True Beauty Of A Woman

[castlegard]

The beauty of a woman is not in
The clothes she wears
The figure she carries
Or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman
Must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman
Is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman
Is reflected in her soul.

It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows,
The beauty of a woman
With passing years-only grows. (anonymous)

What say you. How would you define the true beauty of a woman.

[black widow]

True beauty of a woman is when she loves unconditionally and expects nothing in return, exudes a certain charm, makes her presence to everyone around her a pleasant experience, is confident of herself yet will be not overbearing, and leaves others with wonderful memories even when she is long gone.

[tupai]

Admittedly, the shallow me say..."just strip down" :p

no banana pliss..me being just a primitive caveman; uneducated,uncouth, smelly, noisy, ignorant and at times dangerous (only to chicken crossing the road)

Yang Amat Berminat dgn Mek lawa lato tupai

[mon]

I agree with you black widow. :)

The true beauty of any person ( man or woman ) lies within the heart.

[tupai]

tis all iz too Zen for me :o

yang amat blur and zany lato tupai

[black widow]

Tupai, too much zen is never good, so you don't have to worry about being someone you aren't confortable with, but having a peek into someone with a little 'zen' to share would be a good thing to experience, unless you're too 'closed' to want to experience it.

[tupai]

Tupai, too much zen is never good, so you don't have to worry about being someone you aren't confortable with, but having a peek into someone with a little 'zen' to share would be a good thing to experience, unless you're too 'closed' to want to experience it.

Me Tarzan, U Jane. Simple equation I know.
I am too BLUR to experience anything smelling or sounding of Zen lah :p

Yang Amat Blur lato tupai

p/s I watch grass grow once upon a time...is that considered Zen? :confused:

[Sasha]

Hey Tarzan, let's swing on!
True beauty of a woman is when she is able to adapt to any environment easily so as to not inconvenience the host or people she is with.
Tarzan/Tupai/Adonis, just holler out and i'll be there in a flash! ;)

[tupai]

sasha...where have you been? Your presence is missed and flyfire have unfortunately given up on you becos he thinks I am on your tail lah :p

yang ada berata-rate lato tupai

[Sasha]

My flames of desire shall burn only for you, my bushy-tailed Greek God. That in itself is enough to light the path leading to you, that no firefly can shed enough light upon.
As Sasha is not a patient one in nature, she will slowly die away..........

[tupai]

My flames of desire shall burn only for you, my bushy-tailed Greek God. That in itself is enough to light the path leading to you, that no firefly can shed enough light upon.
As Sasha is not a patient one in nature, she will slowly die away..........

hmmmmm...but adonis has a heart so big that he can luvvvvvv so many at one time :p unluckily i am not Him...where to find strength leh??

Never has so small a puppy-lust announced so loud for so big a field :D

hahhahhaaa...

yang amat blur sotong lato tupai :confused:

[Sasha]

puppy-lust, but it is still lust, no doubt. This is Sasha's playing field. The number of players can be infinite.

[jianwei85]

The woman herself. At her raw-est. Basically, no frills and her personality will shine through everything. I believe if you find her compatible in ANY situation, then that would be a sign of her true beauty.

[mon]

I wanna add something sorry if it's a digression. :o All mothers are beautiful...let us never forget that.

[sakaibear]

mothers are indeed beautiful. they inject life into all of us. can anyone here say that without their mom's they can be who they are?

also i would like to add....beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. so there you go ladies, true beauty is always measured by who you are. :) that's my two cents...

[black widow]

Sakaiber, you are right about beauty being in the eyes of the beholder, whereby a woman may look 'ugly' to one person but strikingly beautiful inside-n-out, or she may look like a beauty queen on the outside but lacking good characteristics.
On the other hand, the constant desire to be beautiful inside-n-out can get really tiring, so i say, just be who you are comfortable being, and let it shine. Good or bad, someone is bound to like you for the way you are and think you're the most wonderful person in the whole world.

[wanmei]

"beauty lies in the eye of the beholder......"

:( hmmm....where i heard this line b4 ah.....hmmmm...Oooooh....everywhere....but in reality, beauty is measure by how u look,dress and proper groomming wan..

[castlegard]

"beauty lies in the eye of the beholder......"

:( hmmm....where i heard this line b4 ah.....hmmmm...Oooooh....everywhere....but in reality, beauty is measure by how u look,dress and proper groomming wan..

Most men are biologically programmed to seek women who are outwardly beautiful. So many people in my life are beautiful, however, they aren't in magazines or movies, but rather, they have made an imprint in my heart that will last forever. Their strength, kindness, love, and joy fills my life with so much. Appearance could not fill my life the way their character traits do.

My wife and I have a friend who's face sucks. Really sucks. However, her bubbly lovely personality shines through. She always does what she feels like doing regardless of what others think of her but she is always kind.

Ironically, other physically 'beautiful' women are envious of her. They tried ways to defame her, damage her reputation, but nothing worked. Nothing will ever shake her. I admire her courage and bravery.
She's always in an old tee shirt and jeans. Married to a guy who loves her to the core.

Being beautiful is making others feel happy and wonderful inside. So that the only way they can see you is as a beauty.

[black widow]

As a single woman, it is a struggle to find one's self when there is a constant need to 'keep up' with the changing times which at the moment almost dictates that to be seen as 'beautiful', you have to be outwardly beautiful, well groomed, and immensely intelligent, driven, and seen at the hippest places with the 'in' crowd.
I say, do your own thing, and do it well. Can't beat that! I've given up on the idea of trying to look like models, beauty contestants and the like. Being more realistic now, I just look the best I can, be the best I can be, so take it or leave it.

[castlegard]

I say, do your own thing, and do it well. Can't beat that! I've given up on the idea of trying to look like models, beauty contestants and the like. Being more realistic now, I just look the best I can, be the best I can be, so take it or leave it.

In spite of the fact I have not met you black widow, listening to you tells me that you too, are a beautiful woman.

Regards.

[tupai]

ahhh black widow..pliss ah....how you look ahhhh? no like spider i hope ah...very dangerous one.

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All really very Zen to me...got headache already.

yang amat buruk :eek: & hodoh :eek: :eek: lato tupai :D

p/s
whats then is the true 'beauty' :eek: of a Man then?

[castlegard]

p/s
whats then is the true 'beauty' :eek: of a Man then?

The same goes for men.

Mr. Tupai, something to ponder over if you have the time.

If everyone were blind, what would beauty be?

Cheers.

[black widow]

Tupai, don't you find danger and beauty a wonderful deadly mix? When you are intoxicated by one's beauty, you don't see the whole picture, and in the end, you find yourself succumbing to a black widow spider's power.

[tupai]

The same goes for men.

Mr. Tupai, something to ponder over if you have the time.

If everyone were blind, what would beauty be?

Cheers.

smells nice? feels smooth&velvety? tone & manner of delivery? taste shiok shiok?
i dumbo dunno lah...

Yang Amat Blinded by physical beauty lato tupai
:p

[Sasha]

Dear Adonis,
All that you mentioned are spot-on. It's a packaged deal that women want. Ok, some packages might not be well wrapped, but it is always nice to see a pretty package, right?
Darn hot day. Am in the mood for fresh coconut drink.

[sakaibear]

it's true that it's proper grooming and all that matters to lots of people. but have you ever thought that they're meant for first impressions. as good looking as one may be...one can be utterly obnoxious. what say you then?

have some faith in men...not all of them are like that. it's a little unfair to those who are genuinely good men.

[orchipalar]

have some faith in men...not all of them are like that. it's a little unfair to those who are genuinely good men.Err...ahem!...did Orchi hear someone mentioning about genuinely good men...?

[castlegard]

Just my 0.1 cent.

Genuinely good people are unique. Their actions speak a volume. They possess natural kindness, helpfulness, thoughtfulness and are never shaken. These good people will be subjected to many scrutiny by other lesser people in this society. In this forum for instance, have you ever seen a wonderful person being defamed and slandered just for being nice or helpful? That's just for instance.

Like I've said, my concept of beauty is the same for both men and women. Someone could be the most beautiful person on the outside, and the ugliest inside, which is ten times worse than the opposite. Looks do matter for first impressions as pointed out by Sakaibear. But, looks will only begin a relationship, personality is what matters in the end. And anyway, physical beauty disappears in the blink of an eye, while internal beauty lasts a lifetime.

Cheers.

[black widow]

Looks do matter for first impressions as pointed out by Sakaibear. But, looks will only begin a relationship, personality is what matters in the end. And anyway, physical beauty disappears in the blink of an eye, while internal beauty lasts a lifetime.

Cheers.

The one from the land of castles, knights,queens and kings, is so very right. What is most likely to start a relationship is the 1st impression. Making a good lasting impression takes so much more than looks.

[AllUrban]

sometimes you can see beauty in a glance......

but not everything is everlasting

cheers, m

[Ginger]

sometimes you can see beauty in a glance......

but not everything is everlasting

cheers, m
Agreed!

one of my girlfriends is gorgeously beautiful, tall, busty, curvy and she gets her long hair treated at a saloon like once in a week! An egyptian nefertiti look alike definitely. But when me and other friends got to know her, we were totally flabber gasted. Her true colours showed over time and everything that came out from that mouth of hers were nothing but lies and gossips. It took us a long time to kind of disassociate ourselves from her. This is just one example.
not saying all beautiful people are bad, but outward beauty is only temporary. It will fade away so who cares. No use being a beauty queen if you're ugly to de bone.

[castlegard]

I will agree to your last line. "No use being a beauty queen if you're ugly to de bone."

Regards.