She said she like the challenge except for the pigini'ma. Hehe ... tau malu then am not KOKOMO! :p

romi_o
03-11-2006, 02:47 PM
hmm... seems like one can find his/her other half IN HERE... :p
hahaha...
hope that answers the question (i.e. this thread name...) hahaha
good luck all! have a nice day!

nite...

kokomo
03-11-2006, 06:27 PM
Don't worry Romi, once you're back in M'sia for good. Plenty of time I can show you where are all those good girls hiding. :D

Piggy
03-11-2006, 06:35 PM
Perhaps another time lor.. coz it's pretty hasty.. eh, KOKOMO you're not going also.. summore volunteered to fetch me.. apa lar!

Sakai, thanks for the offer.. but how do you recog me? hahaha... btw, I'm a pig you know, you could hardly give me a lift :D :confused: :p

Piggy
03-11-2006, 06:36 PM
She said she like the challenge except for the pigini'ma. Hehe ... tau malu then am not KOKOMO! :p

It's better you could suggest, not to wear @ all hahaha... am I right, KOKOMO :D :confused:

Btw, today I wore very long skirt oh.. so, don't have to choose my mini-skirts. :rolleyes: sorry to disappoint you :D

kokomo
03-11-2006, 06:37 PM
Errr ... be specific where am I going? Hotel or TT? Hahah ... so meaning if I go then you'll turn up? Waaa ... very pressure! :eek:

Errmm ... sakai can easily recognise any pig'la ... that is one of his or I should say our fav ... heheh ... :D just joking!

Piggy
03-11-2006, 06:37 PM
hmm... seems like one can find his/her other half IN HERE... :p
hahaha...
hope that answers the question (i.e. this thread name...) hahaha
good luck all! have a nice day!

nite...


Romi, I also dunno why this thread becoming one of the CUPID clud message :D :p

kokomo
03-11-2006, 06:40 PM
It's better you could suggest, not to wear @ all hahaha... am I right, KOKOMO :D :confused:

Btw, today I wore very long skirt oh.. so, don't have to choose my mini-skirts. :rolleyes: sorry to disappoint you :D

Piggy, you really can thru my mind for all this? Is that really true? Awww ... you disappoint me or not also I cannot see. So what is there to disappoint? I can't even imagine it. Heheh ... :D

Piggy
03-11-2006, 06:40 PM
Errr ... be specific where am I going? Hotel or TT? Hahah ... so meaning if I go then you'll turn up? Waaa ... very pressure! :eek:

Errmm ... sakai can easily recognise any pig'la ... that is one of his or I should say our fav ... heheh ... :D just joking!

er er... ya, if you appear @ TT next round :D


:eek: really? erm, ... ya, too obvious if this pig show up without any flesh... erm, I need to take more food for the next round meeting you guys.. hahahhahaa :cool: :D

kokomo
03-11-2006, 06:43 PM
You confirm show up only I'll decide to turn up or not. It doesn't mean next round TT you'll show up also. And bear in mind you have to make early appointments ya. You know'lah. Schedule very full this month. :D

Piggy
03-11-2006, 06:46 PM
You confirm show up only I'll decide to turn up or not. It doesn't mean next round TT you'll show up also. And bear in mind you have to make early appointments ya. You know'lah. Schedule very full this month. :D

Kokomo, since you ARE busy with schedules, I think I won't want to interupt your ORGANISED schedule with PRETTY GURLS.. :D :confused:

birdy
03-11-2006, 09:22 PM
Sniff..sniff..... I smell vinegar here... ;)

Kokomo...how can u do this to our new friend here... you have scared her right before she said 'YES' to you.....

romi_o
03-11-2006, 11:12 PM
Romi, I also dunno why this thread becoming one of the CUPID clud message :D :p

piggy, no lah, i;m saying that to answer the question "how to find your another half" will be "finding him/her in this thread" :)


anyway, u guys better stop flirting around in this thread, hahaha :p i smell romance in the air.... :D



cheers from Louisville, still cold in the morning... around 0C

kokomo
04-11-2006, 02:54 AM
Hahah ... is there a flirt around? Only puttin' up a challenge but then somebody already decided to quit the game. Aiseh!

Aiya, what is YES and NO? So many other fella out there waitin' for her to say YES! Am sure she also has her own schedule to organise. Till she has the right time to come out and feel like coming out to join the Cupid Club, she's always welcome.

jianwei85
04-11-2006, 03:05 AM
I believe the process in finding the other half is most important and memorable. Forget bout the past. Have fun with the future~ (of coz not too much la)

Like what godfather said, come out...meet up..and u shall have more frenz (if dun get other half oso nvm le) :)

Piggy
04-11-2006, 10:02 AM
piggy, no lah, i;m saying that to answer the question "how to find your another half" will be "finding him/her in this thread" :)


anyway, u guys better stop flirting around in this thread, hahaha :p i smell romance in the air.... :D



cheers from Louisville, still cold in the morning... around 0C


er.. er, how come this thread becoming out of topic.. perhaps, let it to be answered by ALEXHAY, KOKOMO, JIANWEI & SAKAIBEAR? hahahahaa :D

Piggy
04-11-2006, 10:06 AM
I believe the process in finding the other half is most important and memorable. Forget bout the past. Have fun with the future~ (of coz not too much la)

Like what godfather said, come out...meet up..and u shall have more frenz (if dun get other half oso nvm le) :)

I know :p

Oh,... KOKOMO is the godfather lar? now ONLY I know :rolleyes:

hehe, okayz, next round TT okay, JianWei.. then will ask you/others to take me there! :rolleyes: :confused:

jianwei85
05-11-2006, 11:40 PM
hehe..no probz le~! :D

sakaibear
06-11-2006, 09:35 AM
and our mr jian wei scored one!!! hehehehehee told u the younger ones gets the advantage. hahahaha....uncle koko...habis la u.

kokomo
06-11-2006, 01:18 PM
Huh?!?! hehe .. So Jian, do bring her safely to the gathering next round. Otherwise you know what Unca Sakai will do to you? :D

sakaibear
06-11-2006, 01:40 PM
eh what unca sakai......sakai kor kor.... :P not old enough yet

kokomo
06-11-2006, 01:51 PM
Wa wa, Sakai ... you're in your mid 20s' already, summore wanna consider yourself young? Ok'lah, kor kor sakai, I cum out wif you, you buy me sweet? Hahaha .... :p

sakaibear
06-11-2006, 02:08 PM
backside....not mid 20's yet....still got sometime to go?? sweets?? shouldn't u be buying me sweets instead uncle koko?

romi_o
07-11-2006, 06:00 AM
my gosh... u all so geli lah...
i don't really know how old is sakai, but if kokomo is uncle, then what about me?? *sniff* my goodness...
too many young ppl nowadays, teruk lah... suddenly become uncle liao... only my friends children can call me uncle, those teenagers and above, still koh kor.
end of discussion. :p

kokomo
07-11-2006, 01:47 PM
Don't worry Romi, I believe those girls that are not too far away from our age .. some will still suit you. Trust me on that. There are girls that likes older men. I mean mostly! Hehe .. those boys younger than us, might just have to stand aside. Sakai, you still wanna remain as kor kor don't you? Or now you change your mind?

Piggy
11-11-2006, 11:20 AM
Gosh..

You all discussing age ???

Dear dear.. no doubt Kokomo is uncle but then Romi too?? :rolleyes:

Yeah.. sakai shud be called koko but then, how old is jian wei? hahaha, thought I'm the youngest here :D :rolleyes:

birdy
11-11-2006, 02:57 PM
Yeah.. sakai shud be called koko but then, how old is jian wei? hahaha, thought I'm the youngest here :D :rolleyes:
From the look at the username, Jian Wei could be 21 years old .... jianwei85.. :p

kokomo
11-11-2006, 07:58 PM
Pig pig, you really think you're the youngest? Hahah .. think again then! :p

Piggy
17-11-2006, 05:16 PM
aiya.. pecah my record being the youngest??

Jian Wei, u owe me!!!

ahhaahaha... no la. I know I'm getting old especially next week :(

getting old one year..............

kokomo
17-11-2006, 08:56 PM
Haha ... Happy In Advance Pig A Year OLDER Day! :D Hahaha ..... :p

romi_o
17-11-2006, 10:14 PM
early wishes from overseas here...
happy bird-day lor~
may u have a fat n happy year ahead... eat, drink, play, sleep happily :D

Piggy
18-11-2006, 03:03 PM
thanks everyone.

yeah, today just terminated my streamyx connection.. a big step for me. For the 1st time in my life without internet connection in 8 years :mad:

Guess what? No need to pay streamyx bill for the month of OCT and wrote them nasty letter. hahahhaa :cool:

birdy
18-11-2006, 05:35 PM
What makes u decided to terminate your streamyx? This account belongs to your ex-bf? :p Just kidding.... :D

Piggy
26-11-2006, 12:55 PM
What makes u decided to terminate your streamyx? This account belongs to your ex-bf? :p Just kidding.... :D


hahaha.. bad service?? hshahahaha.. has nothing to do wif my ex!

ksyee1607
26-11-2006, 03:18 PM
Dun becos 1 tree n gif up the forest. :p

Sugarfree
28-11-2006, 10:01 AM
...yeah, today just terminated my streamyx connection.. a big step for me. For the 1st time in my life without internet connection in 8 years :mad:
You intend to sign up for BB with another service provider?

Piggy
02-12-2006, 11:05 PM
yeah.. got my new service from Jaring. I am hoping they won't disappoint me as streamyx did... else, I'm going towards authorities to sort these problems out of my system!

I felt I was conned for few months.. kanasai! every mth sure at least 1-2 weeks cant go online... sumtimes, up for 2-3 days then down for 1 week or so! I asked for rebate and they only rebate ONLY less than 10 ringgit.. :mad:

jianwei85
03-12-2006, 12:25 AM
was working in malacca..

i owe u ar...can la...drop by on 8th december lo...hehe..will get u some chicken wings..i make very tasty n delicious chicken wings..

pecah record ar? but i wanna be the 1st malaysian to eat "chee cheong fun" in space... :D

how's jaring? broadband?

Sugarfree
03-12-2006, 12:31 AM
yeah.. got my new service from Jaring.
How's the dl speed of Jaring? (I'm referring dl speeds via p2p). How much better than Streamyx? Please do advise corz I'll be stopping Streamyx the moment I'm informed of a better, more efficient service provider. Hence, your feedback is much appreciated.

:--- )

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:11 AM
So Jian wei, did u managed to eat chee cheong fan virtually??

JianWei & Sugarfree, well, 1st day dare not say much (let me test for 1 mth)... u willing to wait? ,.... speed is good so far. but in terms of service, i would say, Jaring is better coz, they do not give stupid answers when u cant get to online...
Maybe you could get maxis??? wireless/?

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:17 AM
Eh, how come from finding other half becomes a broadband subject ahhhh ....???? :confused: :rolleyes:

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:18 AM
hahaha.. dunno wor "swerving" into another subject.. :confused:

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:19 AM
Haha .. so fast it went 'dead'? :p

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:21 AM
well.. yeah, coz u dun online, i hardly online coz terminated BB... so, suddenly this thread becoming BB topic.. hahahaha :) :D

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:26 AM
well.. yeah, coz u dun online, i hardly online coz terminated BB... so, suddenly this thread becoming BB topic.. hahahaha :) :D

Err .. I don't understand that part ... I've always been around, spiritually online!

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:28 AM
kakakaka... really? erm................... :rolleyes: :cool:

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:30 AM
You weren't connected to feel for me cos we're using diff BB. Hahah ... :p

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:32 AM
oh dear, i dunno you're ghost virtually! You scares me! ;)

well, when i was using streamyx also, i cant "feel" you... now Jaring, lagi canot :rolleyes: :D

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:36 AM
oh dear, i dunno you're ghost virtually! You scares me! ;)

well, when i was using streamyx also, i cant "feel" you... now Jaring, lagi canot :rolleyes: :D

It only goes to show we're too distance away .... hehe .. network coverage of yours and mine .. cover your own territory! Hahah .... occasionally weird day only we'll get to cross territory .. like today! :rolleyes:

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:39 AM
then, i ought to use maxis wirelss BB.. perhaps, might "See" you!

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:40 AM
Err ... that I could or I can confirm wif you'lah. But still no promises made .. are you feelin' lucky or unlucky for it? hmm ....

Piggy
03-12-2006, 02:45 AM
wahhha... thank you thank you for being "visible" ... :p feeling good

kokomo
03-12-2006, 02:48 AM
Remember to wash your face and legs before you sleep, otherwise I'll be sooo 'visible' to u at all times .. u might not be able to concentrate on other things later ... :cool:

Piggy
03-12-2006, 03:00 AM
Remember to wash your face and legs before you sleep, otherwise I'll be sooo 'visible' to u at all times .. u might not be able to concentrate on other things later ... :cool:

good good, coz I got to see how twould look like... muahahahaaaaa :rolleyes:

romi_o
03-12-2006, 04:49 AM
another "the moment" coming ah? why when i read this thread, kokomo n piggy always flirting one? :D
haha

anyway, i think not much difference between TM and Jaring, as all also using Telekom infrastructure as backbone... maybe service a bit better, but i'm not sure... i was a jaring dial-up user for a few years until i get streamyx 1Mb... hehe

anyway, how to find ur other half ah?? x'mas coming soon, and need someone to countdown with... hahaha :p

Piggy
03-12-2006, 10:38 AM
another "the moment" coming ah? why when i read this thread, kokomo n piggy always flirting one? :D
haha

anyway, i think not much difference between TM and Jaring, as all also using Telekom infrastructure as backbone... maybe service a bit better, but i'm not sure... i was a jaring dial-up user for a few years until i get streamyx 1Mb... hehe

anyway, how to find ur other half ah?? x'mas coming soon, and need someone to countdown with... hahaha :p

hahaha, you shud ask uncle kokomo oh, romi!

Well, I know that fact but @ that time when i applied Jaring, I don't know that Maxis BB covered @ my area :(

kokomo
04-12-2006, 12:36 AM
I just woke up from a marathon sleep exceeding more than 12 hrs and now I've been asked in here bout something something. Aiseh ...

This is how a man need to decide even when he is in his slumber. Hahah .... :cool:

sakaibear
04-12-2006, 10:43 AM
romi.....heheheh jealous of the flirting ah?? hahaha...nvm nvm. i find another girl to flirt with you :p

eh so how's the weather there past few days? still cold?

kokomo
05-12-2006, 01:06 AM
Here weather so hot also I got a flu already. I think if am there, already nose bleed. Romi, why bo sia already from your side? Heheh ... frozen? :confused: :rolleyes: C'mon man, so many ladies here waitin' for you to flirt wif them.

romi_o
05-12-2006, 04:38 AM
where?? where?? where are the ladies?? :P haha
it's freezing now in Louisville, Kentucky... the average temperature for the weekend and today is still below 0C~
had a little snow flakes on last friday with some rain, forecast said will have another one coming this wednesday... so, freezing my backside off, hahaha

yalor, really jealous that u guys can flirt, some more the cupidclub gathering coming soon, ~sigh~ this romi still cannot attend.
need someone to count down for the new year lah, haha~ darn boring n lonely...

cheers (and freezing) from USA

Piggy
05-12-2006, 08:43 PM
where?? where?? where are the ladies?? :P haha
it's freezing now in Louisville, Kentucky... the average temperature for the weekend and today is still below 0C~
had a little snow flakes on last friday with some rain, forecast said will have another one coming this wednesday... so, freezing my backside off, hahaha

yalor, really jealous that u guys can flirt, some more the cupidclub gathering coming soon, ~sigh~ this romi still cannot attend.
need someone to count down for the new year lah, haha~ darn boring n lonely...

cheers (and freezing) from USA

Hey! I am a lady u knoe romi... kekeke

wow.. nice nice but I don't really like cold weather...

Romi, why don't u come back to M'sia, u organise one gathering for someone like uncle kokomo / sakaibear to be your team members to organise that gathering??

kokomo
06-12-2006, 01:28 AM
Hey! I am a lady u knoe romi... kekeke

wow.. nice nice but I don't really like cold weather...

Romi, why don't u come back to M'sia, u organise one gathering for someone like uncle kokomo / sakaibear to be your team members to organise that gathering??

Romi, you know you don't have to do anything. Just be back in M'sia and we'll come out for drinks wif you. Organise gathering very 'ma fan' onee ... once do it already, some will say busy, some say too far from their place, some last minute say cannot come. Things just don't go well all the time. But then again, impromptu sessions are the best.

Not many people, cozy, easy to chat around and know each other well.

romi_o
06-12-2006, 01:50 AM
totally agreed with u kokomo my bro~
will let u know when i'm around... haha, we go to mamak of ur choice, ok?
will be around during next CNY, i hope, haha~
piggy, i know u r a lady, but sakaibear n kokomo were talking about other ppl mah ;)
and well, organising a gathering is quite troublesome, have to agree with kokomo, as most of the time ppl will fly kite ("fong fei kei") :p

have fun for the cupid club gathering lor~ say hi to everyone for me, kokomo.

cheers (and freezing...)

kokomo
06-12-2006, 01:57 AM
Don't worry Romi, most of us will drink here on behalf of you, while you're still in US looking at matsalleh ladies. ;)

Do keep in touch once you're back in M'sia and I know you will. Heheh .. :cool:

sakaibear
06-12-2006, 09:19 AM
good ol malaysian girls better. hahahaha...matsalleh girls hard to get on with (for me la at least)....cos at the end of the day i would want to come back to malaysia and have charkuayteow for breakfast....and not cereal!!!! :p

sakaibear
06-12-2006, 09:21 AM
piggy....we all know you're a lady. :) question is, do you know we're MEN. :D

kokomo
06-12-2006, 09:25 AM
Hahah .... well, having cereal is good for you Sakai. :)

What you had for breakfast? Nasi lemak better or you prefer western style of sausage and bacon, 'kiap' on the bread. Uhhhhmmm .... yum yum! This is what I had at least. So either ways, matsalleh or m'sian, pretty much depends on ones fate.

sakaibear
06-12-2006, 10:10 AM
hahaha food is important too mate!!!! :D

kokomo
06-12-2006, 10:18 AM
hahaha food is important too mate!!!! :D

Cheers that to you mate! Totally agree on. Other half need to know how to cook or not? Many yes and few no. Nowadays more men are learning how to cook so that we men don't get threathen by ladies if they walk out.

But sadly, men like me don't know how to cook except for maggie mee. :(

ProCol
06-12-2006, 02:28 PM
Hi Piggy,

Just a suggestion ok? I'm currently reading a book titled "Boy meets girl say hello to courtship" by Joshua Harris. Actually this book is written based on Christian principles but if you are not of this religion you could still read this book as it does not involve acts conflicting with teachings of other religions.
This book presents a different view to courtship and the possibility of starting a relationship. Overall, the author is advocating "slow-burn" and his method may appear to some to be very conventional and not in line with the current fast track trend. However, he has sound reasons to do so. You need not adhere or accept all of his views. I think this book is good because it helps me to understand why taking the relationship slowly is good. It helps us to differentiate between love and passion. It also helps us to discover the "real" him/her before committing. Having said that, it requires us to analyse our relationship to a certain extent in order to see how his suggestions are applicable and that is why I think this book is suitable for almost all readers at different stages in their relationships. If you are not in any relationship, it is also worth a read as you could get something out of it to apply it later. Good luck!

romi_o
07-12-2006, 12:41 AM
wow, a book reader in here :) Piggy, u see, u have started a really good thread, so many ppl coming n post.
i've only read 20% of "men are from mars, women are from venus" by John Gray, and well, it really depends on the thoughts of the reader after reading. relationship is two way, but sometimes we only get one-way communication, and so, most relationship fails~
and well, just let it be then... starting to believe in fate, haha
maybe u can write a poem for ur gf, ProCol, i think it will be the most romantic thing to do for a girl.

anyway, kokomo n sakaibear, all also important:
i don't mind waking up with a girl beside me, and serving me breakfast-in-bed, hehe...
just eat the breakfast n later cook myself a brunch/lunch... good solution, eh? so cereals or nasi lemak, i also can accept :D
(many years of training on traveling abroad... $$$ ... know how to take care of myself... priceless!!!)

ProCol
07-12-2006, 11:38 AM
I used to write her poems. I'm not talented and I don't have a clue as to the "rules & regulations" of writing one. So I just end up writing what I want to tell her and try to make the sentences rhyme, of course using amorous words. Hard work for guys like me without talent in this area. Ultimately as you said, two way communication is vital.

sugarstic
07-12-2006, 01:59 PM
ProCol - It doesn't matter if your poem doesn't rhyme.. all that matters is that the words are coming from the bottom of your heart.. and then the gift (no matter how it ends up to be..) would be just wonderfully priceless... :)

sakaibear
07-12-2006, 04:02 PM
i'm hopelessly unromantic in that case. i cannot write creatively for nuts. :( but i can cook :) not a lot of dishes but enough to fill me and her stomachs. :D

Piggy
07-12-2006, 07:46 PM
piggy....we all know you're a lady. :) question is, do you know we're MEN. :D

of course, i aware! :D

Piggy
07-12-2006, 07:48 PM
thanks ProCol. I will look try to look for that book.. hehehe/// :p

Piggy
07-12-2006, 07:50 PM
wow, a book reader in here :) Piggy, u see, u have started a really good thread, so many ppl coming n post.
i've only read 20% of "men are from mars, women are from venus" by John Gray, and well, it really depends on the thoughts of the reader after reading. relationship is two way, but sometimes we only get one-way communication, and so, most relationship fails~
and well, just let it be then... starting to believe in fate, haha
maybe u can write a poem for ur gf, ProCol, i think it will be the most romantic thing to do for a girl.

anyway, kokomo n sakaibear, all also important:
i don't mind waking up with a girl beside me, and serving me breakfast-in-bed, hehe...
just eat the breakfast n later cook myself a brunch/lunch... good solution, eh? so cereals or nasi lemak, i also can accept :D
(many years of training on traveling abroad... $$$ ... know how to take care of myself... priceless!!!)

wahhh Romi, .... good choice .. did u manage to find ur dream gurl over there/? :p

Piggy
07-12-2006, 07:51 PM
cereal? uwekkkk ... yerr.r.... muntah muntah :(

kokomo
07-12-2006, 08:37 PM
cereal? uwekkkk ... yerr.r.... muntah muntah :(

What you cannot put into your mouth, maybe or could be their healthy and fav of all time meal. Don't muntah muntah! Wait you drunk, someone pour those cereal down your throat see how. hahah ... :p

Piggy
07-12-2006, 09:05 PM
What you cannot put into your mouth, maybe or could be their healthy and fav of all time meal. Don't muntah muntah! Wait you drunk, someone pour those cereal down your throat see how. hahah ... :p

huh? healthy.. perhaps for kuai lo. Erm, i would rather eat bitter medicine (chinese one) than to eat cereal... muntah, uwekkkkkk :rolleyes: :p

kokomo
07-12-2006, 11:50 PM
huh? healthy.. perhaps for kuai lo. Erm, i would rather eat bitter medicine (chinese one) than to eat cereal... muntah, uwekkkkkk :rolleyes: :p

If there ain't any other food left on this planet other than cereal, see you eat anot. Otherwise second best option is eat grass! :p

Thread starter you're diverting away from the topic again. Banana for you!
U can choose to have pisang emas, tanduk and so on but definite no banana split for u. :p

romi_o
08-12-2006, 01:13 AM
well, one man's meat is another man's poison...
i'm trained to eat almost all normal food that u can get in the supermarket, just to prevent myself starved to death in foreign countries :P
and well, true also, back to the topic:
how to find me another half ah?? urgent, really urgent lah~
need someone to celebrate x'mas n countdown at new year with...

why it's me that is asking this question? what about the thread starter? i think it should be her responsibility to concerntrate on the topic what~ haha

sugarstic
08-12-2006, 09:16 AM
Romi-O - Hehe, how can you possibly starve to death in such a 'developed' country?
About cereals.. it's really good for health and a great way to start the mornings! Though, I must admit that I don't eat the ones they have here in Malaysia because they are simply not so tasty, hehe...
About the topic for this thread - aren't we all just looking too hard to find the right one? or are the single and available people's expectations just far too high? Personally, I think there's no one RIGHT way to FIND your other half...

sakaibear
08-12-2006, 09:58 AM
nothing beats a nice char kuay teow or curry laksa or nasi lemak or 2 roti telurs for breakfast. sure i can have cereal....but not for too many days. maximum 1 day....hahahahaha.

kokomo
08-12-2006, 10:46 AM
Hehe .. each person need to find their other half so why not we do something like this. Western way or international style. Post out what you like to do, eat and how are your lifestyle. Then post another one saying what you like the guy to be like.

If both matches, then you can PM each other then come out meet. IF jadi then jadi'lah. If cannot then keep on searching for new friends. Heheh ... good? Bad? But I think most m'sian are shy to do that.

sugarstic
08-12-2006, 02:09 PM
Hehe .. each person need to find their other half so why not we do something like this. Western way or international style. Post out what you like to do, eat and how are your lifestyle. Then post another one saying what you like the guy to be like.

If both matches, then you can PM each other then come out meet. IF jadi then jadi'lah. If cannot then keep on searching for new friends. Heheh ... good? Bad? But I think most m'sian are shy to do that.

I was just checking out a website for LunchActually.. some matchmaking agency which I read about in the newspapers... they are really charging some big bucks for this kinda things nowadays! I am amazed... Are there really people who pay so much for it? I think what Kokomo is suggesting is good.. hehe.. atleast that one is free! haha.. until the meeting up part when the 'potential other half' decides to look silly when the food/drinks bill comes! hahaha..

romi_o
09-12-2006, 12:42 AM
hei, sugarstic is trying to say that "trying to avoid the bill" is it? haha... mamak on me also no problem :P
there are really a lot of ppl paying for dinner date or so-called "express dating"... it's quite popular in the States. i think i saw M'sia also got one... everyone go there, give u 5 mins to chat with the girl at one table, then switch... at the end, rate each one, and then if got match, the agency will inform u... :)

hehe, what i like to eat? almost anything, especially fatty meat (eg bahkuteh, siewyok etc...) and even if the partner doesn't like to eat these, i can accompany her for what she likes, then i cook myself :P haha, so any takers? :D can PM me, if u don't mind i'm not in M'sia...

kokomo
09-12-2006, 02:46 AM
Wahhh .. I think am sounding more like Hitch already! :cool:

Sugarstic, don't just agree wif me, put out your interest and let others know bout it in here. If there is any takers, they'll PM you, and also please do check your PM from time to time, might just get overloaded. Hahah ... :D

Romi, that kind of 5mins chat is good, in case other party might just find another boring, so once 5mins reach already, straight away switch. If each other also fine with it then exchange contact no. Haha .. Yes? No?

Piggy
09-12-2006, 08:41 AM
If there ain't any other food left on this planet other than cereal, see you eat anot. Otherwise second best option is eat grass! :p

Thread starter you're diverting away from the topic again. Banana for you!
U can choose to have pisang emas, tanduk and so on but definite no banana split for u. :p


hahaha.. I know this thread going out of the topic.. I would prefer pisang goreng... thanks uncle kokomo :D :p

Piggy
09-12-2006, 08:42 AM
well, one man's meat is another man's poison...
i'm trained to eat almost all normal food that u can get in the supermarket, just to prevent myself starved to death in foreign countries :P
and well, true also, back to the topic:
how to find me another half ah?? urgent, really urgent lah~
need someone to celebrate x'mas n countdown at new year with...

why it's me that is asking this question? what about the thread starter? i think it should be her responsibility to concerntrate on the topic what~ haha

Well. if You don't have anyone to celebrate, you could find me ... muahahaha find me virtually. I definitely ONLINE on that day... hahhaha :o :D

Piggy
09-12-2006, 08:46 AM
Well, nowadays, guys and gurls are pretty materialistic. This is why matchmaking agencies' profit getting higher each year, and siapa tau, one day, it is a norm for malaysians to find them just to get a gurl friend / a wife. :D :p

kokomo
09-12-2006, 04:30 PM
HMmm .. think I will make good bucks there? :rolleyes: Haha ... looking for partners also can be made into a business fortune. That's really good!

Oceanblue
09-12-2006, 09:28 PM
HMmm .. think I will make good bucks there? :rolleyes: Haha ... looking for partners also can be made into a business fortune. That's really good!
Tapek uncle kokomo :p ! Now if you were to start a match making agency, who would you like best as your partner for a start? Any girls here that you have special inclination to? Don't have to be serious one la, just for cyber fun. Haha! Match maker cannot be single or else others will not believe you can do a good job :p come on come on. Don't be shy. :p

chin_wan
09-12-2006, 09:45 PM
The question to ask is...

Is the glass half empty or is it half full?

Oceanblue
09-12-2006, 09:59 PM
Wait wait this is too deep. Ok, run the test. ;)

chin_wan
09-12-2006, 10:01 PM
OK test this..if the pope farts in the forest and there's nobody around, will it still make any noise?

Oceanblue
09-12-2006, 10:04 PM
Pope is human too so he won't admit to it. :p since nobody else around, I guess he will fart louder.

romi_o
10-12-2006, 06:41 AM
it seems like some ppl really like to test The Eye's power eh?
pls don't stray away from the topic pls... if u want to talk about other things, pls go to the everything under the sun thread...
thanks :)

back to kokomo, well, yes, it's a great idea, that's y i don't really like to arrange for individual date, 2 ppl talk for 5 mins will be enough to check if both ppl can click or not
i prefer group gathering then slowly work my way through :p

kokomo
10-12-2006, 05:58 PM
Tapek uncle kokomo :p ! Now if you were to start a match making agency, who would you like best as your partner for a start? Any girls here that you have special inclination to? Don't have to be serious one la, just for cyber fun. Haha! Match maker cannot be single or else others will not believe you can do a good job :p come on come on. Don't be shy. :p

Sigh! Another fella callin' me uncle. :( Anyway, why can't a single fella start a match making agency? Full of experience, knows how to get a date that would be good enough. Hmm ... if you wanna me have a partner in here just for cyber fun, I really don't know which to put in. Too many for it. Hahah ... :p Why not, what if you were the one to start it, so who would be your partner? :confused: :rolleyes:

Romi, this kinda game needs a lot of assistance. People to jaga the crowd in case it goes sour, time keeper, table arrangements, number of people in the list and etc. Imagine this, suddenly both you and your ex are into the same game. Hahah ... that is definitely a scene.

Piggy
10-12-2006, 08:40 PM
Poor uncle kokomo... he's known as uncle nowadays ... hahahhaa (if you want to clarify on that status... you could do it here by declaring you age?? we might re-status you... instead of ah suk,.. we could call you d d geh ... )

Maybe, it's good for you uncle kokomo to set-up this agency.. and I think Romi would be your 1st customer, and me as 2nd customer and go on...... You should think of this business idea... if you want me to re-engineer you business process (the flow), you could find me... I will not charge you, FOC.. apa macam?

Oceanblue
10-12-2006, 08:43 PM
Hahaha!! :p

Piggy, instead of ah suk, we can call him ah pek.

Piggy
10-12-2006, 08:56 PM
Hahaha!! :p

Piggy, instead of ah suk, we can call him ah pek.

wahhhh oceanblue.. twould hurt his feeling geh... well, uncle kokomo want to clarify anything here to dispose that "uncle" status??? :rolleyes: :)

sakaibear
10-12-2006, 11:41 PM
Hahaha!! :p

Piggy, instead of ah suk, we can call him ah pek.

HAHAHAHAHa........apek kokomo!!! sounds good. :p so, apek apa macam? sedap dengar ka? :D

looks like uncle kokomo would've been a better bet. now apek.......hahaha good luck mate. i also cannot help you. instead, i'll join forces with them

Oceanblue
11-12-2006, 12:43 AM
My last post. Haha! :p i'm wondering where the girls are these 2 days, must be ocean's fault.. too much chat with uncle.. Haha!

Anyway, ah... pekokomo, don't you worry ok, ppl usually say that as you grow old, oops I mean older, you're like good wine. Gets better with age. :p

but don't turn into vinegar ok. :p:p:p

bye bye for now!

kokomo
11-12-2006, 10:49 AM
Waa .. Piggy & Oceanblue & Sakai (betrayer) :mad:

You wanna know my age only what. Is just another figure in numbers. Not important also. What's important is the companionship of a person.

Ocean, I'll take your words as a compliment. Thank you for that! In time to come, see you again.

Sakai, no point joining whatsoever forces. Ocean is leaving liao. hahaha ... peace peace peace!

romi_o
11-12-2006, 11:28 AM
well, as u said, ex mah... already past tense, no scene there :p
but better not sit together, no firework already, no point being embarrased...
also not possible for my case, hehe, i dont think i'll be meeting my ex in m'sia :D

it's quite simple lah, no need to worry so much, as the agency will restrict the number of ppl to show up. also they have a few staff standing by, to arrange for food, drinks etc... only 1 time-keeper enough, time's up, "ding", next~
no need to think so complicated... btw, piggy, why u think i'll be no.1 client? i'm eligible bachelor mah~ no rush, just want friends or activity partners for now as festivities coming...

pssst... hehe, and tell u something, if kokomo is ahpek, romi_o is ahpek's elder brother :D hahahaha

Piggy
11-12-2006, 07:18 PM
Waa .. Piggy & Oceanblue & Sakai (betrayer) :mad:

You wanna know my age only what. Is just another figure in numbers. Not important also. What's important is the companionship of a person.

Ocean, I'll take your words as a compliment. Thank you for that! In time to come, see you again.

Sakai, no point joining whatsoever forces. Ocean is leaving liao. hahaha ... peace peace peace!

Well, no harm done if you could be honest about your "olderness...". Ahaha, might be meaningless for you but you could clear your .. uncle ke, pekokomo ke... apa saja...

Muahahahaa... you thought that's the compliment... omg.. oceanblue, did you mean it?? :D

Wahhha.. of course sakaibear hv to call you uncle coz he's much younger than you.. YOU'LL HAVE TO ADMIT YOU ARE OLD! :rolleyes: :D

jianwei85
12-12-2006, 02:30 AM
dun worry..half of sakai is kokomo.. :p


p/s:wakakakakkaakaka

sugarstic
12-12-2006, 09:27 AM
Sugarstic, don't just agree wif me, put out your interest and let others know bout it in here. If there is any takers, they'll PM you, and also please do check your PM from time to time, might just get overloaded. Hahah ... :D

Hmm.. "put out your interest" ... hmm... how la?! hahaha... and btw, my PM inbox is still far far far from being "overloaded" ... :D

sugarstic
12-12-2006, 09:31 AM
Anyway, ah... pekokomo, don't you worry ok, ppl usually say that as you grow old, oops I mean older, you're like good wine. Gets better with age. :p
but don't turn into vinegar ok. :p:p:p

Hahahha... "don't turn into vinegar"! That's a good one.. a good laugh/way to start my day! :p

kokomo
12-12-2006, 10:52 AM
Hmm.. "put out your interest" ... hmm... how la?! hahaha... and btw, my PM inbox is still far far far from being "overloaded" ... :D

Oppss ... :o Guys, you heard what sugarstic said. Her PM inbox is cleared for all of you to start PMing her. Hehehe .... :D Now, if your inbox is full, you'd have to thank me for that. :p

KakiLang
12-12-2006, 02:33 PM
Hahahha... "don't turn into vinegar"! That's a good one.. a good laugh/way to start my day! :p

Ain't no wine nor vinegar, Kokomo is like ginger...

"Aged ginger is more pungent" :D :D

sugarstic
12-12-2006, 03:47 PM
Ain't no wine nor vinegar, Kokomo is like ginger...

"Aged ginger is more pungent" :D :D
Hhahahahha... this sounds even worse because old ginger is always hot and spicy! :D

iml109
12-12-2006, 04:56 PM
pssst... hehe, and tell u something, if kokomo is ahpek, romi_o is ahpek's elder brother :D hahahaha

that means "tua pak" lor?

Anyway, been reading this thread from start to finish.

here is my 'unimportant' opinion.

I think Kokomo and Piggy should meet up. I definitely can 'see' and 'feel' the chemistry here, with sparks flying around.

So, why don't u two meet up? After u get 'hitched' then Kokomo can start the matchmaking business and all the singles in USJ.Com sign up hey? :D

sugarstic
12-12-2006, 05:00 PM
I think Kokomo and Piggy should meet up. I definitely can 'see' and 'feel' the chemistry here, with sparks flying around.
So, why don't u two meet up? After u get 'hitched' then Kokomo can start the matchmaking business and all the singles in USJ.Com sign up hey? :D
Hmm.. if Kokomo does start such a business, I'd be among the first to sign up.. for fun sake.. :D

kokomo
12-12-2006, 08:02 PM
Hhahahahha... this sounds even worse because old ginger is always hot and spicy! :D

What worst? That's a hot and spicy old man here.

iml109, if there is much 'chemistry' in here, I bet I would have to meet hell lot of other forumers in here. Posting in here with some forumers must have that interest to do it. Plus with the mood as well. Is that what you called flair? :rolleyes:

Thank you for your support sugarstic! :cool:

Piggy
12-12-2006, 08:26 PM
dun worry..half of sakai is kokomo.. :p


p/s:wakakakakkaakaka


oops? really? guessing guessing............ :cool:

Piggy
12-12-2006, 09:11 PM
that means "tua pak" lor?

Anyway, been reading this thread from start to finish.

here is my 'unimportant' opinion.

I think Kokomo and Piggy should meet up. I definitely can 'see' and 'feel' the chemistry here, with sparks flying around.

So, why don't u two meet up? After u get 'hitched' then Kokomo can start the matchmaking business and all the singles in USJ.Com sign up hey? :D

thansk for that opinion... not flirt.. i guess he just like to "jat' people. am i right, uncle kokomo (the one that admit himself old man)... kekekkeee

Piggy
12-12-2006, 09:12 PM
What worst? That's a hot and spicy old man here.

iml109, if there is much 'chemistry' in here, I bet I would have to meet hell lot of other forumers in here. Posting in here with some forumers must have that interest to do it. Plus with the mood as well. Is that what you called flair? :rolleyes:

Thank you for your support sugarstic! :cool:

Uncle kokomo oredi hv dozens of gf oredi... cemburunya... well, since he's expert in LOVE.. perhaps, he shud set up a company..

iml109
12-12-2006, 10:09 PM
iml109, if there is much 'chemistry' in here, I bet I would have to meet hell lot of other forumers in here. Posting in here with some forumers must have that interest to do it. Plus with the mood as well. Is that what you called flair? :rolleyes:

Ahbuthen!? I think u did meet up with a lot of the forumers (and I wish I could meet up too! But that will have to be in the middle of the night then.. lol) and I think you're a good guy (so far!!!) and I think u and piggy is quite funny (like piggy said) 'jat'-ing each other is quite cute ler!! buthen again, i am just trying to turn up a notch on the heater and to help warm romi-o up far away in US there (with the heat in the forum that is...)

;)

romi_o
13-12-2006, 01:18 AM
iml109, u guy or gal ah? :p
well, it's been quite a while since i said i can feel some "sparks" between that 2 fellas :D glad to know that someone agreed, hehe
well, this romi_o will be going back to taipei middle of next week, so hopefully it will be a lot warmer than here :)
and yes, well, i will definitely support kokomo if i'm in m'sia when he started the matching agency

cheers!

kokomo
13-12-2006, 07:25 AM
Ahbuthen!? I think u did meet up with a lot of the forumers (and I wish I could meet up too! But that will have to be in the middle of the night then.. lol) and I think you're a good guy (so far!!!) and I think u and piggy is quite funny (like piggy said) 'jat'-ing each other is quite cute ler!! buthen again, i am just trying to turn up a notch on the heater and to help warm romi-o up far away in US there (with the heat in the forum that is...)

;)

Tell me which point of middle of nite that you're able to meet? I can still arrange a whole bunch of nite owls to meet you. Heheh .. yez, including me as well. Sigh! How bad I post in here also others still feel am a good guy. Very positive of you guys. Hahaha ... M'sia weather is already hot by itself, heating up the forum in here, I might just get cooked by you all. :)

sugarstic
13-12-2006, 08:23 AM
Wah... I sense the topic and uncle kokomo getting HOT n SPICY now.. hahahaha!!

kokomo
13-12-2006, 08:44 AM
Its a matter of getting use to it. Once you're use to it then its pretty normal in your daily life. Hahah ... :p

sugarstic
13-12-2006, 08:54 AM
Its a matter of getting use to it. Once you're use to it then its pretty normal in your daily life. Hahah ... :p
Getting use to what?! haha.. I dare not imagine... btw, we are also straying away from the topic lo...

Let me redirect a bit.. hehe.. people, what do you look for in your other half?

maybe, just maybe.. if we know what we are looking for, we would have a clearer direction... and better chances in this 'race'.. haha!

kokomo
13-12-2006, 09:01 AM
Getting use to what?! haha.. I dare not imagine... btw, we are also straying away from the topic lo...

Let me redirect a bit.. hehe.. people, what do you look for in your other half?

maybe, just maybe.. if we know what we are looking for, we would have a clearer direction... and better chances in this 'race'.. haha!

Wanna know from the men side what they would agree on?

Knows what men needs are and know of their satisfaction! :D

KakiLang
13-12-2006, 01:18 PM
Well, no harm done if you could be honest about your "olderness...". Ahaha, might be meaningless for you but you could clear your .. uncle ke, pekokomo ke... apa saja...
Muahahahaa... you thought that's the compliment... omg.. oceanblue, did you mean it?? :D

Wahhha.. of course sakaibear hv to call you uncle coz he's much younger than you.. YOU'LL HAVE TO ADMIT YOU ARE OLD! :rolleyes: :D

Nvm, as long as we don't call him tiko pek is good enough oledy... :D :D :D

iml109
13-12-2006, 04:29 PM
Romi-o,

Am a woman liao! *sniff sniff* too old to be called a gal now I think.... :p Oh, Taipei, haven't been there yet, too scared of them. (their ministers that is... lol).

Kokomo,

I work until 2am everynight... reach Subang also almost 3am liao lor. Don't think any night owls are that active at that time? Maybe on Fridays?

What I found in my other half:
Bad temper, stubborness, impatience, too skinny, too baby face ... blah blah blah - Kindness, a listening ear, acceptance of my flaws (growing bigger horizontally that is.. lol), patience when it matters, well mannered, blah blah blah...

Point is, don't look for love, love will find you when you least expect it. :) My other half was just like the song 'Accidentally in Love'.... :p

romi_o
14-12-2006, 05:42 AM
well, i think there are a lot of jokes around, teaching how to satisfy a man and a woman.
a woman will need a man that listens, cares, etc... (very long list, can't remember all)
a man just need a "niked" (purposely mispell) attractive woman giving her a beer and a remote control :) haha...

well, so what i;m looking for? well, look is the 1st thing, if not, sure won't "click" at the 1st time both met... then will have to look for brains, i love a smart woman :p so smart that she will know when to act smart and when to pretend to be clueless :D
yes, hard to find, that's y still single lor~ LOL

sugarstic
14-12-2006, 08:17 AM
What I found in my other half:
Bad temper, stubborness, impatience, too skinny, too baby face ... blah blah blah - Kindness, a listening ear, acceptance of my flaws (growing bigger horizontally that is.. lol), patience when it matters, well mannered, blah blah blah...

Point is, don't look for love, love will find you when you least expect it. :) My other half was just like the song 'Accidentally in Love'.... :p
Hmm.. after reading this posting, I am starting to believe what a friend of mine told me the other day.. that you'd always end up marrying someone you least expected to.. :)

sakaibear
14-12-2006, 10:41 AM
What I found in my other half:
Bad temper, stubborness, impatience, too skinny, too baby face ... blah blah blah - Kindness, a listening ear, acceptance of my flaws (growing bigger horizontally that is.. lol), patience when it matters, well mannered, blah blah blah...

Point is, don't look for love, love will find you when you least expect it. :) My other half was just like the song 'Accidentally in Love'.... :p

if you're not looking for love, chances are it wont be easy to accept it either right? pardon me for my ignorance and this has never been my strongest of points. i find that it's easy for someone to accept me as a friend but nothing more. perhaps it's just me. :)

KakiLang
14-12-2006, 01:09 PM
Hmm.. after reading this posting, I am starting to believe what a friend of mine told me the other day.. that you'd always end up marrying someone you least expected to.. :)

Someone told me "u always end up marrying someone you dun love the most"

True or not?? :confused:

sugarstic
14-12-2006, 03:34 PM
Hmm... is it possible for people to marry those that they don't love the most? I thought marriage is meant to seal the love of a lifetime? or is it just about responsibilities and reproducing for the next generations??

Piggy
14-12-2006, 11:47 PM
nah.. for me, luv wont last lifetime. Anyways, not because of my previous experience but, I could "see" from my surrounding. :D

Quite subjective issue. erm.. lets ah pak kokomo answer about L.O.V.E matter.... kekekee.. Uncle Kokomo, you must impress us kay~!? if not, you're losing customers... :rolleyes: :D

romi_o
15-12-2006, 05:06 AM
nah.. for me, luv wont last lifetime. Anyways, not because of my previous experience but, I could "see" from my surrounding. :D

Quite subjective issue. erm.. lets ah pak kokomo answer about L.O.V.E matter.... kekekee.. Uncle Kokomo, you must impress us kay~!? if not, you're losing customers... :rolleyes: :D

how old are u, piggy? :D
i think u r too young to have such comments :rolleyes:
have u ever asked the generations before us, eg. our parents, uncles, aunties etc about their love? and mind u, do define the love that u r talking about... parental love or family love should be lasting more than a lifetime... ;)

IMHO, love depends on the people, the mind, the thoughts and the surroundings~ why some ppl (mostly our ancestors) can have eternal love or long-lasting relationships? why nowadays we heard so much of love won't last for a lifetime?
one thing: the people...
u can choose what way of life u want to live, and someone choose to break other ppl's heart :) so, some love won't last ~
(some of our ancestors can get married even without knowing each other, and still they can survived for a lifetime living together and raised a family, so don't tell me love cannot be nurtured)

cheers!

KakiLang
15-12-2006, 03:41 PM
Hmm... is it possible for people to marry those that they don't love the most? I thought marriage is meant to seal the love of a lifetime? or is it just about responsibilities and reproducing for the next generations??

I think it is possible...hv u heard abt this?? There r ppl who left their partners for personal reasons, then got married later, and...ultimately they still think they love their ex lovers the most.....

sugarstic
15-12-2006, 03:55 PM
I think it is possible...hv u heard abt this?? There r ppl who left their partners for personal reasons, then got married later, and...ultimately they still think they love their ex lovers the most.....
If they do that, why did they leave their partners? I really don't understand.. if you love someone, why do you still want to hurt them and leave them to marry someone else??

vivienp
15-12-2006, 04:08 PM
I think it is possible...hv u heard abt this?? There r ppl who left their partners for personal reasons, then got married later, and...ultimately they still think they love their ex lovers the most.....

I think this is because for most human, the road that you didnt choose to take earlier always seem nicer, just like things that you never get are always better, and food on your frens plate always seems more delicious, kakaka :D

sugarstic
15-12-2006, 04:38 PM
aka.. the grass is always greener on the other side, huh?

vivienp
15-12-2006, 05:10 PM
Yup...

& your question... in my opinion, there's one kind of love called letting go... there will be some circumstances where you still love him/her, but u know u cant continue, because of some reasons (mayb family issues, some of his/her character/bad habits that you know you will never accept, some issues that both of you cant compromise even after negotiations).. So they choose to let go, before things get worse.

KakiLang
15-12-2006, 05:12 PM
If they do that, why did they leave their partners? I really don't understand.. if you love someone, why do you still want to hurt them and leave them to marry someone else??

I guess this is not about hurting someone u love...

Sometimes when both of u hv irreconcilable differences, u hv no choice but to let it go, even u still love him/her so much.....

KakiLang
15-12-2006, 05:17 PM
I think this is because for most human, the road that you didnt choose to take earlier always seem nicer, just like things that you never get are always better, and food on your frens plate always seems more delicious, kakaka :D

There r men who always think their gal friends r not as pretty as others....this is the problem with men....of coz I'm not stereotyping all the men.... :D

sugarstic
15-12-2006, 05:31 PM
Or there are just some shallow men who think that younger girls (hence prettier) match them better...

iml109
15-12-2006, 09:56 PM
MIA for a week after this. So this might be my last post for awhile.

L O L O L O V E, a topic that is hard to discuss and an even harder to understand lar.

Ever heard the idioms:

There is no wrong or right in love, all is fair in love and war, so on so forth? Aiya, I say love is just when you got knocked out senseless and become amnesiac that is why you forgot all the 'must have criterias' that your other half must befits before you want him lar!

Love won't last forever, for we are programmed in such way that our heart can always accomodate more than one love, that is why men and women can love more that one gal/guy. Don't you agree? That is why human cheat, cos they are so 'adaptable'.

To have long lasting love, its really understanding the other person and how good / well you can communicate with each other (imho) and whether you can stand it when he got that huge <put your how many inches> spare tyre and gleaming bowl on top of his head replacing his previous headful of hair and of course, that double chin that will contribute to the dolby surround system.

If you can accept that, then I would say, its a step closer to 'true' love. Again, my silly thoughts... argh, holiday time... hehehe... Merry Christmas everyone.

sakaibear
16-12-2006, 02:45 AM
i think we can bicker about on the love topic for eons to come and still it'll be debatable. i believe that it is up to the people to bring about a lasting love. after all, what is love without compromise and sacrifice? it's how much you want it to work and how far you are willing to go for it.

Piggy
16-12-2006, 11:32 AM
Romi... Hahahaha.. you'll be surprised if you sees the "true" me.. anyways, if there is a love debate in this thread.. hahaha, i'm out of the picture because I hardly have the enough experience for this.

Anyways.. fyi, divorce rate is very high nowadays.

romi_o
17-12-2006, 03:29 AM
i think we can bicker about on the love topic for eons to come and still it'll be debatable. i believe that it is up to the people to bring about a lasting love. after all, what is love without compromise and sacrifice? it's how much you want it to work and how far you are willing to go for it.

AGREED~
see, this is what a lot of ppl don't know about... they don't put efforts into this, and blamed the others~ :(

sugarstic
18-12-2006, 08:59 AM
The tricky thing about love is called BALANCE... it's a fine line to draw between how much to give, take and devote... how much effort is truly enough? it's hard to decide... just when we think we've done so much for our other halves, they'd tell you how much more their ex/other person has done for them... sigh... hence, it's a merry-go-round search for that imperfectionist that would probably be a more perfect person for us all..

It's true that we'll never find an end to this topic but for fun sake, let's just continue to learn what everyone's two cents is worth! :p

sakaibear
18-12-2006, 09:47 AM
anyone here ever thought of settling down with someone at one point? even though you're still single. i mean, when you're single would u constantly think about having someone or just being there with someone?

KakiLang
18-12-2006, 01:59 PM
The tricky thing about love is called BALANCE... it's a fine line to draw between how much to give, take and devote... how much effort is truly enough? it's hard to decide... just when we think we've done so much for our other halves, they'd tell you how much more their ex/other person has done for them... sigh... hence, it's a merry-go-round search for that imperfectionist that would probably be a more perfect person for us all..

It's true that we'll never find an end to this topic but for fun sake, let's just continue to learn what everyone's two cents is worth! :p

I would say "love is to give & dun ask for or expect anything in return", but then again how many can do that?? :)

KakiLang
18-12-2006, 02:00 PM
i think we can bicker about on the love topic for eons to come and still it'll be debatable. i believe that it is up to the people to bring about a lasting love. after all, what is love without compromise and sacrifice? it's how much you want it to work and how far you are willing to go for it.

Bro, if it is not debatable, then love is bored & no fun oledy..... :D

sugarstic
18-12-2006, 02:37 PM
anyone here ever thought of settling down with someone at one point? even though you're still single. i mean, when you're single would u constantly think about having someone or just being there with someone?
Define 'settling down' please... :p

sakaibear
18-12-2006, 02:53 PM
settle down with someone la. as in marriage or pretty sure you're going to spend the rest of your life with them. life partner if you will for those of you who do not wish to tie the knot

sugarstic
18-12-2006, 03:01 PM
settle down with someone la. as in marriage or pretty sure you're going to spend the rest of your life with them. life partner if you will for those of you who do not wish to tie the knot
Ok.. in that sense, I think you are not 100% single if you have such feelings/thoughts about another person... there's such a thing called single but not available.. :) But really, do you only want to think about it alone and never let that person know how you really feel? I know I'd never be able to do that... I'd be living in regrets if I didn't even try... :D

sakaibear
18-12-2006, 03:08 PM
i know there's always a 50% chance if u do tell and zilch if you dont. but what happens if u know for a fact or close to that, that u have not a chance in hell.

sugarstic
18-12-2006, 03:22 PM
i know there's always a 50% chance if u do tell and zilch if you dont. but what happens if u know for a fact or close to that, that u have not a chance in hell.
Well... then where did quotes like 'Never say Never' or 'Never try never know' come from? I remember this friend... he told me that he'd rather live today like it's his last day on earth than live a century in fear of the unknown...

kokomo
18-12-2006, 03:43 PM
Wow! Been away for few days only. The thread have already so distance from me. Anyway, where have I missed out? On someone's marriage? Congrats then .. haha .. if no, then try harder! ;)

iml109, You reached Subang by 3am? I guarantee you there will still be some active owls ... like me. Haha ... :cool: