moderation on "Suggestion for 1st Friday for TT Venue."

[girl2]

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4) Asia Cafe - No no no. Maybe good for Cupid Club. Guys can impress the girls by buying them good supper and what they do after that is their return of investment. For one night stand er er not politically correct to say that ........ok.. only good for once a while session for a change.


This is a very negative speculation. Are you suggesting that the male Cupids buy the ladies drinks and food in order to hop into bed with them? My apologies for the digression but I think some of the jokes laid out here are way beyond decent. Where is the respect you guys have for the ladies.

Please tell me you were 'just kidding'.

[Firefly]

He is only kidding, that old man is over worked and under paid and many a times out of his mind...

In this day and age, one knows that this can never happend unless in the backstreet where this trade is being peddled. Sorry to all female readers and forumers, on PC's behalf, let firefly ask for you apologies.

PC!!!! you gonna kena for this type of remark!!!! :mad:

[girl2]

Hope he is only kidding. In this day and age, one knows that this can never happend unless in the backstreet where this trade is being peddled. Sorry to all female readers and forumers, on PC's behalf, let firefly ask for you apologies.

PC!!!! you gonna kena for this type of remark!!!! :mad:

Glad to see most of you engaging in the useful dialogues and decorum you promote in this forum. May I remind you, this forum is not a 'backstreet' where ladies are being attacked for being friendly and the easy prey for men's jokes.

Thank you.

[PeNNyPupZ]

wawaa chill man girl2.. it obviously was a joke ;p

i dont know about the air-conditioned places.. it is kinda 'mafan' for us to walk down and out to smoke.. the tt session prolly be divided into two groups.. the smokers and the non-smokers..

[kwchang]

4) Asia Cafe - No no no. Maybe good for Cupid Club. Guys can impress the girls by buying them good supper and what they do after that is their return of investment. For one night stand er er not politically correct to say that ........ok.. only good for once a while session for a change.
PCYeoh !!!
You corrected yourself (see highlight) BUT maybe you thought it was rather funny to maintain that slip-of-your-mind? What you did was to downgrade all the good boys and girls that formed the USJ cupid club. Is that how you perceive your neighbours? Did you lose complete control of your senses? :eek: Many a times I had to stop you from making a complete fool of yourself but when I wasn't looking, you did it again !! It does not matter if you meant it as a joke but some things leave a bad after-taste - this is one of them. Please accept the banana and stand in the corner. :mad:

[girl2]

wawaa chill man girl2.. it obviously was a joke ;p

I'd like to see things from your point of view but sorry, I can never. I am not here to gain people's popularity vote but I am just me. I'm not ignorant. Thank you. You have fun.


PCYeoh !!!
It does not matter if you meant it as a joke but some things leave a bad after-taste - this is one of them. Please accept the banana and stand in the corner. :mad:
kwchang, you conduct yourself with the utmost respect. My salutes.

[kokomo]

I'd like to see things from your point of view but sorry, I can never. I am not here to gain people's popularity vote but I am just me. I'm not ignorant. Thank you. You have fun.


kwchang, you conduct yourself with the utmost respect. My salutes.

Wow ... girl2 .. girl POWER!@@!!

[sakaibear]

30 cents for toilets?!! serious?! at a mamak?? dear god...

girl2, no one said you were ignorant...besides, most of us know each other personally and we all knew it was meant to be a joke. i'm sorry if it offended you but as many have clarified that it was a joke lets just let it be. besides...lighten up mate...you'll feel better. :)

[handyman]

girl2, no one said you were ignorant...besides, most of us know each other personally and we all knew it was meant to be a joke. i'm sorry if it offended you but as many have clarified that it was a joke lets just let it be. besides...lighten up mate...you'll feel better. :)

hello. would u, sakaibear, joke about the cupids sleeping with each other after receiving drinks n food? anyone level headed could see that girl2 has had valid reasons to want to voice her opinions. she did not sound like she meant someone offending her by calling her ignorant. u obviously have misread her n jumped to ur own conclusions. u should cool it instead. chang has delivered a banana to the guilty party. if u or anyone else think that it was an unfair move, pls pm him. so what more is there to conclude now.

really. case should be closed now n no one would get more confused.

[pcyeoh]

This is a very negative speculation. Are you suggesting that the male Cupids buy the ladies drinks and food in order to hop into bed with them? My apologies for the digression but I think some of the jokes laid out here are way beyond decent. Where is the respect you guys have for the ladies.

Please tell me you were 'just kidding'.
NO I WAS NOT KIDDING. It was a neutral statement and it was you all who are making a mountain out of a molehill. This include those who apologise on my behalf and also Chang who once again overstep his duty by making unfair remarks and also misinterpreted what my intention was when I made that statement.

Firefly, how did you end up saying "In this day and age, one knows that this can never happend unless in the backstreet where this trade is being peddled." And saying "that old man is over worked and under paid and many a times out of his mind..." now is this a joke or an insult? And Chang, what is your stand on this?

Handyman, tell me exactly where I said cupids sleeping with each other after receiving drinks n food? What is your motive in putting these words in my mouth? And don't conveniently close the issue when you have made it even worse by shooting through your hips.

And Chang, is it fair for you to label me when you said "I had to stop you from making a complete fool of yourself.." If you have to give a banana, just do so and point out where I have gone wrong. You need not make unfair remarks especially those uncalled ones.

I would have left things as they were but unfortunately some people cannot see the big picture. To those who have been offended by my statement, I apologise and I thank you for remaining silent. These are what I call friends.

[sakaibear]

now that pcyeoh has stated that it wasn't a joke, i apologise to girl2 and handyman for thinking it was one and to the others who found that statement offending. i truly am.

pcyeoh....it's definitely not right for you to have said that. it's utter ignorance to say that

"Guys can impress the girls by buying them good supper and what they do after that is their return of investment. For one night stand er er not politically correct to say that ........ok.. only good for once a while session for a change."

stating not politically correct wouldn't change a thing. are you stating that guys buy them food in return for sexual favours? cos that sure is what you're implying. that's just shallow. and i repeat...utter ignorance!

[sakaibear]

and i suggest if you want to argue about it...we open another thread. cos i don't wanna spoil firefly's TT thread. i'm sorry firefly if i polluted your thread.

[ginaphan]

Remember the radio commercial "HEADACHE! HEADACHE!"

I came home to bickering kids.

HEADACHE! HEADACHE!

Then I come to this thread

HEADACHE! HEADACHE!

Mana panadol? (Sigh).

[Jose Mourinho]

This is a very negative speculation. Are you suggesting that the male Cupids buy the ladies drinks and food in order to hop into bed with them? My apologies for the digression but I think some of the jokes laid out here are way beyond decent. Where is the respect you guys have for the ladies. Please tell me you were 'just kidding'.

PCYeoh did not suggest anything. I wish a person would read what is actually being written instead of speculating based on their own interpretation of things from troubled and sometimes, inferiority-racked minds. I read PCYeoh's remark three times and I did not find anything amiss. In fact I find Girl 2's remark unwarranted with a sweeping statement of 'where is the respect you guys have for the ladies'. And I find Chang's remark even worse "Did you lose complete control of your senses? Many a times I had to stop you from making a complete fool of yourself but when I wasn't looking, you did it again !!" which smacks of God-like arrogance, usually evident in small people with inferiority complex.

[jand]

hello everyone.

let me moderate things a little. ok, first. I've always find that the statement "a person interprets a statement based on their natural bias and also what's in their mind at that moment".

now, when I saw PC's statement, I looked at it sentence by sentence and didn't really see anything wrong.

Let's go through it:



4) Asia Cafe - No no no. Maybe good for Cupid Club. Guys can impress the girls by buying them good supper and what they do after that is their return of investment. For one night stand er er not politically correct to say that ........ok.. only good for once a while session for a change.

If we look at Let's go through it:



4) Asia Cafe - No no no. Maybe good for Cupid Club. Guys can impress the girls by buying them good supper and what they do after that is their return of investment. first, the hot statement "what they do after that is their return of investment". What does the Cupid Club do? People meeting each other, getting to know each other, getting friends and maybe more than just friends, hence Cupid Club.


For one night stand er er not politically correct to say that ........ok.. only good for once a while session for a change.
The way I saw it, the one night stand meant the TT itself. Have it there, one time.
The next statement got everyone riled up because of societal bias that one night stand are associated with something sexual in nature. Does it have to?
Perhaps today it is a negative term but who knows in future it could be a general term. English words do evolve and change as the people use and sometimes take a different meaning from the original one.

Perhaps with paragraphs, it's easier to understand the context better but since this is a bullet point, it happens.

Maybe PC did a Najib. Said something but it came out wrongly from what it originally meant. We all do it sometimes.

As neighbours, why not just shake hands and forgive? Definitely not forget, no. Always something to be learnt.

[Jose Mourinho]

PCYeoh !!! Did you lose complete control of your senses? Many a times I had to stop you from making a complete fool of yourself but when I wasn't looking, you did it again !! It does not matter if you meant it as a joke but some things leave a bad after-taste - this is one of them. Please accept the banana and stand in the corner.

I do not think PCYeoh has made a complete fool of himself but Chang insinuates that 'many a times' he has to stop him from making a complete fool of himself. This is the typical high and mighty attitude of some government civil servants. I must clarify that I do not mean all government civil servants. Most of them are very good but I face such situations at some counters where this superiority attitude (to cover up for their inferiority complexes and miserable pathetic lives) is evident. No. I do not think PCYeoh has made a complete fool of himself. I find that Chang has made a complete fool of himself as usual when he starts to get personal and thinks he can read people's minds.

:)

[SunwayKid]

I was equally perplexed over PCYeoh getting a banana for a statement which I could not find any fault with, if one acknowledges his “normal” writing style. I fail to see anyone getting slandered as his usage of “one night stand” appears to me to be just a play with words and to demonstrate his command of the jokecabulary, and not directed at any forumer in particular.

Whilst most of us have our personal list of things we find repugnant and offensive, and there are many things in my list that could be similar to yours, the proper way to combat these things is not to manipulate the facts, flame the issue or interpret it the way you want to interpret it. I am all for being opinionated but if you can’t see others point of view or people you disagree with, don’t resort to flinging invective and make spiteful misrepresentation. And PCYeoh was a victim of that. Just my opinion of course.

[girl2]

NO I WAS NOT KIDDING. It was a neutral statement and it was you all who are making a mountain out of a molehill. This include those who apologise on my behalf and also Chang who once again overstep his duty by making unfair remarks and also misinterpreted what my intention was when I made that statement.
pcyeoh, i do not wish to be caught up in a fight with you. I had made my point earlier and had let it past. Rest my case. Then came your response. This was way too unexpected. You were saying, out of the blue, you were making that sweeping 'neutral statement' made to no one in particular? Simply stating my belief. How can anyone expect me not to take something that remarkable seriously?

Firefly, how did you end up saying "In this day and age, one knows that this can never happend unless in the backstreet where this trade is being peddled." And saying "that old man is over worked and under paid and many a times out of his mind..." now is this a joke or an insult? And Chang, what is your stand on this?
pcyeoh. Who is making a mountain out of a molehill? Your friend Fire-fly I suppose, was just trying to get you out of a 'mess' of the earlier statement you had so daringly stated. He did not mean to insult you. It was just a joke. pcyeoh, you should practise what you preach. You then went a little further to question kwchang on his stand on that? Was that little help from your friend that seriously insulting? Please don't take this negatively again. I am just learning from the best.

Handyman, tell me exactly where I said cupids sleeping with each other after receiving drinks n food? What is your motive in putting these words in my mouth? And don't conveniently close the issue when you have made it even worse by shooting through your hips.
pcyeoh. Yes you did not say it directly. Some of you had even taken that statement with a pinch of salt. 'One night stand' meant the TT itself? English words do evolve and change as the people use and sometimes take a different meaning from the original one? It is just a play with words and to demonstrate his command of the jokecabulary? Really? I'm speechless. Have my salutes, one night stands. I really mean to salute the TT attendees onli.

And Chang, is it fair for you to label me when you said "I had to stop you from making a complete fool of yourself.." If you have to give a banana, just do so and point out where I have gone wrong. You need not make unfair remarks especially those uncalled ones.
Likewise. You should not have made that uncalled for statement, the 1st and 2nd time. I'm not speaking out for the female gender alone (apologies if some ladies do not agree with me) but for the male gender as well. No one likes to take one night stands statements as jokes. Unless...
pcyeoh, kwchang has lifted your banana in just a day. You should thank him instead. He's not that unjust and unfair.

I would have left things as they were but unfortunately some people cannot see the big picture. To those who have been offended by my statement, I apologise and I thank you for remaining silent. These are what I call friends.
Likewise. I would have left things as they were but unfortunately some people joked way too much beyond the line of decency. You can joke to your heart's content behind closed doors and no one would 'misjudge' you but may I remind you, this is a community forum made up of very young and old people.

[handyman]

I do not think PCYeoh has made a complete fool of himself but Chang insinuates that 'many a times' he has to stop him from making a complete fool of himself. This is the typical high and mighty attitude of some government civil servants. I must clarify that I do not mean all government civil servants. Most of them are very good but I face such situations at some counters where this superiority attitude (to cover up for their inferiority complexes and miserable pathetic lives) is evident. No. I do not think PCYeoh has made a complete fool of himself. I find that Chang has made a complete fool of himself as usual when he starts to get personal and thinks he can read people's minds.

:)

fr the way i look at this, this discussion is only between PcYeoh, Girl 2 and Kwchang now. any other comments will not matter. i can see that you are using Girl 2 as well as the whole incident to hit out hard at Kwchang.
as far as i am concerned, i remember persistently that you have said that if it isn't a matter of life and death, it is not important to you. so there is no reason for you to interfere now.

[kwchang]

PCYeoh had gone back to his hometown for the holidays but I hope he reads this when he logs on again.

I will need to apologise to PCYeoh for any personal remarks I had made on his character in this thread. I have read both sides of the arguement and in retrospec I see that I have indeed hit out at his character. So, my apologies are on the platter and maybe a yam-cha session to one of our old guards who have tirelessly worked for the good of the community.

[Jose Mourinho]

fr the way i look at this, this discussion is only between PcYeoh, Girl 2 and Kwchang now. any other comments will not matter. i can see that you are using Girl 2 as well as the whole incident to hit out hard at Kwchang.
as far as i am concerned, i remember persistently that you have said that if it isn't a matter of life and death, it is not important to you. so there is no reason for you to interfere now.

And what has my comment on Chang got to do with you? Why are you interfering? Do I need to ask you for permission to breathe? You replied earlier and was interpreting rubbish from what people has said, rubbish as only can come from an imbecile and trouble-maker. The way I look at it and the way Chang allows you to roam around despite your bad behaviour is because you are his officially sanctioned moronic troll to go around defending him and picking fights with other people. I am sure when Chang farts, you will ask him to do it again into your face because it smells real good to you. Grow up, you pompous officially sanctioned troll.

[Jose Mourinho]

NO I WAS NOT KIDDING. It was a neutral statement and it was you all who are making a mountain out of a molehill. This include those who apologise on my behalf and also Chang who once again overstep his duty by making unfair remarks and also misinterpreted what my intention was when I made that statement.
pcyeoh, i do not wish to be caught up in a fight with you. I had made my point earlier and had let it past. Rest my case. Then came your response. This was way too unexpected. You were saying, out of the blue, you were making that sweeping 'neutral statement' made to no one in particular? Simply stating my belief. How can anyone expect me not to take something that remarkable seriously?

Firefly, how did you end up saying "In this day and age, one knows that this can never happend unless in the backstreet where this trade is being peddled." And saying "that old man is over worked and under paid and many a times out of his mind..." now is this a joke or an insult? And Chang, what is your stand on this?
pcyeoh. Who is making a mountain out of a molehill? Your friend Fire-fly I suppose, was just trying to get you out of a 'mess' of the earlier statement you had so daringly stated. He did not mean to insult you. It was just a joke. pcyeoh, you should practise what you preach. You then went a little further to question kwchang on his stand on that? Was that little help from your friend that seriously insulting? Please don't take this negatively again. I am just learning from the best.

Handyman, tell me exactly where I said cupids sleeping with each other after receiving drinks n food? What is your motive in putting these words in my mouth? And don't conveniently close the issue when you have made it even worse by shooting through your hips.
pcyeoh. Yes you did not say it directly. Some of you had even taken that statement with a pinch of salt. 'One night stand' meant the TT itself? English words do evolve and change as the people use and sometimes take a different meaning from the original one? It is just a play with words and to demonstrate his command of the jokecabulary? Really? I'm speechless. Have my salutes, one night stands. I really mean to salute the TT attendees onli.

And Chang, is it fair for you to label me when you said "I had to stop you from making a complete fool of yourself.." If you have to give a banana, just do so and point out where I have gone wrong. You need not make unfair remarks especially those uncalled ones.
Likewise. You should not have made that uncalled for statement, the 1st and 2nd time. I'm not speaking out for the female gender alone (apologies if some ladies do not agree with me) but for the male gender as well. No one likes to take one night stands statements as jokes. Unless...
pcyeoh, kwchang has lifted your banana in just a day. You should thank him instead. He's not that unjust and unfair.

I would have left things as they were but unfortunately some people cannot see the big picture. To those who have been offended by my statement, I apologise and I thank you for remaining silent. These are what I call friends.
Likewise. I would have left things as they were but unfortunately some people joked way too much beyond the line of decency. You can joke to your heart's content behind closed doors and no one would 'misjudge' you but may I remind you, this is a community forum made up of very young and old people.

Girl 2. You seriously have a problem. And that problem is having too much time so that you can write a thesis on this. As to your original question of men paying respect to girls etc. Respect is earned. Not demanded. Ever wonder why men don't respect you - that is, if you are feeling hurt and referring to yourself? If you are not referring to yourself, then your thesis is just an academic exercise. Yes? No? And don't worry... you don't have to reply to me, the official sanctioned troll will do it for you. Another problem child who needs to see a shrink and has too much time on his hands.

:)

[kwchang]

Jose has been given a 1-week vacation at the banana plantation.

The reason is that he had picked fights with handyman and girl2 in the last 2 posts (#21 and #22). Anyone is entitled to their views, including Jose. That was why I had allowed him to make his comments on me - may I make a note here that he is not banned because of those comments he made in the morning (#14 and #16). However, I do not see the reasons for his vents on handyman and girl2.

For your information, I have no idea who handyman or girl2 is.

[vsat]

www.usj.com.my was globally recognized a couple of days ago as I have always knew.
You guys are starting to make this forum look thrashy again with this bickering.
So, please.....

[arbiter]

who's bickering?

i hope the trolls will not come back now. and risk getting banned together gether.

[Joe Gomez]

Jose has been given a 1-week vacation at the banana plantation..................Huhhh ???
I am sure when Chang farts, you will ask him to do it again into your face because it smells real good to you.It figures ........

[kaym]

This board has not changed much. I am not really an active poster but I read the threads when I am free to browse.

Too many whinging, complains on this board......to me. Thats why I hardly visit here now.

[arbiter]

here's my 1sen. the board of moderators are still doing a good job. what u may not like are the trolls. trolls think they are very clever nowadays, some even came back with avatars and start their dirty mouthing jobs in just a few posts! LOL! and they go after a certain group of forumers whom they dislike and whack them kau kau! these trolls obviously hv no better things to do or they have been rejected by majority of people. full of bitterness and can't accept the fact other forumers are getting the attention and making more friends.

[girl2]

here's my 1sen. the board of moderators are still doing a good job. what u may not like are the trolls. trolls think they are very clever nowadays, some even came back with avatars and start their dirty mouthing jobs in just a few posts! LOL! and they go after a certain group of forumers whom they dislike and whack them kau kau! these trolls obviously hv no better things to do or they have been rejected by majority of people. full of bitterness and can't accept the fact other forumers are getting the attention and making more friends.

They are only humiliating and inglorifying themselves with their insecurity and bitterness. Only they themselves know why they feel this way but why should anyone bother?

The younger forumers made many friends along the way, participating in many meaningful community activites, got to better understandings with the elderly neighbours and families, enriching their relationships together, all thanks to the forum.

[bm007snr]

Whow. I've finally read this entire thread.

I think the summary of what happened is that Pcyeoh made a statement which was interpreted wrongly by some people. Then it was clarified. Chang (one of those who may have interpreted Pcyeoh's statement wrongly) has apologised. That's settled.

Then... this supposedly concluded matter is followed by.. urm.. some other arguments (of a different matter).
Well... hope everything works out right :p

[kpc]

Isn't it 1 week already?

Jose,

You can come back now.
We missed you very much.

[handyman]

You can come back now.
We missed you very much. - kpc

who else might we be?

you don't represent me.

[Jose Mourinho]

Huhhh ???It figures ........

Dear Joe Gomez,

You made that remark when you were referring to what I thought of Handyman. I think this was my remark:


I am sure when Chang farts, you will ask him to do it again into your face because it smells real good to you.

I do share the consternation in your voice and perhaps you were right in that I was a bit descriptive about Handyman. Currently I am too caught up with World Cup matches and I don't have enough sleep. Let me sleep over it (pun intended) and perhaps I may withdraw that statement about Handyman on "I am sure when Chang farts, you will ask him to do it again into your face because it smells real good to you". No promises, though.

My apologies to you, Joe Gomez, for hurting the sensitivity of others in this forum. That was not my intention at all. Thank you and I wish you all the best.

:)

[Jose Mourinho]

They are only humiliating and inglorifying themselves with their insecurity and bitterness. Only they themselves know why they feel this way but why should anyone bother?

You do make a lot of wild speculation and assumption. Are you a qualified psychiatrist or psychologist? I am not being sarcastic or funny but just concerned that others may read what you have posted as the absolute truth. I watched Basic Instinct 1 and Basic Instinct 2. The renowned pychiastrist took many sessions face to face with Sharon Stone and still could not diagnose her. What I am trying to say is that I am not criticizing you in any way but really praise you for your indepth knowledge and expertise on the human mind. Thank you for sharing with us. Much appreciated.

[Joe Gomez]

....... Thank you and I wish you all the best. :)
IMHO, this thread is not going anywhere and moi intends to stay out. ;) But nevertheless, thanks for the thot, sir, & the good wishes. :)

[SS19flyover]

I wonder when one day we sit down face to face with you argue with the same tone like this?

If yes -
Chairs is going to fly all over in the poor mamak store

If no -
Then you just love to argue for the sake of it

[Jose Mourinho]

I wonder when one day we sit down face to face with you argue with the same tone like this?

If yes -
Chairs is going to fly all over in the poor mamak store

If no -
Then you just love to argue for the sake of it

Yes. I know what you mean. You meant Girl 2, Arbiter and Handyman. I am sure you don't mean Joe Gomez or Jose Mourinho. Right?

:D

[SS19flyover]

actually I pity my good friend firefly.....he kena belakang mari because he apologize for pc.

[Joe Gomez]

................. I am sure you don't mean Joe Gomez or Jose Mourinho. Right? :Dlolllllllllll ........... Jose why do I feel the noose slowly tightening around my neck ????? ;) :D

[Jose Mourinho]

lolllllllllll ........... Jose why do I feel the noose slowly tightening around my neck ????? ;) :D

No la. I watched lots of cowboy movies when I was young. I always manage to shoot the rope when the noose becomes too tight. Just kidding. I have absolutely nothing against you. Cheers.

[Joe Gomez]

No la. I watched lots of cowboy movies when I was young. I always manage to shoot the rope when the noose becomes too tight. Just kidding. I have absolutely nothing against you. Cheers.PHEWWWWWW i m Relieved :p :p