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blackgammon
14-04-2006, 10:47 PM
Just wondering:

What are your criterias for choosing a husband/wife?

Is good boyfriend a good husband material? Likewise, Is good girlfriend a good wife material?

How do you define 'good husband/wife'?

Girls, do you like older man or younger man? (of course not toooo old or tooooo young, within acceptable range like not more than 10 years younger or 15 years older, erm, come to think of it, this is a bit hard to define, you see Michael Douglas is 25 years older than Catherine zeta-jones .... )

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 12:36 AM
Women always found men different and vice-versa, that's way they are attract to each other.

A dream husband

Rich, with his own career
Independent
Home and family caring person
Handsome
Humour in person

My husband

Know the important of Commitment
Independent with his own career
Home and family caring person
Handsome in my eyes only
Very Humour to kids, Very Serious to me
Greater heart of acceptance
Forgive and forget mostly
Filial to parents
:D :D :D :D :D

Firefly
15-04-2006, 08:33 AM
Why is it that an outward apperance is important? Can a guy who look like a cina apek not get a wife then? :rolleyes:

orchipalar
15-04-2006, 08:45 AM
Err...how about the following 8 'C(s)'...yes Orchi added 4 more 'C(s)'...in no certain order...

1. Character
2. Carat
3. Car
4. Condo
5. Credits from Banks
6. Cash
7. Career
8. Charisma

Ahem...there may be more 'C' added to the list...anyone cares to comment or suggest...?

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 09:02 AM
A "NO" to such a Man

1) dig others "body" from gravevard
2) monitor their partner activity, as thought he is born to check and monitor on others
(eg. calling every hours to check on their partner activity)
3) who only know how to whack a women rather than a man

What say you ????

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 09:07 AM
Why is it that an outward apperance is important? Can a guy who look like a cina apek not get a wife then? :rolleyes:
I think some feel shy and not confidence to bring a father (china ah pek) or mother (china ah mah) out for a show out......... :p :p :p

kokomo
15-04-2006, 09:18 AM
A "NO" to such a Man

1) dig others "body" from gravevard
2) monitor their partner activity, as thought he is born to check and monitor on others
(eg. calling every hours to check on their partner activity)
3) who only know how to whack a women rather than a man

What say you ????

I agree 100% wif you, Winnie. :cool: This kind of guy comes wif a big "L" on the forehead ... but it also goes the same to ladies ..

Some ladies, love to monitor and check .. (CCTV) .. hate this ..
Some like to abuse guys .. whack la, cubit la, bite la ... aiseh! Really treat men like punching bag ...
Some ladies also like to find men to fill up their time .. and if this guy is not free .. then can alwiz be substitute wif another .. to me is like (hoppers)

blackgammon
15-04-2006, 09:48 AM
A jealous man is an insecure man, likewise for a woman. Agree?

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 10:52 AM
I agree 100% wif you, Winnie. :cool: This kind of guy comes wif a big "L" on the forehead ... but it also goes the same to ladies ..

Some ladies, love to monitor and check .. (CCTV) .. hate this ..
Some like to abuse guys .. whack la, cubit la, bite la ... aiseh! Really treat men like punching bag ...
Some ladies also like to find men to fill up their time .. and if this guy is not free .. then can alwiz be substitute wif another .. to me is like (hoppers)

this is called life in 20 century...... :D :D :D :D :D

kokomo
15-04-2006, 10:54 AM
blackgammon, what you say is true indeed. But as for being in the so called life in the 20th century not so on it la .. i believe things like this happens since ages back .. even the time before you and I were born.

alexhay
15-04-2006, 11:47 AM
as for me ..very simple but yet hard to find..

1) a loving and devoted wife
2) caring and understanding
3) have the trust in you
4) honesty
6) communication
7) respect the elders

orchipalar
15-04-2006, 11:55 AM
as for me ..very simple but yet hard to find..

1) a loving and devoted wife
2) caring and understanding
3) have the trust in you
4) honesty
5) ???????
6) communication
7) respect the eldersErr...dear Alex:)...ya forgot something ar???? :D

kress
15-04-2006, 11:57 AM
must have lots and lots of money? :D

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 12:35 PM
alexhay,

point 5) must be able to have 1/2 dozen of little alexhay. :D :D :D

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 12:37 PM
must respect each other .

letting each other control their own life.

evecyanide
15-04-2006, 12:40 PM
must have lots and lots of money? :D

Not necessarily lah.

Must love me for who I am, cellulite and all :p

Plus points - Knows how to give a good massage ;)

kokomo
15-04-2006, 12:58 PM
Oh yeah, massage .. hehe .. gurls must know how to massage .. then guys won't go to those massage centre so often :D U know'lar day n nite work work work .. back pain la, headache la, stiff neck la .. n etc etc ..

Nowadays where can get gurls as you describe already alex .. no more such gurls la .. part of it can only be fulfilled!

alexhay
15-04-2006, 01:05 PM
Err...dear Alex:)...ya forgot something ar???? :D.

yeah..must respect each other

alexhay
15-04-2006, 01:06 PM
Oh yeah, massage .. hehe .. gurls must know how to massage .. then guys won't go to those massage centre so often :D U know'lar day n nite work work work .. back pain la, headache la, stiff neck la .. n etc etc ..

Nowadays where can get gurls as you describe already alex .. no more such gurls la .. part of it can only be fulfilled!

then i slowly look lorr...what to do

Ginger
15-04-2006, 01:13 PM
A jealous man is an insecure man, likewise for a woman. Agree?

Hello everyone! My first post. :)

Blackgammon, I do not believe in jealousy. It is insecurity in one plain sense of word..and lack of trust. It could turn ugly in certain circumstances. Jealousy kills a person's worth...and it devours the person entirely. Heard of crimes of passion? That's it. :)

kokomo
15-04-2006, 01:21 PM
Welcome to usj.com Ginger! :)

Alex, it's not matter of lookin' slowly or not ... girls nowadays gettin' more materialiase than morality in them la .. vice versa also ..

alexhay
15-04-2006, 01:27 PM
yup i do agree with that statement..been there before....once they see the condition of my car, straight away they are turned off :( :(

kress
15-04-2006, 01:27 PM
Not necessarily lah.

Must love me for who I am, cellulite and all :p

Plus points - Knows how to give a good massage ;)

hmmmm.... i know how to give a good massage... :D

alexhay
15-04-2006, 01:28 PM
Hello everyone! My first post. :)

Blackgammon, I do not believe in jealousy. It is insecurity in one plain sense of word..and lack of trust. It could turn ugly in certain circumstances. Jealousy kills a person's worth...and it devours the person entirely. Heard of crimes of passion? That's it. :)

Hi Ginger....welcome to the forum and do enjoy your stay here :)

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 01:33 PM
Hi Ginger....welcome to the forum and do enjoy your stay here :)
kress,

you better start a massage club, i ' b the first to join ok....

kress
15-04-2006, 01:40 PM
can.... but i kenot do for a long time coz my hands hurt :o

alexhay
15-04-2006, 01:43 PM
ok kress...later u massage me ok...i need a good massage....i think we are getting out of track already..better stop it..i dont want a free banana...sorry arr...

on the other hands, i feel that nowadays is very hard to find one true love... every girls or guys always dream of getting the guy or girl to meet thier criteria....but yet some girls or even guy always wanting more from what they expect...

Jose Mourinho
15-04-2006, 01:50 PM
I feel that nowadays is very hard to find one true love... every girls or guys always dream of getting the guy or girl to meet thier criteria....but yet some girls or even guy always wanting more from what they expect...

True. But that is perhaps nowadays people do not know what True Love really means.

:)

orchipalar
15-04-2006, 01:51 PM
Err...they say...a bit of jealousy due to slight distrust...maybe alright...it might lead to be beneficial to a certain relationship...

Ahem...but a wee bit too much of it can be disastrous...as it would lead to misunderstandings...mistrusts n in worser scenarios...could lead to mischievous deeds.

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 02:10 PM
Nothing is right and wrong in a relationship until someone come in and stir the soup, that's why marriage should be between 2 person only.

Now, guls and guys with stable financial background look for companionship instead of getting married and have kids....... how could one tell they would have problem free marriage until kids are independent (another 20++ years of issurance with no issurance company could take this as business to secure a marriage)

Jose Mourinho
15-04-2006, 02:20 PM
Must love me for who I am, cellulite and all :p

Ya. For me, it is warts and all. :)

evecyanide
15-04-2006, 02:26 PM
can.... but i kenot do for a long time coz my hands hurt :o

Kress. There... Alex is looking for a free massage :)

kokomo
15-04-2006, 02:27 PM
Everyone would and of cos did dream bout their ideal partner but then again when it comes to reality .. if you keep to your prinsip lookin' for an ideal partner then that's very difficult to find .. as in the world nowadays n ppl hv change their ways of lookin' for a partner.

What want can do is .. not to expect anything at all out from a person and you guys and gurls might just fall in love without knowing realising it. Go with the flow is very important.

True what Winnie said here .. there is no right and wrong .. there is only love and don't love. Winnie, of cos there will be stir up .. but if both parties are loyal and devotedly love each other .. how outsider stirs in also it will not shake.

If you can picture yourself being wif your partner for another 20 - 40 yrs down the road having a lovey dovey relationship .. that is love. But sometimes at the moment of time, when a silly nut falls in love .. they're also blind.

evecyanide
15-04-2006, 02:30 PM
Welcome to usj.com Ginger!


Hi Ginger....welcome to the forum and do enjoy your stay here :)

How come I never got such a warm welcome when I joined ar... Tsk, tsk.. you people pilih kasih ar... :p

Jose Mourinho
15-04-2006, 02:31 PM
Love - like everything else in this world, is simple and pure. It is humans who make it complicated and complex.

:)

alexhay
15-04-2006, 02:31 PM
How come I never got such a warm welcome when I joined ar... Tsk, tsk.. you people pilih kasih ar... :p

okok lar...never too late....welcome on board evecyanide...do enjoy your stay....:)

evecyanide
15-04-2006, 02:33 PM
okok lar...never too late....welcome on board evecyanide...do enjoy your stay....:)

Heh heh, better late than never right?

Thanks Alex. U so sweet lah...

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 02:38 PM
Welcome on board to those who board earlier and later, welcome, welcome..... :D :D :D

kokomo
15-04-2006, 02:40 PM
How come I never got such a warm welcome when I joined ar... Tsk, tsk.. you people pilih kasih ar... :p

Eve, you dare to say I pilih kasih ar? :mad: I gave u the warmest welcome more than anyone else leh ... until we nearly kena banana! :eek: :D

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 02:46 PM
Everyone would and of cos did dream bout their ideal partner but then again when it comes to reality .. if you keep to your prinsip lookin' for an ideal partner then that's very difficult to find .. as in the world nowadays n ppl hv change their ways of lookin' for a partner.

What want can do is .. not to expect anything at all out from a person and you guys and gurls might just fall in love without knowing realising it. Go with the flow is very important.

True what Winnie said here .. there is no right and wrong .. there is only love and don't love. Winnie, of cos there will be stir up .. but if both parties are loyal and devotedly love each other .. how outsider stirs in also it will not shake.

If you can picture yourself being wif your partner for another 20 - 40 yrs down the road having a lovey dovey relationship .. that is love. But sometimes at the moment of time, when a silly nut falls in love .. they're also blind.
With a simple stir in our tea, coffee, drinks, it taste better, with many stir /blend it become milk shake, so which is your choice of stir in love ? kokomo......

Best of all, when falling in love, both party blind, but once quarrel it's just like eve and adam, see each other better.

I like simple stir in my love story, or even many stir / blend in my love story as thought as I accept all changes. I like yellow roses but I don't mind having red, white, blue, pink, orange and etc. When I accept thing can be more pretty than what I can see. Sometimes it's just how we look at everything.......

kokomo
15-04-2006, 02:53 PM
With a simple stir in our tea, coffee, drinks, it taste better, with many stir /blend it become milk shake, so which is your choice of stir in love ? kokomo......

Best of all, when falling in love, both party blind, but once quarrel it's just like eve and adam, see each other better.

I like simple stir in my love story, or even many stir / blend in my love story as thought as I accept all changes. I like yellow roses but I don't mind having red, white, blue, pink, orange and etc. When I accept thing can be more pretty than what I can see. Sometimes it's just how we look at everything.......

Winnie, milk shake sounds good! :D Agree wif your view / maybe your true life experience :confused:

Sometimes this simple stir / many stir helps us to see 'd other half better .. how good a person he is and so on .. agree? Yes, arguement will be there but then depends how is it like being argued. Yes? No?

Most of the complicated relationship are coming from ppl whom are fussy with what they wanna hv / be with their partner.

Like they say, simple ppl ... simple mind, fussy ppl .. twisted mind!!! I don't know how true it is but then it just came across my mind. :cool:

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 03:05 PM
.... Yes, arguement will be there but then depends how is it like being argued. Yes? No?

Only if someone could try to argue accordingly rather than digging from the past 10 to 20 days, months, years.

I always draw myself a "to argue list", so I argue, point added, point deduct everything is within the limit and solved. Because I could always be non-sense at all time.

So for those who don't know how to argue, be extra careful with "if this is the case, we could just separate or divorce......." this hurt both party.....remember during argument or quarrel, nobody would have EQ and IQ, don't expect if the other party to be cool, both party may not realise what they have said earlier, best still if someone have gun would just kill the other party accidently.....

But I always say, love is too lonely without our love one to talk too and argue, without the other party, we may not know what love's all about. :p :p

orchipalar
15-04-2006, 03:21 PM
Love - like everything else in this world, is simple and pure. It is humans who make it complicated and complex. :)Err...hopes you are NOT suggesting that humans seek fishes in the oceans...or cheetahs n
hyenas... (http://ww2.netnitco.net/users/legend01/hyena.htm)on the land as their companions...?

kokomo
15-04-2006, 03:37 PM
Only if someone could try to argue accordingly rather than digging from the past 10 to 20 days, months, years.


Above statements mostly comes from the ladies .. when in time of arguement. :)

Yes, if in point of arguement .. either side so happen accidentally slip words like "let's separate / divorce" that's a very bad thing to say & definitely hurt either side .. but mostly towards ladies ya.

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 03:48 PM
So I always try to close my mouth - water tap tight, to avoid further mistake...

kokomo
15-04-2006, 03:54 PM
So I always try to close my mouth - water tap tight, to avoid further mistake...

Hehe .. nvm Winnie , close your mouth but continue to post in here oke? ;)

leewinnie46
15-04-2006, 04:20 PM
kokomo, that's what I'd been doing......

Jose Mourinho
15-04-2006, 05:10 PM
Err...hopes you are NOT suggesting that humans seek fishes in the oceans...or cheetahs n on the land as their companions...?

No ar. A person with minimum IQ would not have come up with such a conclusion ar. Only an imbecile would ar. And since I am not the imbecile here, it only leaves with one other person who is ar.

:)

Ginger
15-04-2006, 05:17 PM
True. But that is perhaps nowadays people do not know what True Love really means.

:)

Hello Jose. Do you know what true love is?

To alex kokomo and evecyanide. Thanks for your warm welcome. I hope to stay. :)

evecyanide
15-04-2006, 06:08 PM
Eve, you dare to say I pilih kasih ar? :mad: I gave u the warmest welcome more than anyone else leh ... until we nearly kena banana! :eek: :D

U never said 'eve, wlcome to usj.com' wor :p

baby
15-04-2006, 10:09 PM
Just wondering:

What are your criterias for choosing a husband/wife?



How about great lovemaking.

forumer
15-04-2006, 11:19 PM
a good sex life plays an important part in one's marriage. It actually connects the husband and wife together. Love is passionate, love is intimate.

But there are still marriage that works without sex or with minimum sex, and it seems fine. My questions:
1. It seems fine because it has to be fine? because they have no choice but to stay together? (for whatever sake, be it family sake, religion sake, responsibility sake)
2. Or their sex life was good in the initial stage and eventually faded, and by then their relationship has already been upgraded to another level, a level beyond man-woman love, perhaps to a family level, hence they could live with minimum sex?

I always wanted to ask ppl, but reckon that ppl might not feel comfortable answering this question face-to-face, that:


How often do you have sex? (with your bf/gf or husband/wife)
Maybe we should categorise answer into different groups, like in a new relationship (<1year), 2 to 3 years relationship, 3 to 4 years relationship, etc ... and newly wed (<1year), married for 2-3 years with children, married for 2-3 years without children, married 3-5 years with children, etc, etc.

orchipalar
16-04-2006, 02:44 AM
Love - like everything else in this world, is simple and pure. It is humans who make it complicated and complex.
Err...hopes you are NOT suggesting that humans seek fishes in the oceans...or cheetahs n
hyenas...on the land as their companions...?
No ar. A person with minimum IQ would not have come up with such a conclusion ar. Only an imbecile would ar. it only leaves with one other person who is ar.Err...it is obvious that Orchi wasn't concluding anything to begin with...guess who has made up his mind...in the first place...:)

Ginger
16-04-2006, 06:04 AM
Originally Posted by Jose Mourinho
No ar. A person with minimum IQ would not have come up with such a conclusion ar. Only an imbecile would ar. it only leaves with one other person who is ar.


Err...it is obvious that Orchi wasn't concluding anything to begin with...guess who has made up his mind...in the first place...:)

From what I have gathered and understand, the moderator will not condone any form of name-calling on this Public Forum.
Point is, if Jose Mourinho doesn't know Orchipalar in person at all, he has no right to pass such judgement about him (name-calling?) in a public forum, or anywhere at all for that matter. Imbecile means idiotic and a fool.

blackgammon
16-04-2006, 08:30 AM
Ooi, trying to hijack my thread ah?

kwchang
16-04-2006, 03:06 PM
My analysis is that Orchi was baiting Jose with his statement about animals in response to Jose's statement on making things complicated. I saw no connection between the 2 statements and why Orchi had to say that.

However, Jose retaliated with snide remarks about imbeciles which Ginger picked up.

What do we have here besides a massive headache for me?
We have 2 people going for each other's necks. This had been simmering for some time and it was getting to a boil sooner or later. It is unfortunate that Jose does not attend the TT sessions, otherwise we could solve the matter over some coffee or tea. Hence I will start with some overipe bananas from the plantation.

If both of you insist on fighting, I need plantation workers for a few days.

kokomo
16-04-2006, 03:42 PM
To alex kokomo and evecyanide. Thanks for your warm welcome. I hope to stay. :)

Errr .. shouldn't be saying something like I will stay?!?!? :confused:


U never said 'eve, wlcome to usj.com' wor

If that makes you feel more welcome than me .. personally yum cha wif you then ok'lor .. Eve, welcome to usj.com ;) Happy Anot? Hehe .. :p Happy Easter to you!

kokomo
16-04-2006, 03:43 PM
How about great lovemaking.

Hmmm .. there are so many ways ppl see it in love making .. how would you wanna define it? Passionate? Style? Endurance? :confused:

kokomo
16-04-2006, 03:46 PM
a good sex life plays an important part in one's marriage. It actually connects the husband and wife together. Love is passionate, love is intimate.

But there are still marriage that works without sex or with minimum sex, and it seems fine. My questions:
1. It seems fine because it has to be fine? because they have no choice but to stay together? (for whatever sake, be it family sake, religion sake, responsibility sake)
2. Or their sex life was good in the initial stage and eventually faded, and by then their relationship has already been upgraded to another level, a level beyond man-woman love, perhaps to a family level, hence they could live with minimum sex?

I always wanted to ask ppl, but reckon that ppl might not feel comfortable answering this question face-to-face, that:


How often do you have sex? (with your bf/gf or husband/wife)
Maybe we should categorise answer into different groups, like in a new relationship (<1year), 2 to 3 years relationship, 3 to 4 years relationship, etc ... and newly wed (<1year), married for 2-3 years with children, married for 2-3 years without children, married 3-5 years with children, etc, etc.

Hi forumer, welcome to usj.com .. I believe your question .. not many will answer you in public here .. maybe they'll just PM you. ;)

evecyanide
16-04-2006, 04:41 PM
Eve, welcome to usj.com ;) Happy Anot? Hehe .. :p Happy Easter to you!

Aah.... very happy... :D

janelim
16-04-2006, 05:13 PM
However, Jose retaliated with snide remarks about imbeciles which Ginger picked up.



Obviously, it looks like a newbie grasps the rules of the forum quickly huh?

:o

Jose Mourinho
16-04-2006, 05:18 PM
It is unfortunate that Jose does not attend the TT sessions, otherwise we could solve the matter over some coffee or tea.

Na. You got it wrong. It is not that I do not attend the TT sessions but that I do not believe in it at all.


Ginger picked up.

:)

janelim
16-04-2006, 05:20 PM
Hence I will start with some overipe bananas from the plantation.


Hi kwchang,
Just out of curiosity ok. Why is the BANANA for Jose in upper caps,
while banana for Orchipalar in lower caps...?

:confused:

blackgammon
16-04-2006, 09:09 PM
Bananas come in different sizes?

kwchang
16-04-2006, 11:52 PM
Hi kwchang,
Just out of curiosity ok. Why is the BANANA for Jose in upper caps,
while banana for Orchipalar in lower caps...?

No pileh kasih here actually. My PC remembers all the banana modes I had used before (just like it remembers your password in your logins) and it so happens the part on slandering was done in uppercase. I overlooked that typo when I created that banana quite a while ago. Actually only Jose needed the banana as he called Orchi an imbecile but I gave orchi one for good measure since there was an element of instigation there as well.

Jose Mourinho
17-04-2006, 12:05 AM
Actually only Jose needed the banana as he called Orchi an imbecile but I gave orchi one for good measure since there was an element of instigation there as well.

Remarks such as this is certainly not helpful in maintaining decorum in the forum but I shall refrain from pursuing it as it is no longer important to me. However, since you mentioned that there was a typo, then may I respectfully requested that my BANANA be changed to Banana?

Thank you.

:)

janelim
17-04-2006, 12:25 AM
wow. I think kwchang also need a banana everyday too. hey, i mean the real banana ok. (pisang la). read this....

"Bananas are one of our best sources of potassium, an esssential mineral for maintaining normal blood pressure and heart function. Since the average banana contains a whopping 467 mg of potassium and only 1 mg of sodium, a banana a day may help to prevent high blood pressure "

Surely we dont want our kwchang to have high BP at the end of the day ya.

:cool: :cool:

kokomo
17-04-2006, 01:19 AM
Aiseh, Chang .. we wanna continue to post regarding the topic of this thread la .. not all this !!!

Wanna banana another forumer who prolonged this arguement issue of banana anot? :D

Errr .. janelim, maybe you would hv something to post regarding this thread arh? :rolleyes:

TQ. :)

janelim
17-04-2006, 10:58 AM
ooops gone a little bananas last night. ;)
Thanks for the reminder kokomo. I guess one of the criterias I wish for is that he will be a person full of humor like kokomo. ;)

//cheers

in
17-04-2006, 11:06 AM
I believe a persons criteria for husband/wife depends on the persons age.

When I first met loh-kong, we were both 18 year olds with not a care about the future. ie. money, house, job etc. What was important is spending as must time together as possible and that we would grow old together.

But when I talk to my single 30-something friends, they are looking for someone with either a good job, or a high salary, or with house etc. Basically they are looking for someone 'stable' (whatever that means.)

evecyanide
17-04-2006, 11:49 AM
I guess stable nowadays would mean having a permanent job with a considerable high amount of pay? Having to own one's house and car perhaps?

PeterHng
17-04-2006, 11:54 AM
High income must mean Net Income ya and not with so much liability that every month he'd bring back negative income ... :p

kokomo
17-04-2006, 12:52 PM
I guess one of the criterias I wish for is that he will be a person full of humor like kokomo. ;)

//cheers

:o Paiseh!! hehe .. anyway, stable job .. high income .. so many things to own , so many things to pay! :( That's the saddest part of life and being wif a partner having so much burden still ....

I guess most ppl , their best time of love and lookin' for a partner was their first love huh?!?! :rolleyes: Gettin' all excited and thrill bout each other .. :)

evecyanide
17-04-2006, 12:54 PM
First love, huh? Those were the days :)

janelim
17-04-2006, 01:06 PM
I guess most ppl , their best time of love and lookin' for a partner was their first love huh?!?! :rolleyes: Gettin' all excited and thrill bout each other .. :)

until.....one fine day, at 2am when you get up from bed to go washroom to pee pee........and what do you see.. :confused:

somekinda of white object soak in a glass of water at the sink and you yell for your life... :p

kokomo
17-04-2006, 01:11 PM
somekinda of white object soak in a glass of water at the sink and you yell for your life... :p

Gosh! jane, you reminded me of my phobia again .. :eek: tissue in the cup wif bailey's ... :mad: drank it till 1/3 of the cup ..

Does anyone mind guys wif lots of white hair .. losing hair ... big tummy ... as their lifetime partner? I know only a minority of ladies that dun mind and majority of them mind bout it .. furthermore, $$$$$

evecyanide
17-04-2006, 01:18 PM
I like my hubby's tummy :p When no pillows in sight, his tummy doubles as my pillow :D

kokomo
17-04-2006, 01:22 PM
Aiya .. u married oledi then no need to say'lar ... I mean still in midst of courtship ma ..

I think most ladies before can even get them close only .. they start wearing their joggin' shoes and run liao ..

evecyanide
17-04-2006, 01:27 PM
Not all ladies go for rock hard, six pack tummies lah... What's wrong with having a tummy? I mean, it's part and parcel of life... part of being human. No one's perfect mah... I for one, even when I was single, didn't mind guys with paunches. :)

blackgammon
17-04-2006, 03:21 PM
I prefer chubby man too :D more things to hug. :p

KakiLang
17-04-2006, 03:21 PM
Err...how about the following 8 'C(s)'...yes Orchi added 4 more 'C(s)'...in no certain order...

1. Character
2. Carat
3. Car
4. Condo
5. Credits from Banks
6. Cash
7. Career
8. Charisma

Ahem...there may be more 'C' added to the list...anyone cares to comment or suggest...?

What abt these 5S most of the men (or all?) r looking for in a woman:

1. Sexy
2. Sassy
3. Slim
4. Seductive
5. Submissive

True or not? Men & Women out there..... :D :D :D :D :D

alexhay
17-04-2006, 03:26 PM
I prefer chubby man too :D more things to hug. :p

dont know if there is more blackgammon around or not so that kokomo and myself will have more chances :)

orchipalar
17-04-2006, 03:49 PM
1. Sexy
2. Sassy
3. Slim
4. Seductive
5. Submissive
6. ???

True or not? Men & Women out there..... :D :D :D :D :DErr...dear KakiLang:)...Orchi could only think of another character to add to your list of desirable wife criterias...

'Die'...!:D

kokomo
17-04-2006, 04:01 PM
dont know if there is more blackgammon around or not so that kokomo and myself will have more chances :)

Errrmm .. Alex, soon I no longer will fit those "chubby" catergory la .. me wanna be fit again! hehe .. I say man should not go for what ladies desire in a guy but instead be what you desire yourself to be :cool:

chin_wan
17-04-2006, 04:21 PM
2 words my friends....2 words!

BIG BOOBIES!!!

blackgammon
17-04-2006, 04:23 PM
alex, too bad I don't have any sister, but I have a daughter, if you don't mind waiting .... :D

if a person likes you, she should take you as who you are, right?

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 04:36 PM
alex, too bad I don't have any sister, but I have a daughter, if you don't mind waiting .... :D

if a person likes you, she should take you as who you are, right?

agree , she or he should take you as who you are not what you have ....... love is simple

alexhay
17-04-2006, 04:37 PM
alex, too bad I don't have any sister, but I have a daughter, if you don't mind waiting .... :D

if a person likes you, she should take you as who you are, right?

yes i agreee...but nowadays u know larr...girls like guys with nice figure.:(:(


kokomo...so lets work out together larr

kokomo
17-04-2006, 04:40 PM
Ahem! Alex, you workout in the field and you cycle so regular ..

Me jz wanna be in the gym wif those machines .. & sauna .. must not forget that .. hehe ..

Waahh .. chin wan, u say big boobies only arh? If ladies hv those but without brains then DIE'lar ...

blackgammon
17-04-2006, 04:41 PM
2 words my friends....2 words!

BIG BOOBIES!!!

fake or real one?

kokomo
17-04-2006, 04:45 PM
blackgammon, I must ask you this .. how old is your baby girl? I know winnie's child is around 10 yrs of age .. so wait for another 10 yrs then can liao .. but if yours is only < 1 yrs of age then hv to wait very long leh ... hehe .. :p

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 04:48 PM
IF BIG BOOBIES is what guy ask for, then ladies make sure this guy is there to support this ladies, otherwise she will fell off easily

PeterHng
17-04-2006, 04:53 PM
LOLROTF LOL SM!!

kokomo
17-04-2006, 04:59 PM
IF BIG BOOBIES is what guy ask for, then ladies make sure this guy is there to support this ladies, otherwise she will fell off easily

haha .. Winnie arh .. need to ask you , really arh .. ladies wif big boobies not balance wan arh? Do you guys think , clumsy girls are cute ar? Or vice versa :confused:

chin_wan
17-04-2006, 05:07 PM
Srsly...I think the quote from below says it all:

A successful man is a man who can earn more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is a woman who can find that man.

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 05:09 PM
kokomo, body imbalance, what you expect...... imagine you weight is 60kg, which big boobies might take around 4-5kg....

a pregnant lady with 15 kg gain , do you think she can handle the 15kg easily ?

but a lady with big boobies carry it for the whole life.... what make you think she can handle it well.... ????

a friend with nature big boobies told me that she can't get her size unless it's in USA, if we went for a long buffet meal, we would eventually sit at corner where nobody would see how she rest big boobies on the table with her shoes - high heel

kokomo
17-04-2006, 05:11 PM
chin wan, I think that quote of yours applies to ladies ..

for the men, I guess the quote should be like this:-

A successful man is man that can find a wife don't spend so much of his money!

:)

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 05:12 PM
Srsly...I think the quote from below says it all:

A successful man is a man who can earn more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is a woman who can find that man.

A happy woman is a woman who spend life to the fullness
A happy man is a man who spend time looking for such woman.

kokomo
17-04-2006, 05:14 PM
kokomo, body imbalance, what you expect...... imagine you weight is 60kg, which big boobies might take around 4-5kg....

a pregnant lady with 15 kg gain , do you think she can handle the 15kg easily ?

but a lady with big boobies carry it for the whole life.... what make you think she can handle it well.... ????

a friend with nature big boobies told me that she can't get her size unless it's in USA, if we went for a long buffet meal, we would eventually sit at corner where nobody would see how she rest big boobies on the table with her shoes - high heel

:eek: Got 4-5kg so heavy anot? Gosh! If I got such lady arh .. I think I hv to build myself to support her .. "chubby" guys won't help much .. like me now :o

kokomo
17-04-2006, 05:16 PM
A happy woman is a woman who spend life to the fullness
A happy man is a man who spend time looking for such woman.

But these happy woman, spending life to the fullness - alone or wif the other half first? If alone then no point for a man spending time lookin' for such woman wor ...

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 05:18 PM
kokomo, it's all because of protein for muscle and big boobies also mah..... otherwise what is the content inside.....can't be water only

kokomo
17-04-2006, 05:19 PM
kokomo, it's all because of protein for muscle and big boobies also mah..... otherwise what is the content inside.....can't be water only

All my friend and some other girls told me .. that is FATS!!! No water, no milk .. right? :confused:

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 05:32 PM
what the feeling of touching a balloon full of water.... ???

of course it's not water and milk lah, it's muscle, fat and etc loh

kokomo
17-04-2006, 05:42 PM
It cannot be muscle Winnie .. then it would be hard! :eek:

I would say pure fats ... :)

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 05:52 PM
kokomo, It should be a combination of fat, lobules, nipple, areola, ducts and muscle.

evecyanide
17-04-2006, 05:52 PM
Boob talk ar?

kokomo
17-04-2006, 05:54 PM
Hehe .. Eve, Winnie is giving me a minor education on it only .. as to speak , part of man's criteria would be having big boobies .. as quoted by chin_wan~!

So what do you think? :confused:

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 05:54 PM
eve, a lesson to learn only since kokomo wanted to know further.....

Jose Mourinho
17-04-2006, 05:57 PM
Hehe .. Eve, Winnie is giving me a minor education on it only .. as to speak , part of man's criteria would be having big boobies .. as quoted by chin_wan~! So what do you think? :confused:

My personal view is that if one of man's criteria for marriage is to have a woman with big breasts, then I suggest he goes to the field and looks for a cow.

:)

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 06:05 PM
Jose, you almost choken me to death... but good say. :eek: :p :D

so chin wan, go to the field and looks for a cow ok.... :D :D :D :D :D

If we expect a lot from our partner, our partner would have expect from us too, but if we respect our partner, you earn respect from them too.

kokomo
17-04-2006, 06:06 PM
kokomo, It should be a combination of fat, lobules, nipple, areola, ducts and muscle.

Ok Winnie, I'm a nut in all these'lah .. hehe .. :o

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 06:11 PM
kokomo, i 'm nuts too..... same same ok, i just happen to google

kokomo
17-04-2006, 06:17 PM
Winnie, sometimes ... we respect the partner but then the other half dun respect us .. how? Susah la .. tis is alwiz the case that is happening ..

leewinnie46
17-04-2006, 06:22 PM
kokomo, give love sometimes, thing can't change in days but it will eventually change

Jose Mourinho
17-04-2006, 06:22 PM
Winnie, sometimes ... we respect the partner but then the other half dun respect us .. how? Susah la .. tis is alwiz the case that is happening ..

Kokomo. Important question to ponder. Why doesn't your partner respect you in return? Why? Oh why? I always believe in asking the right questions and sometimes the truth hurts tremendously but if we do not want to know the truth, then we would forever be blind.

:)

kokomo
17-04-2006, 06:33 PM
Well, Jose & Winnie, good question why ppl don't respect us in return .. maybe they're possessive of us being too friendly to others? Feelin' insecure .. no sense of confident! These are the negative ppl .. I definitely will avoid such person.

aRwEn
17-04-2006, 09:40 PM
as for me ..very simple but yet hard to find..

1) a loving and devoted wife
2) caring and understanding
3) have the trust in you
4) honesty
6) communication
7) respect the elders


errr... y hard 2 find? most of d galz i know hav those qualitiez worrr.... hehe... ;)

aRwEn
17-04-2006, 09:41 PM
Jose, you almost choken me to death... but good say. :eek: :p :D

so chin wan, go to the field and looks for a cow ok.... :D :D :D :D :D




tn he will git 6, not juz 2 of tm.... hehehe....
:D

aRwEn
17-04-2006, 09:42 PM
Winnie, sometimes ... we respect the partner but then the other half dun respect us .. how? Susah la .. tis is alwiz the case that is happening ..


hmm.... i thk dat if a person 1st respectz tmselvez n carriez tmselvez well, they wil receive respect wun lorrr.... :)

Jose Mourinho
17-04-2006, 10:06 PM
What abt these 5S most of the men (or all?) r looking for in a woman:

1. Sexy
2. Sassy
3. Slim
4. Seductive
5. Submissive

True or not? Men & Women out there..... :D :D :D :D :D

Kakilang. Are you looking for a wife or a playmate?

:)

kokomo
18-04-2006, 12:52 AM
hmm.... i thk dat if a person 1st respectz tmselvez n carriez tmselvez well, they wil receive respect wun lorrr.... :)

I agree to that ..

kwchang
18-04-2006, 01:20 AM
tn he will git 6, not juz 2 of tm.... hehehe....
:D
Aiyah, you didn't do Biology did you?
The Moo-moo has only 4 teats. Let me know if you find one with 6 - we will organise a photography excursion on the spot for that ! :D :)

baby
18-04-2006, 03:24 AM
Aiyah, you didn't do Biology did you?
The Moo-moo has only 4 teats. Let me know if you find one with 6

Sorry to shatter your beliefs Chang. Cows also have the rights to have extra teats..and horns.

written by a dairy farmer :D

leewinnie46
18-04-2006, 08:48 AM
Aiyah, you didn't do Biology did you?
The Moo-moo has only 4 teats. Let me know if you find one with 6 - we will organise a photography excursion on the spot for that ! :D :)

Zoology student is right..... with the picture to proof

http://www.dpiwe.tas.gov.au/inter.nsf/Images/LBUN-5BV9VZ/$File/faf_cupsonteats.jpg (http://www.dpiwe.tas.gov.au/inter.nsf/Images/LBUN-5BV9VZ/$File/faf_cupsonteats.jpg)

aRwEn
18-04-2006, 09:10 AM
Aiyah, you didn't do Biology did you?
The Moo-moo has only 4 teats. Let me know if you find one with 6 - we will organise a photography excursion on the spot for that ! :D :)


oops... unca chang.... typed wrongly lorrr.... come to think of it, i think i nearly typed 8!!! hehehe.... :o

kokomo
18-04-2006, 09:21 AM
Hehe .. now you all still wanna discuss bout cow's tits ar .. ??? Disgusting man .. aren't we talkin' bout criteria for husband & wifey material arh? What happen to them? Made to turn into cow? heheh .. :p

KakiLang
18-04-2006, 09:26 AM
Kakilang. Are you looking for a wife or a playmate?

:)

Perhaps a wife-cum-playmate... :D :D :D

kokomo
18-04-2006, 09:29 AM
Hahah .. that's how to prolonged or even increases the relationship between husband & wife huh?!?! hehe ..

Good one .. wife-cum-playmate .. :rolleyes:

KakiLang
18-04-2006, 09:31 AM
Hehe .. Eve, Winnie is giving me a minor education on it only .. as to speak , part of man's criteria would be having big boobies .. as quoted by chin_wan~!

So what do you think? :confused:

Kokomo, ever heard Cantonese sayings "ball dai mou nou" or "big bosom women hv no brains" ah?? :D :D :D

kokomo
18-04-2006, 09:33 AM
that's what I've been tryin' to say yesterday nite la .. kakilang .. u also agree wif me huh?!?! ..

Gimme 5 man ... !!! :D

CCY
18-04-2006, 09:40 AM
Whatever physical assets the wife or husband have is useless if it is no put into good use later on. The shine will turn dull if not polish regularly. Some may be so organised that there is a time n schedule set for everything leaving no room for any surprises that will give the party a boost.

So do any of you have a set of criteria to choose your partner to be, knowing that most assets they have now will become dull or unsustainable later on?
Still feel that , the warmth of courtship n the bond of that moment , will override those criteria n put it on the backburner. Only later ...very much later ...that the realisation of making that mistake is felt but too late to be able to correct it. Live with it when it comes , wart n all...

leewinnie46
18-04-2006, 09:42 AM
Kokomo, ever heard Cantonese sayings "ball dai mou nou" or "big bosom women hv no brains" ah?? :D :D :D
i suppose everyone has their potential special ability and wisdom..... that await for other to realise......

mon
18-04-2006, 10:01 AM
Moo moo ? What criterias seriously. Should there be criterias when one chooses his/her life partner. I've always thought that loving someone comes naturally. Oh well, of course the other aspects count.. like the 5cs 6cs 2BBs? However..when you have really started liking someone for who and what they are, warts fats penniless and all..nothing else seems to matter much. If both have truly fallen in love, they would wanna change..be better for one another. So why worry. Unless we are being too choosy ar..hence mr right of ms right would always seem too distant. Hey, even the best suited couples have their problems ya..

There's always someone for everyone.. that's what I've always believed.

janelim
18-04-2006, 10:36 AM
What do we have in us? If we have the love inside us, it will radiates with love. If we have the animal instincts inside us, it will zoom out the moomoo instincts.
I caught this revelation from a friend recently over high tea. Many people look for criterias in the person they are looking for. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. But have we ever thought of this that we want to GIVE our very best, our love, our sharing to the next person who will be life partner as long as we can on planet earth. I came home still pondering on that statement?
;)

KakiLang
18-04-2006, 10:45 AM
Moo moo ? What criterias seriously. Should there be criterias when one chooses his/her life partner. I've always thought that loving someone comes naturally. Oh well, of course the other aspects count.. like the 5cs 6cs 2BBs? However..when you have really started liking someone for who and what they are, warts fats penniless and all..nothing else seems to matter much. If both have truly fallen in love, they would wanna change..be better for one another. So why worry. Unless we are being too choosy ar..hence mr right of ms right would always seem too distant. Hey, even the best suited couples have their problems ya..

There's always someone for everyone.. that's what I've always believed.

I've been hearing this...
"Why ask me to change for u...just to suit ur character ah? If u love me, u shud accept me for what I am..." :D :D

leewinnie46
18-04-2006, 10:49 AM
... GIVE our very best, our love, our sharing to the next person who will be life partner as long as we can on planet earth........
;)

Ask the same question to our life partner ...!! He or She is working harder to offer certain basic living for ourself, and what we are pouring out is just an answer back to the question of love.

Isn't this is just a part of what love is all about ?

kress
18-04-2006, 11:09 AM
kress's criteria for a gf/wife/mate is someone simple, understanding, has a sense of humour and most importantly can "click" with me :o ... boob size not important :D

orchipalar
18-04-2006, 11:18 AM
I've been hearing this...
"Why ask me to change for u...just to suit ur character ah? If u love me, u shud accept me for what I am..." :D :DErr...yes buddy heard that too often...n this one too...

Ahem..."it takes two to tango...":)

kokomo
18-04-2006, 11:30 AM
Obviously, nowadays being in loves do comes wif a certain career, prospect, financial stability & etc ..

Unlike those days .. keep talkin' bout how romantic it can be .. how fairy tale it can be .. cos at the end of the day, comes back to reality here that .. after 10-20 yrs down the road .. 1 might jz blame the other for jz knowing how to love n not knowing to earn for a better living ..

Or they might jz teach their children to grow up and find a better man than jz knowing how to love u but dunno how to find money back home .. then in d end .. family suffer .. tis is very common issue here.

Those that are young .. still can hv time to go around know more guys n girls to see a wider view on current type of relationship ..

evecyanide
18-04-2006, 11:38 AM
Kokomo, ever heard Cantonese sayings "ball dai mou nou" or "big bosom women hv no brains" ah?? :D :D :D

"Leng chai mo pun sam" :D Dunno how to transtale to english :o

alexhay
18-04-2006, 11:43 AM
"Leng chai mo pun sam" :D Dunno how to transtale to english :o

handsome guy also no heart

evecyanide
18-04-2006, 11:45 AM
handsome guy also no heart

Thanks Al ;)

KakiLang
18-04-2006, 12:21 PM
Alex, Kokomo, Orchi, Kress...
We no handsome guys, so we hv BIG HEARTS.... :D :D :D

blackgammon
18-04-2006, 12:49 PM
Perhaps a wife-cum-playmate... :D :D :D

usually a good playmate is not a good husband/wife, right?

Kokomo, my baby is only 5 months old, :p, so you have to wait for a least 20 years, by then you will be a middle-age man already ...

evecyanide
18-04-2006, 01:15 PM
Alex, Kokomo, Orchi, Kress...
We no handsome guys, so we hv BIG HEARTS.... :D :D :D

"We"? You speak for the rest of the guys too ar? Nanti they knock you on the head ar.. :p

chin_wan
18-04-2006, 02:18 PM
Wow....this thread is quickly turning into R-rated.

Quick, someone SPANK ME!

kokomo
18-04-2006, 03:20 PM
usually a good playmate is not a good husband/wife, right?

Kokomo, my baby is only 5 months old, :p, so you have to wait for a least 20 years, by then you will be a middle-age man already ...

haha .. well, sometimes playmate not necessary are not a good wife /husband la .. some which is not playmate also like that ma ..

blackgammon, i'm already reaching mid-age la .. summore another 20 yrs .. sigh! :o btw, i do sound young huh?!?! ;) :cool:

kokomo
18-04-2006, 03:22 PM
Wow....this thread is quickly turning into R-rated.

Quick, someone SPANK ME!

Waaa .. you so notti in here :eek: So prefer forumer to do it for u or you wan Chang to do it? hehe .. :p

PeterHng
18-04-2006, 04:17 PM
chin_wan is growing horns liao ... :D

kokomo
18-04-2006, 04:23 PM
Hmmm .. sign of growin' up also .. :)

chin_wan
18-04-2006, 04:32 PM
For those who are materialistic....

I don't have much money but boy if I did
I'd buy a big house where we both could live
I know it's not much but it's the best I can do
My gift is my song and this one's for you
And you can tell everybody this is your song
It may be quite simple but now that it's done
I hope you don't mind that I put down in words
How wonderful life is while you're in the world

KakiLang
18-04-2006, 04:34 PM
usually a good playmate is not a good husband/wife, right?

More often then not, she/he is a third party....very unfortunate...
Those who hv a wife-cum-playmate should be very lucky... :D :D

KakiLang
18-04-2006, 04:37 PM
"We"? You speak for the rest of the guys too ar? Nanti they knock you on the head ar.. :p

Ya...gotta wear a helmet when I meet them next TT liao...... :D :D

leewinnie46
18-04-2006, 04:51 PM
Dear My Husband,

Remember this : -

Love me and love our kids.
Love me and love our parents.

This is a simple way for you to whisper "I love U" everyday.

Jose Mourinho
18-04-2006, 05:22 PM
Criteria for Choosing a Wife?

I have none actually.

But I believe that there is a need in all of us to have a place to hide or store certain memories, thoughts, impulses, hopes and dreams. These are the parts of our lives that we can't resolve or act upon, but at the time, we are afraid to jettison them. For some, this is a physical place; for others, it is a mental space, and for a few it is neither. For me, it is neither either. I can self-induce myself into thinking and wanting of nothing.

:)

forumer
18-04-2006, 09:04 PM
Waaa .. you so notti in here :eek: So prefer forumer to do it for u or you wan Chang to do it? hehe .. :p

spank spank spank, you want pretend spank or real spank? :D

aRwEn
19-04-2006, 12:52 AM
usually a good playmate is not a good husband/wife, right?



hmm... on d contrary, part of bein a good spouse, iz 2b a gud playmate!! hehehe.... :D

if both of u dun have fun together nor enjoy each otherz company, tn how to live wit each othr 4 d rest of ur livez worr???
;)

blackgammon
24-04-2006, 11:32 AM
my top five criterias:
- patient (as I am quick-tempered)
- good heart (like giving food to stray dogs and cats, :p)
- respect my parents
- don't get jealous easily
- good in ....

kokomo
24-04-2006, 11:43 AM
So blackgammon, is the man of yours already fulfill it anot? heheh ..

Good heart .. giving food to stray dogs & cats? I thought not killing them or blasting them in pieces is already considered good heart! hehe ... :p

lilifjp
24-04-2006, 12:22 PM
Hello blackgammon & kokomo.

Not very good idea to feed stray cats/ dogs. I used to feed two stray cats last year and they multiply very quickly. Now there are 2 stray cats + 7 baby kittens roaming around my house. Not to mention extra stray dogs now :(

My criteria are ;
1. Tall
2. Stable Job
3. Loving
4. Homely
5. Patience
6. Must come back straight home after work everyday :D (joking !)
7. No need to be handsome :D ( good looking guys gives me a headache !)

mon
24-04-2006, 12:25 PM
7. No need to be handsome :D ( good looking guys gives me a headache !)

So true. No wonder I'm having headaches everyday. :D

Let's see..my criteria(s)..well, good in.....funny ( but not a clown) ..wise (this is very sexy but not arrogant)...thoughtful (knows when to leave me alone but remains faithful when he's on his own)...appreciates my music (even if he doesn't understand any of it)...loves scary movies (even if he is scared to death)...and someone, who loves dogs. I mean really loves dogs. :)

kokomo
24-04-2006, 12:35 PM
Aiseh .. I'm almost there ... so near yet so far! :( Hehehe ... handsome guys give you ladies headache huh ... no wonder I don't get women close to me these days. :D

Most men nowadays, after work go pub or coffee shop for some drinks. They hv develop phobias of going straight home after work ..... since they got married .... :eek: :p Hahahah .....

Jose Mourinho
24-04-2006, 12:35 PM
Although the thread is about what you want and not what you hope to be able to give, I am quite amazed that people have produced list after list of what they want in a partner. Shouldn't they be looking at themselves (not necessarily in the mirror because the mirror always lies) and ponder seriously what they themselves have to offer first?

:)

Jose Mourinho
24-04-2006, 12:37 PM
Most men nowadays, after work go pub or coffee shop for some drinks. They hv develop phobias of going straight home after work ..... since they got married .... :eek: :p Hahahah .....

Kokomo. I am glad you qualified your comment with the word 'most'. I never go to pub or coffee shop for drinks (or anything) after work. I always go straight home. Even before marriage, I went straight home as well. Now, does that make me boring? Perhaps.

:)

kokomo
24-04-2006, 12:39 PM
Jose, I do agree wif you but then again, usually ... what we hope to get is not what usually we got. Right? ;)

Out of the list, if we're able to get a partner that fulfills it 30 - 40% , we should count our blessings already. Normally only 10% we got it and out of that we got only 5% that is fulfilled.

kokomo
24-04-2006, 12:41 PM
Kokomo. I am glad you qualified your comment with the word 'most'. I never go to pub or coffee shop for drinks (or anything) after work. I always go straight home. Even before marriage, I went straight home as well. Now, does that make me boring? Perhaps.

:)

I too go straight home after work ... since my line is entertaining ppl. I get to drink most of the time. Haha ... boring or not depends how you manage to entertain yourself. If you feel is oke. Then I guess you're not that boring after all. :)

JackRyan1975
24-04-2006, 12:45 PM
Although the thread is about what you want and not what you hope to be able to give, I am quite amazed that people have produced list after list of what they want in a partner. Shouldn't they be looking at themselves (not necessarily in the mirror because the mirror always lies) and ponder seriously what they themselves have to offer first?

This made me think. Analogous to this is the issue of unemployed graduates. These are mainly made up of people who first and foremost look at what a company could offer them, rather than impress on how they can contribute to the company. Often times, it is people who can articulate their strengths and weaknesses well that got the job. Not people who asks for the fringe benefits early in an interview. I think it makes sense to apply this to our interpersonal relationships as well. Thank you, Jose.

mon
24-04-2006, 12:49 PM
Although the thread is about what you want and not what you hope to be able to give, I am quite amazed that people have produced list after list of what they want in a partner. Shouldn't they be looking at themselves (not necessarily in the mirror because the mirror always lies) and ponder seriously what they themselves have to offer first?

:)

Many like to chat about stuffs like this..finding their perfect partner. :) But many a times, what we have in our existing partners are good enough. Minds go wild once in a while. I think it's perfectly alright. When tomorrow comes, one might even bother if the one sleeping beside him/her is a loud snorer or stinky farter or even penniless. When you start loving someone, everything seems to fall in place..and it would be perfectly natural.. Don't you think? :)

kokomo
24-04-2006, 03:34 PM
Hmmm .. seems like a criteria for a man/woman in here is just a dream of hope which neva fall into places for everyone. Don't ya think so?

mon
24-04-2006, 03:48 PM
Hmmm .. seems like a criteria for a man/woman in here is just a dream of hope which neva fall into places for everyone. Don't ya think so?

Yes..I think so..

mon
24-04-2006, 04:08 PM
Many like to chat about stuffs like this..finding their perfect partner. :) But many a times, what we have in our existing partners are good enough. Minds go wild once in a while. I think it's perfectly alright. When tomorrow comes, one might NOT even bother if the one sleeping beside him/her is a loud snorer or stinky farter or even penniless. When you start loving someone, everything seems to fall in place..and it would be perfectly natural.. Don't you think? :)

Missed a word. Sorry.

kokomo
24-04-2006, 04:23 PM
Most important thing is .. however we are also .. our other half should be able to accept us as we are and compromise along the way. :cool:

KakiLang
24-04-2006, 04:32 PM
Most important thing is .. however we are also .. our other half should be able to accept us as we are and compromise along the way. :cool:

I think "To tolarate as what we are..." is more appropriate :D :D :D

kokomo
24-04-2006, 04:33 PM
Thank you KakiLang. Been thinkin' of that word. :o

leewinnie46
24-04-2006, 05:47 PM
I think "To tolarate as what we are..." is more appropriate :D :D :D

Learning to accept our partner is different than what we once think of , you like him/her because they are unique :D

Always left some space for our love one, they can do anything they want to (with/without us). Encourage them to maintain their friendship even after married.

Just my one cent thoughts :D

KakiLang
24-04-2006, 06:44 PM
I agree with u, Winnie

In my opinion, before we "learn" to accept our partners, we need to tolarate their "uniqueness" first...this is how we go thu the courtship.. :) :)

patwon
24-04-2006, 07:02 PM
we have to choose the entire opposite characters so as to complement each other.Like if you are poor,look plain,inactive.introvert,than you should choose or concentrate on rich,beautiful or handsomes,ever social mate to spice up your life.

leewinnie46
24-04-2006, 07:05 PM
Kokomo. I am glad you qualified your comment with the word 'most'. I never go to pub or coffee shop for drinks (or anything) after work. I always go straight home. Even before marriage, I went straight home as well. Now, does that make me boring? Perhaps.

:)

Jose, my another half did the same even if I encourage him to go gathering with friends. The minutes he step in our home sweet home, he will never go out with friend unless emergency.

Remember what the cartoon in Ice Ace show - "Ai Siao Hai De Nan Ren, Xi Ku Jia De Nan Ren" (A man who love kids, a man who care about family). My kids replay this many times and I recall them well.

Instead of singing "Shi san zhi yio ma ma hao", (Greastest of mom in this world) , my another half sing "Shi san zhi yio pa pa hao (Greastest of dad in this world).

I think that's humour of life in my family. :D :D :D

kokomo
24-04-2006, 07:52 PM
Tolerate their "uniqueness" huh .. hehe .. i guess that's the startin' point of where u began to like them ... right?

So does anyone here ... care to share how you actually get attracted wif your partner in the first place? Cos of what? He being a heroic sort of guy? He cooks good food? He humours you? What is the first thing that caught your attention and you're hook to them till now .. ???

evecyanide
25-04-2006, 01:27 PM
What is the first thing that caught your attention and you're hook to them till now .. ???

He gave me a shoulder massage.... sigh... hooked on him eversince... ;)

kokomo
25-04-2006, 02:14 PM
Shoulder massage? Waaa ... shiok-nya you ... I told while doing that, he would say something ***** then you get hooked on to him. :D

evecyanide
26-04-2006, 08:18 AM
He'd whisper sweet nothings in my ear.... sigh.... :D

kokomo
26-04-2006, 09:17 AM
Aiseh .. like that also can. Girl like you can consider obsolit oledi. :D Mana mau cari lagi .. :confused:

evecyanide
26-04-2006, 09:22 AM
Memang dah tak ada.... Extinct already :p

kokomo
26-04-2006, 09:38 AM
Sad very SAd!!!! :( But then again, only girls like you'lah alwiz get taken away first. You see, you hot item. :)

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 10:53 AM
Don't worry lah , you will find your one day..... trust me, she may be just around the corner, eying on you

kokomo
26-04-2006, 03:41 PM
Winnie, seriously am never worried at all. ;)

AppLePie
26-04-2006, 04:21 PM
The qualities that im seeking for in a man is to have:

1) A rich mind
2) A kind soul
3) Action speak louder than words
4) Ambitious and hard working
5) A person who can teach me, lead me, guide me and be my mentor...

:p :p :p

KakiLang
26-04-2006, 04:38 PM
The qualities that im seeking for in a man is to have:

1) A rich mind
2) A kind soul
3) Action speak louder than words
4) Ambitious and hard working
5) A person who can teach me, lead me, guide me and be my mentor...

:p :p :p

I thought at least he must be interested in salsa..No?? :D

kokomo
26-04-2006, 05:26 PM
The qualities that im seeking for in a man is to have:

1) A rich mind
2) A kind soul
3) Action speak louder than words
4) Ambitious and hard working
5) A person who can teach me, lead me, guide me and be my mentor...

:p :p :p

Hmmm .. you can get high priest, monk, PHD lecturer, public speaker, SPCA President! hehe .. you choose. :p

Jose Mourinho
26-04-2006, 05:33 PM
Hmmm .. you can get high priest, monk, PHD lecturer, public speaker, SPCA President! hehe .. you choose. :p

Kokomo. You make me laugh so much. I like your sense of humour. Thank you.

kokomo
26-04-2006, 05:47 PM
Jose, I'm only giving Apple what she requested for. :)

Thanks for your appreciation on my joke. Hardly anyone can laugh at it.

AppLePie
26-04-2006, 05:48 PM
I thought at least he must be interested in salsa..No?? :D


Ohh ya har, how could i forget? Kekekek. so which means that whether he dance or not is not tht important coz i was not even in my mind.....

kokomo
26-04-2006, 05:52 PM
Apple, meaning when it comes to dancing .. you would not prefer to dance with your partner. Right?

Any girls that is looking for a guy that is not so rich in mind? But rich in pocket. Hehe ...

AppLePie
26-04-2006, 05:52 PM
Hmmm .. you can get high priest, monk, PHD lecturer, public speaker, SPCA President! hehe .. you choose. :p


Ya, i think PHD lecturer, public speaker and SPCA president sound attractive enoght! At least im not seeking for rich, good looking, tall, fit, and with all the C's C's C's ok?

KakiLang
26-04-2006, 05:58 PM
Ya, i think PHD lecturer, public speaker and SPCA president sound attractive enoght! At least im not seeking for rich, good looking, tall, fit, and with all the C's C's C's ok?

In this case, Alex & Kokomo perfectly match ur criteria... :D

kokomo
26-04-2006, 06:02 PM
Errmm ... indirectly, ambitious & hardworking guys will earn his Cs.

KakiLang, I'm no PHD, public speaker & esp SPCA President. I'm just a normal fella .. sittin' in front of this monitor surfing usj.com forum and posting in here.

AppLePie
26-04-2006, 06:02 PM
Apple, meaning when it comes to dancing .. you would not prefer to dance with your partner. Right?

Any girls that is looking for a guy that is not so rich in mind? But rich in pocket. Hehe ...


Well ofcoz if he sings or dance will be an added bonus to me lo, but if he doesnt, he can hear me sing and watch me dance! Hahaha....

It is not necessary that he must like dancing, so long he likes watching me dancing is good enough! :p

kokomo
26-04-2006, 06:05 PM
Watching you sing and dance is not added bonus. That's a sacrifice. :p

AppLePie
26-04-2006, 06:09 PM
Errmm ... indirectly, ambitious & hardworking guys will earn his Cs.

KakiLang, I'm no PHD, public speaker & esp SPCA President. I'm just a normal fella .. sittin' in front of this monitor surfing usj.com forum and posting in here.

That is INDIRECTLY will but without guarantee rite? Then why dont i just list and find DIRECTLY those already with the C's?

Kokomo, dont be so humble lehh, you know you are a shinning star arent you?
:p

kokomo
26-04-2006, 06:13 PM
That is INDIRECTLY will but without guarantee rite? Then why dont i just list and find DIRECTLY those already with the C's?

Kokomo, dont be so humble lehh, you know you are a shinning star arent you?
:p

Nothing in life is being guarantee. Be it you find directly or not.

Haha .. Apple, I didn't know you look highly upon me like a shining star.

TQ! :)

AppLePie
26-04-2006, 06:19 PM
Nothing in life is being guarantee. Be it you find directly or not.

Haha .. Apple, I didn't know you look highly upon me like a shining star.

TQ! :)


You are very much welcome! :p

orchipalar
26-04-2006, 07:35 PM
Hardly anyone can laugh at it.Err yes...Orchi doesn't see anyone else...laughing away...

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 08:00 PM
Hi ,

to all forumer, weather you with c or s, God still love and bless you every second. :D :D :D :D :D

KakiLang
26-04-2006, 08:40 PM
Errmm ... indirectly, ambitious & hardworking guys will earn his Cs.

KakiLang, I'm no PHD, public speaker & esp SPCA President. I'm just a normal fella .. sittin' in front of this monitor surfing usj.com forum and posting in here.

Congrates!! u just got ur PHD......keep surfing & posting in front of ur monitor will make u Permanent Head Damage :D :D

KakiLang
26-04-2006, 08:45 PM
Nothing in life is being guarantee. Be it you find directly or not.

Haha .. Apple, I didn't know you look highly upon me like a shining star.

TQ! :)

Kokomo the lucky & shining star......she is giving out positive signals.... :p :p

Jose Mourinho
26-04-2006, 08:47 PM
Hi to all forumer, weather you with c or s, God still love and bless you every second. :D :D :D :D :D

Yes. Many of us are haunted and hounded by little demons inside us. Once we chase out these demons and get rid of them, then we will only see goodness in people and open our eyes to a beautiful world.

:)

orchipalar
26-04-2006, 09:57 PM
Yes. Many of us are haunted and hounded by little demons inside us. Err...such a sweeping statement is baseless n uncalled for...n perhaps being out of place in here...

Jose Mourinho
26-04-2006, 10:00 PM
Err...such a sweeping statement is baseless n uncalled for...n perhaps being out of place in here...

Orchipalar. Never mind. It is indeed a beautiful and cool evening. You have a nice evening.

:)

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 10:14 PM
Yes. Many of us are haunted and hounded by little demons inside us. Once we chase out these demons and get rid of them, then we will only see goodness in people and open our eyes to a beautiful world.

:)

Jose,

I admitted that it had happen to me and it was once I really feel very uneasy when seeing ppl laughing, smiling, but I love to watch people argue, quarrel and fight.

Nowsaday, I think I have chase some of those tiny, little demons out :D and I see a beautiful world........ What a wonderful world (background song from Louis Armstrong) :D :D

PeterHng
26-04-2006, 10:22 PM
The qualities that im seeking for in a man is to have:

1) A rich mind
2) A kind soul
3) Action speak louder than words
4) Ambitious and hard working
5) A person who can teach me, lead me, guide me and be my mentor...

:p :p :p

AppLePie, I hope you are not looking for a big brother only niah ha. Afterwards break a lot of hearts how .... ;)

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 10:35 PM
Peter,

ApplePie want to find a dream man....... why you come in and kacau..... you want me to qiang qiang and sho sho ah :D :D

PeterHng
26-04-2006, 10:40 PM
Peter,

ApplePie want to find a dream man....... why you come in and kacau..... you want me to qiang qiang and sho sho ah :D :D

Don wan, don wan, your blinking eyes sudah cukup liao .... :D ;) :o :p

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 10:44 PM
I want I want....... blinking more eyes on you :D :D :D :D :D

PeterHng
26-04-2006, 10:48 PM
Your blinking eyes perpetual one, how come? Not tired one ah ... Sorry for the digression, we are discussing abt Criteria (or criterium?) for choosing a spouse leh... so stay on course winnie. Nanti kena Chang banana or chibana I don know ah .... :D :D

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 10:52 PM
Above is applepie criteria mah...... unless she break your heart :D ...oh oh , somebody got broken heart...... :D :D

PeterHng
26-04-2006, 10:56 PM
haiya, we tokkok only ma where got broke broke heart one ... Hey I married liao la ... Don go & tempt me la, nanti susah wor .... :o :o :o

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 11:00 PM
aiyo, we talk only mah..... broken heart also virtual broken heart mah.......

nvm lah, we sweet talk lah...... i only can blink eyes lah..... why so scard one :D . ... lu kia kia ler :p :p ....

PeterHng
26-04-2006, 11:08 PM
Virtual or not, nanti really really got entangled how .... don play play ah ....

I ching chia kia la blinking blinking one .... :o :rolleyes:

leewinnie46
26-04-2006, 11:12 PM
You only can fall in love with my avatar ok........ entangle also my avatar ok, play play also my avatar only.....so you want more blink blink eyes ah...... :D :D

I can only afford to have maximum two only :D :p :)

laichi
27-04-2006, 12:20 AM
Who do not want all the best out of their future wife/husband?
Everyone wants trust & respect from the other half as well as being caring, loving, understanding, rich, good looking...etc...

But lets face reality...nobody's perfect...i think it all boils down to chemistry..
Men fall in love with what they see...women fall in love with what they hear...
:p

PeterHng
27-04-2006, 09:05 AM
Who do not want all the best out of their future wife/husband?
Everyone wants trust & respect from the other half as well as being caring, loving, understanding, rich, good looking...etc...

But lets face reality...nobody's perfect...i think it all boils down to chemistry..
Men fall in love with what they see...women fall in love with what they hear...
:p

Hello, u and maylinechua seemed to share the same ip ... from GPRS ?? ;)

AppLePie
27-04-2006, 09:27 AM
Very well said laichi..... Chemistry..... :p

kokomo
27-04-2006, 09:57 AM
chemistry? What is that? Science for love? :D

Anyway, your point is agreeable. Put in the inperfect to make a perfect couple. Match make from heaven? :rolleyes:

evecyanide
27-04-2006, 12:37 PM
Opposites attract :)

kokomo
27-04-2006, 12:40 PM
Yea, opposites attract huh .. this is what happens when you set any criteria also tak jadi when chemistry take place. A lady that is so talkative, will get a husband that is quiet, won't fight back (argue), listen to everything the wife says, indecisive & the list goes on.

evecyanide
27-04-2006, 01:24 PM
If both parties are as stubborn as a mule, very hard to get the relationship working cos neither is willing to give up. Both also wants to be the winner.

AppLePie
27-04-2006, 02:39 PM
yup yup i totally agree with opposites attraction..... Only that can strike the balance.....

AppLePie
27-04-2006, 02:48 PM
I find that a couple do not have to have everyting in common, it is so boring.... Wouldnt it be nice if you get to learn up diff and new interests from each other?

kokomo
27-04-2006, 02:53 PM
IN a relationship if both parties hv nothing in common at all also susah. Cos very hard to communicate and do certain activities together. You might not be able to understand and share burdens together. True?

mon
27-04-2006, 02:59 PM
I find that a couple do not have to have everyting in common, it is so boring....

Not necessarily so. Having similar interests could be fun. For example, dancing and swaying to the music together. :) Fighting for that big tub of cheapo ice-cream together. Having a good workout together. Watching a nice movie together. Have both stomachs growling at the thought of bak kut teh. Crying together when a pet dies. And the never ending laughter, that wrinkles both noses, at the silliest thing each other does or says. Together. :)

kress
27-04-2006, 03:01 PM
I find that a couple do not have to have everyting in common, it is so boring.... Wouldnt it be nice if you get to learn up diff and new interests from each other?

too different also cannot... must be different enough yet can communicate with you... otherwise very the susah lor.

leewinnie46
27-04-2006, 03:07 PM
If both parties are as stubborn as a mule, very hard to get the relationship working cos neither is willing to give up. Both also wants to be the winner.
Nowsaday women have very good IQ and EQ

For examples.
1)
Previously,

Honey (Darling or Name) I want to eat MC Donald ...

Today,

Honey (Darling or Name ) Where are you bringing me out for lunch ?
Your spouse will ask you, where do you want to go for lunch ?

(Eventually he get respect from you, you get what you want to eat, both party win) :)

2) If you have a lot of meeting and can't afford to come back in time, facing a real angry spouse.

Previously : I am also have the earning power ...
Today : You know Honey (Darling or Spouse), I have make a very wise decision in my whole life.
Your spouse : What's that ?
You : I choose you to be my spouse, I could even heard the whisper of love from you.

(Eventually he get respect from you, you get what you want to eat, both party win) :)

3) When your spouse start to comment / complaint on you..
Think this way : He/ She is such a caring person, who don't mind to remind you, how to improve in cooking / child care / cleaning / etc.... without he/her, you would be facing the wall alone everyday. :D

AppLePie
27-04-2006, 03:35 PM
IN a relationship if both parties hv nothing in common at all also susah. Cos very hard to communicate and do certain activities together. You might not be able to understand and share burdens together. True?


I do agree with you kokomo..... But with a lil differences, it will be quite interesting too..... Just like my friend and her husband, my friend is very much into dancing (teaching, performance & competition) and the husband is not a dancer, but he follows her for her outting whenever he can and get to know lots of knowledge on dancing. He likes it a lot but he doesnt dance..... Isnt that sweet?

kokomo
27-04-2006, 03:47 PM
I do agree with you kokomo..... But with a lil differences, it will be quite interesting too..... Just like my friend and her husband, my friend is very much into dancing (teaching, performance & competition) and the husband is not a dancer, but he follows her for her outting whenever he can and get to know lots of knowledge on dancing. He likes it a lot but he doesnt dance..... Isnt that sweet?

Ladies will think its sweet. But men will see it differently. But its interesting to see you dance. That's a fact! Truth, I won't follow a girl where ever they go dancing. Haha ... :D

AppLePie
27-04-2006, 03:51 PM
Not necessarily so. Having similar interests could be fun. For example, dancing and swaying to the music together. :) Fighting for that big tub of cheapo ice-cream together. Having a good workout together. Watching a nice movie together. Have both stomachs growling at the thought of bak kut teh. Crying together when a pet dies. And the never ending laughter, that wrinkles both noses, at the silliest thing each other does or says. Together. :)


Hehehe, tht sounds fun though!! Ermm, i guess whether same common or not, it boils down to fate i suppose.... Kekeke..... Let God decides lo...... So pening.....

KakiLang
27-04-2006, 04:00 PM
yup yup i totally agree with opposites attraction..... Only that can strike the balance.....

Introvert + Extrovert? Rich + poor? Fatman + slim lady? Ugly woman? + Handsome man? :D :D

kokomo
27-04-2006, 04:01 PM
If you say fate and chemistry .. how do you know he/she is yours? DO you feel excited and look fwd to see him? Are you constantly, thinkin' of him? And all other lil things he do.

aRwEn
27-04-2006, 04:01 PM
hmm.... mayb complementary (or opposite) personality but similar interestz wud b a gud optionz lorrr..... :)

eg:
talkative guy likez quiet gal who iz gud listener.... n vice versa.... if both talkativ, nobody wud b listenin.... if both quiet, nobody talkin... kekeke.... :D
hot-temperd guy likez patient n calm gal.... n vice versa... if both hot-temperd, end up alwiz fightin lehhh :eek:

kokomo
27-04-2006, 04:05 PM
Introvert + Extrovert? Rich + poor? Fatman + slim lady? Ugly woman? + Handsome man? :D :D

Errr .. like your case how? Handsome man + Pretty lady? hehe .. ;)

AppLePie
27-04-2006, 04:06 PM
Ladies will think its sweet. But men will see it differently. But its interesting to see you dance. That's a fact! Truth, I won't follow a girl where ever they go dancing. Haha ... :D

Thanks for your compliment kokomo...... Well, if tht gal is someone tht you truely love and a good performer, probably you will enjoy going dancing with her? Maybe to keep her away from ham sup lo :p ? :p You can even catch up with friends at the same place in stead of going seperately for outting.... Can compromise one mah.... Lets say if my future one is into something which i do not really like, but i wouldnt mind putting in my effort to learn the basic of it so tht we speak the same language.... If he loves and play football, doesnt mean tht i have to join him for the game, at least i learn to know the basic knowledge of the ball game, good enough lo.... I look at it nothing to lose for me and i get to learn something new... Win win situation..... Why ppl find that both parties who has nothing in common is hard to live with? Would that be becoz both are too selfish to compromise and to learn from each other? I also dont know the answer....

KakiLang
27-04-2006, 04:07 PM
My case is Hamsap man + pretty lady..... :D :D

kress
27-04-2006, 04:09 PM
well... it's not selfish but sometimes if you don't like something you just don't.... susah lar... once or twice is ok but if it's long term how?

kokomo
27-04-2006, 04:13 PM
Thanks for your compliment kokomo...... Well, if tht gal is someone tht you truely love and a good performer, probably you will enjoy going dancing with her? Maybe to keep her away from ham sup lo :p ? :p You can even catch up with friends at the same place in stead of going seperately for outting.... Can compromise one mah.... Lets say if my future one is into something which i do not really like, but i wouldnt mind putting in my effort to learn the basic of it so tht we speak the same language.... If he loves and play football, doesnt mean tht i have to join him for the game, at least i learn to know the basic knowledge of the ball game, good enough lo.... I look at it nothing to lose for me and i get to learn something new... Win win situation..... Why ppl find that both parties who has nothing in common is hard to live with? Would that be becoz both are too selfish to compromise and to learn from each other? I also dont know the answer....

For me, personally .. depends how a girl can persuade me to join them. If not, I don't mind they wanna go where they wanna go. I can alwiz arrange my own plans with friends. But if all friends can be at 1 place of cos is a good thing. But somehow rather, still need some privacy for ourselves to be with our friends or something we like to do.

kokomo
27-04-2006, 04:15 PM
My case is Hamsap man + pretty lady..... :D :D

Hmmm .. I wonder should I sent to her to read this part? Nah, she knows you better'lah :cool:

evecyanide
28-04-2006, 07:37 AM
Ladies will think its sweet. But men will see it differently. But its interesting to see you dance. That's a fact! Truth, I won't follow a girl where ever they go dancing. Haha ... :D

Kokomo. I bet if the girls were to dance in bikinis, you'd agree to follow her faster than I can say Kokomo! :D True or not? :p


My case is Hamsap man + pretty lady.....

KakiLang. Tsk, Tsk... hamsap only to her nevermind, don't hamsap to others ar :p

kokomo
28-04-2006, 03:27 PM
Kokomo. I bet if the girls were to dance in bikinis, you'd agree to follow her faster than I can say Kokomo! :D True or not? :p

KakiLang. Tsk, Tsk... hamsap only to her nevermind, don't hamsap to others ar :p

Eve, then you hv to practice to call me faster than I can follow the bikini girls. :p Anyway, I'm gettin' old .. movement also not very smooth. Knee problem lagi. How'lah you want me to follow those young bikini girls?!?! :rolleyes:

Dun worry KakiLang eyes only hamsap to 1 person and that's it. Well, maybe when she is around only? :confused: :D :p Tonite we go wash eyes again. ;)

leewinnie46
28-04-2006, 05:00 PM
wash eyes ah, where ah....mana..... didn't put notice 1....... :p

evecyanide
29-04-2006, 02:24 AM
Eve, then you hv to practice to call me faster than I can follow the bikini girls. :p Anyway, I'm gettin' old .. movement also not very smooth. Knee problem lagi. How'lah you want me to follow those young bikini girls?!?!

Kokomo. I ask you to watch and wash eyes only what... never ask you jogek with them mah.... :p

mon
29-04-2006, 03:04 AM
Kokomo. I bet if the girls were to dance in bikinis, you'd agree to follow her faster than I can say Kokomo! :D True or not?
Kokomo. I ask you to watch and wash eyes only what... never ask you jogek with them mah.... :p

Heeheehee....eve..you crack me up! :p